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Why sex on the first date is a good idea: Relationship expert slams 'old fashioned' mentality and urges singles to get it on right away
UK Daily Mail ^ | January 18, 2023 | Louis Allingham

Posted on 01/18/2023 2:50:02 AM PST by C19fan

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To: C19fan

How true. Women have a natural longing to be wives and mothers and yet they sabotage their longing for what God places in their hearts. They choose to behave like tramps and so they are. Men also deny a longing to protect and defend defend a worthy woman. How sad that neither will allow the beauty of romance and passion of married love to be part of the good life our creator meant for us to experience.


41 posted on 01/18/2023 5:09:13 AM PST by scottiemom (As a retired Texas public school teacher, I highly recommend private school. Written in 2015.)
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To: Armscor38

A Mean spirited comment, not sure why.

Are you the perfect catch? Are you perfect in all your relationships?

The only person who can boast a perfect life of relationships is one who married in childhood and never broke up. I think it’s safe to say they are rare.


42 posted on 01/18/2023 5:14:29 AM PST by Phoenix8
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To: C19fan

Doing a quick look around, she is a slut who espouses “anything goes” for everyone, whether or not that is healthy for anyone. She posts pics of herself in sexual poses, reviews and possibly sells sex toys, and has a real affinity for pansexual, polysexual, multi-partner hookups.

She’s disgusting, but stupid women who only want to gratify themselves take her advice as “empowering”, much to the delight of any guy looking for cheap, easy sex.


43 posted on 01/18/2023 5:15:08 AM PST by CaptainPhilFan ( )
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To: Jaysin
I’d bust my nut all over her chest, pull my undies up, toss her a finn or two as a thank you and go on with my day.

Thank you for weighing in on this important matter, Jaysin.

Your thoughtful and insightful comments are always appreciated!

Regards,

44 posted on 01/18/2023 5:16:10 AM PST by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: Brooklyn Attitude
“Relationship expert” trying to justify why so many young women have become bed hopping sluts.

Because the guys are.

What's the derogatory term form men who do the same thing, again?

Oh, that's right. It's OK for them to do it because they are guys. They only condemn in women what they allow for themselves.

45 posted on 01/18/2023 5:16:49 AM PST by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith….)
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To: C19fan
Anybody else notice the negative correlation between the number of so-called relationship experts and the percentage of lonely people.

It doesn't take a rocket scientist for anyone with a clear sense of right/wrong and a minimum set of morals and principles to see that this is an extremely bad idea and anyone who follows that so-called "relationship experts" advice is not only going to end up lonely, they'll also very likely acquire at least one (or more) long-term sexually transmitted diseases as a reminder.

46 posted on 01/18/2023 5:18:49 AM PST by usconservative (When The Ballot Box No Longer Counts, The Ammunition Box Does. (What's In Your Ammo Box?))
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To: RoosterRedux

Bingo!

Goes back to even the very early days of Reds in America - then abortion was a preferred way to break these bonds and flout moral and legal constraints.


47 posted on 01/18/2023 5:19:05 AM PST by larrytown (A Cadet will not lie, cheat, steal, or tolerate those who do. Then they graduate...)
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To: C19fan

100% traditional here. Married 30 years. No debt. Big nest egg. Willing to bet most of these experts are miserable in their own lives, they’re similar to guidance counselors in school, losers.


48 posted on 01/18/2023 5:19:27 AM PST by teevolt
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To: Jolla
no wife, lots of sex, more drugs

But I imagine that hanging around the Men's Room down at the bus station at 2 in the morning, propositioning the shadowy characters skulking around there, can get to be a drag, sometimes!

Regards,

49 posted on 01/18/2023 5:19:46 AM PST by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: 38special
I’ll stick with the third date rule...

What's that?

Ride 'em like a rented mule for three dates, and then ghost 'em?

Regards,

50 posted on 01/18/2023 5:21:01 AM PST by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: alexander_busek

My wife of 33 years and I waited until we were both comfortable with each other before we had sex. I can see both points to the argument, but I’m a bit more old fashioned.


51 posted on 01/18/2023 5:27:42 AM PST by EQAndyBuzz (“Racist” is the new “Nazi”.)
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To: Armscor38; Phoenix8
I will say in my life the women/girls I had the deepest emotional relationships with were also the ones we had mutual physical attraction.

Yeah, those 38 women/girls I had deep emotional relationships with were also the ones with whom I had mutual physical attraction.

And my biggest failures were the ones who refused to even go on a "coffee-date" with me.

Regards,

52 posted on 01/18/2023 5:27:50 AM PST by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: C19fan
Taking advice from a therapist "from New York" is looking for validation of one's behavior.

This therapist knows her market.

53 posted on 01/18/2023 5:29:33 AM PST by T.B. Yoits
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To: RoosterRedux

That, and especially women, it can wear down ones self-respect. Those without self-respect are much more inclined to lower themselves to do things that those with self-respect may not. Additionally, the State has many more pliable.


54 posted on 01/18/2023 5:29:36 AM PST by vivenne
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To: Phoenix8
The only person who can boast a perfect life of relationships is one who married in childhood and never broke up.

Are you Muslim, or something?!

Regards,

55 posted on 01/18/2023 5:30:29 AM PST by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: C19fan

Yup, right. Anytime a man or woman meet up, they should just get it on. Make diseased sluts out of each woman and condition the man that sex is meaningless so if he gets married he continues that little trait of banging anything resembling a female.

They’ve already got people crapping in streets of SF in broad daylight. Why not have people screwing one another at the table of a restaurant too? I mean, what’s wrong with having sex while waiting for the food to come out?


56 posted on 01/18/2023 5:31:25 AM PST by redfreedom (You can vote your way into socialism, but you may have to shoot your way out.)
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To: vivenne

.....many more pliable subjects.


57 posted on 01/18/2023 5:32:19 AM PST by vivenne
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To: redfreedom

You’ve summed up their plan.


58 posted on 01/18/2023 5:33:13 AM PST by vivenne
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To: alexander_busek

I consider up to 21 a child.


59 posted on 01/18/2023 5:34:37 AM PST by Phoenix8
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To: EQAndyBuzz
My wife of 33 years and I waited until we were both comfortable with each other before we had sex.

Yes, one should always first assume a comfortable position before having sex!

At least we agree on that!

Regards,

60 posted on 01/18/2023 5:34:41 AM PST by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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