Posted on 11/30/2021 5:13:42 AM PST by C19fan
I've been happily married for over 35 years. I'm fortunate that I have a wife who tries to keep me happy.
If I have any advice to younger men, it is this:
1) True "love" can best be defined as "the willingness to make an effort to improve the happiness and well being of the loved one". If someone is not interested in working at making you happy, despite your best efforts to make her happy, then face the fact that she doesn't love you, and you should move on.
2) Don't marry a woman because you are sure you love her. Marry only if you are really sure SHE loves YOU.
3) Beauty fades. Personality remains. Seek happy women. Avoid unhappy women, because some day she will decide that her unhappiness is all your fault.
...and these women seem to not understand why millions of white guys are looking for chicks from halfway around the world (or have them already).
Cats! Their future is cats!
“Should I bring a ruler?”
Does it have a centimeter scale?
Gay men trapped in women’s bodies.
Yep, women are picky today. They make more than men. It used to be ugly women were at the bottom of the totem pole. Now it’s ugly men. 50-60 years ago a ugly male could find a decent looking wife if he had status, a good job etc because the woman needed to survive.
No longer the case. A woman will remain single and self sufficient rather than marry down. If you are an ugly male today you are screwed
Agree a little, not entirely.
A woman who is really interested in you, will be interested in having sex with you. If you are dating a woman who wants to defer sex, and you find out she has been sexual with other guys, MOVE ON. She's not interested in you, but may be interested in your wallet.
A prostatectomy will take care of that.
"I'll sock it to ya, Daddy!" - Bertha Butt
Other than penis size (which was typically not known ahead of time) women have always done this.
Worst place ever
I have lived in small towns, medium towns and big cities, and one thing always is true, in every town/county/city there is a church where all the singles go and what happens there would make a Hollywood soap opera writer blush.
SO the last place you want to go to meet a good partner is a Church
More accurately, a slut is a woman who tries to use sex to get men to associate with her, who otherwise would not be interested in talking to her if sex was not offered.
But you bring up an important point on how a woman demonstrates how much she values her man.
If she considers you high-value, she will want sex with you and not with others.
If she considers you low value, then she will not be interested at all. If your wife has lost all interest in sex with you, it doesn't necessarily mean that she has lost interest in sex, just not with you. Plan accordingly.
I’m gonna save your post, useful.
That was a classic! I laughed my fool head off, particularly at the Unicorn Zone. Thanks for posting!
Should be renamed the American Cat Farmer” channel
Not necessarily.
Since so many people promote the idea that church is the place to go wife hunting at, women who are realizing that their period of max desirability is behind them may go to church to find some sucker to nail down to support them, and any bastard spawn they may have acquired.
Tell your kids an ancient proverb: "Fortune favors the bold". A person who is excessively afraid of what others may think, will never succeed.
Creepy: displays of interest from somebody the "creeped out" person considers undesirable. Work at being desirable (hit the gym, become fit, become literate, work at being a good conversationalist) and you won't be regarded as "creepy".
” Work at being desirable (hit the gym, become fit, become literate, work at being a good conversationalist)”
Some however cannot even do that, and are doomed to have to work with what they got, sad but thats life I guess.
Tape measure?
My son is gorgeous and fit and still talks about how eye contact can be considered creepy.
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