I’m An Asian Woman Engaged To A White Man And, Honestly, I’m Struggling With That

Huffington Post ^ | February 2, 2019 | Tria Chang

[Big Giant Air Head]

Indeed, I am not. However, I’m not above looking to other countries either.

Everyone having their own circumstances, I blame none here.
Having read every post, the majority are addressing anyone who cares to read, as is standard for open forum. The rest are responses.

Though distasteful ( I certainly find it so), open discussion of sexual preferences and opinions is far from abnormal in current society.
It speaks more to comfort in ability to speak their minds than that everyone they speak to is white or male.

In fact, you’ll notice a faint theme in the comments.
For their troubles, and/or whatever else, they are expected to continue their search amongst the same, by the same.
They are judged immediately, presumed to be fetishists or undesirables, slandered by so called “friends” and acquaintances, maligned by others not even physically present, etcetera, if they do otherwise.

Men and women have always compared each other. The only thing different from history is women having their comparisons and opinions socially mainstreamed and made into law, many times to the detriment of men.
Which speaks volumes, whilst not straying far from historical views of women needing protection.

I will admit being guilty of turning to semi-anonymous forums to express opinions that would likely have disproportionate effects in my personal and professional life were they voiced. However, many posters here do this.
It’s an outlet used to voice an opinion that may or may not be popular, with the added benefit of finding like minds.

Can you really blame them?

[ViLaLuz]

My white dad married my Asian mom. It worked out fine. They’ve been married for 60 years so far.