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Daily Mail UK ^ | March 26, 2024 | Emma Richter

[Morgana]

Adekunle Fabunmi? Arab or African?

[webheart]

I don’t know what I would do if I had to deal with someone spreading feces and barf around. Thank you, Lord God, for letting me be a computer need for a living rather than a nursing assistant.

[RushIsMyTeddyBear]

African...but from what country?

[Jane Long]

How long has Adekunle been in the US?

[Salamander]

Irish.

Pasty white with freckles.

[Salamander]

Babies do that but you shouldn’t resort to curb stomping them for it.

[PghBaldy]

Nigeria?

[Harmless Teddy Bear]

Moms and Dads have been dealing with it for centuries without punching their kids. And they are not paid to do it.

[Morgana]

Yea but it’s one thing when a toddler does it, it’s another when a 30 year old does it.

[Harmless Teddy Bear]

Not really. When you are dealing with someone in care you are generally dealing with someone with a child's mind. Possibly even infant.

I dealt with my grandmothers as they aged. Some of the stuff they did was just as annoying. I never felt the urge to punch them. Not because I am a nice person but because doing that would be wrong.

When you commit to care for someone, whether for love or money, you have a responsibility not to abuse them no matter how annoying they become.

And always remember, once you were also annoying and made messes and you will probably be that way again in the future. And what you dish out will return to you.