May and October are actually the nicest times to be out there, October in particular since the ocean temps are still warm. That is, if there arent any big storms around. Roll of the dice on that. I suggest running up to Duck or Corolla north of there, very nice. Check to see whats open though, many restaurants and attractions may not have opened for the season yet because of all the Covid crap, Dare County was closed to nonresidents for the duration. If youre there, theyve reopened though, I suppose.
Had dinner in Duck last night! Red Sky