Posted on 10/31/2023 1:35:03 PM PDT by grundle
Help him pack.
Don’t give him a dime.
It is not uncommon to have a spouse help to pay off a college loan.
It is a nice, marriage solidifying action, and what one would expect in a marriage.
But Boyfriend? Girlfriend? One would have to an absolute, moronic idiot to even consider this.
Of course, I see this is oriented towards a segment of society that has a childbirth out of wedlock rate of greater than 80%, so perhaps this is the only option for them.
Still. You would have to be a total loser, dumbass to even consider this for a “boyfriend”.
Run away from him as fast as humanly possible.
My lawyer wife quit working a month before we got married and I got to pay her law school student loans off. It happens. But not outside of marriage, unless you’re a born sucker.
Run for the hills!
dont let him leave you
kiss his ass to the curb
hard
How fortunate she is to hear this now in such an in your face manner. DUMP that CHUMP.
Let him leave.
That was what I was thinking. Even if he was the nicest, clean, attractive, intelligent man, putting that kind of condition on it must break through the shell of stupidity.
I just cannot imagine someone being stupid enough to do this. Maybe they aren’t stupid. Maybe they are desperate to even consider it.
But if you are that desperate, an emotional predator will pick right up on that and leverage it to the hilt.
He’s telling you he’s a parasite and loser without actually saying it.
What man would insist his girlfriend pay off his bills? No decent man would do this. A spoiled, entitled user would do this. Better to be rid of this cockroach now than be kicking yourself later.
She already sees the red flags and knows the answer, she just wants others to confirm the decision
Sad what’s become of the modern male. Also sucks for the natural woman and the family. Feminism/Rats are much to blame for this.
Absolutely. I would have done it for my wife, and she would have done it for me.
But outside of marriage? There is no circumstance I can think of to justify that.
He’s gonna leave you anyway.
No man who really loves his girlfriend would play that card.
He’s just parking his manhood with you til he finds a better option.
You should too.
If you’re not married, the answer is a hard “no”. In fact, the fact that he even floated the idea with a shadow ultimatum is grounds for an immediate dumping.
Get him the heck out of your life! Change the lock, get a new telephones number and if you like dogs and would be a good and responsible owner get a big dog.
RUN!
A family member married some loser that dumped him 30 min after PhD fees were finally paid. Made him change his last name to hers first two. RUN!
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