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New Years Resolution.. FIND YOUR TRUE LOVE,.. AGAIN!
CookingWithCarlo.com ^ | Dec.31, 2002 | Carlo3b Dad, Chef, Author, and FReeper lover

Posted on 12/30/2003 12:09:28 PM PST by carlo3b

New Years Resolution.. FIND TRUE LOVE, AGAIN!

Was your First Love, your True Love?  Can you go back?

Is your first love your lone love?
There must be something very special about our first love, as clumsy as they were, they have inspired enough love stories written about it, to fill libraries. Well, there must be something real about it, because there are growing numbers including scientist, that believe that your first blushing love, is your only true love, and everything that has followed are sadly, only weak and empty sequels.

"If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were."
-Anon.
Can you get that old feeling BACK?
Maybe it isn't a new phenomenon, but it is finally getting some real highbrow attention, that many lovers are attempting to re-ignite that old flame. Recent findings from the "Lost Love Project", an on-going study at Cal State Univ., suggest that somewhere around 10 percent of the population fall in love again with someone from their past. If this is true, what is it that makes lost love so darn memorable?  Why is it that some people are still carrying a torch that still has a flame after so many years?
"All thoughts, all passions, all delights Whatever stirs this mortal frame All are but ministers of Love and feed His sacred flame."
-Samuel Taylor Coleridge
Noted Sociologist Dr. Constance Ahrons, author of “The Good Divorce”, firmly believes that people “continue to yearn for someone in the past when the relationship didn’t end the way they wanted it to.” That may be OK for the good doctor, but I believe that Love in youth is sometime discouraged by circumstances and pressures. Too often our youthful romances, as passionate as they were, were abandoned prematurely without an acceptable closure. Trying to return only reinforces our belief that we could have made it work. But can we?

Dr. Nancy Kalish, a psychologist and director of the Lost Love Project, agrees.  “Lost love is a highly emotional and powerful thing,” she says.  Long after a relationship ends, some people still grieve for what happened or what might have been.  Some study participants actually describe “physically aching” to be with their lost lover again.  Reconnecting with an old flame is a deliberate, assertive way of dealing with that grief and regret.

"Absence is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great."
-Comte DeBussy-Rabutin
“Few people reconnect at reunions or by chance,” says Dr. Kalish, who has become a recognized expert on rekindled loves.  “These people call or write, - usually when they're feeling good about themselves.”  While some lost lovers reconnect out of curiosity, others search to right old wrongs, or to make sense of a past relationship.  Most people, however, search in hopes of re-igniting that true-love passion of that long ago romance.

Youthful Love, like everything in those highly emotional, hormone driven years, had a reckless abandon to it. We hadn't had years of accumulated suspicion, or learned defensiveness to cloud unabashed passions. We let it all hang out! But with all of that exuberance came risk, and with risk came proper parental caution. That careful balance between lead and learn, too often than balance tipped in both directions, with painful results. Those that ended romances, sometime left unfinished business, and open wounds with broken hearts. For many, we are now discovering, proving really what we have always believed, it was the right person, but sadly, at the wrong time.

"The art of love ... is largely the art of persistence."
-Albert Ellis
“Parents tend to dismiss young love, but they need to realize how important first loves can be.  A teenage romance should never be belittled as just puppy love,” says Kalish.  “Many of the rekindlers expressed anger at their parents for separating them from the young sweethearts they loved.”

Young love can be strong and enduring.  Over 84 percent of the rekindled lovers were younger than 22 when they began their initial relationships.  Of these, two-thirds said it was their very first romance.

"Footfalls echo in the memory Down the passage which we did not take Towards the door we never opened Into the rose-garden. My words echo Thus, in your mind."
-T. S. Eliot, "Four Quartets"
Not surprisingly, many rekindled romances that bring those lovers back together, have extremely high success rates.  The Lost Love Project (LLP) studied over 1000 couples who had reunited after more than five years apart, and found that 72 percent turned into long-term relationships. Two-thirds resulted in marriage or engagement.

“Returning to a past love is like returning to a former part of ourselves,” says Kalish, who has recorded the project findings in her book “Lost and Found Lovers”.  “Often people who share a lost love share a common history, and this gives them a strong foundation together.”

Think about it, our First Love after all, is usually with someone close, a playmate, neighbor, classmate, or sibling of a friend. These relationships create Lovers that share customs, traditions, and memories.

Memories that are shared, are never boring - when retold, or relived.
-Carlo3b,  Falling Leaves from the Diary of a Single dad
For many, that bond formed so long ago must have been everything we thought it was, because surprisingly, the LLP study found that the divorce rate among reunited couples was a measly 1.5 percent, suggesting that the best place to look for Mr. Right may be in your yearbook, or dusty scrapbook.
  "The moment you have in your heart this extraordinary thing called love and feel the depth, the delight, the ecstasy of it, you will discover that for you the world is transformed."
-J. Krishnamurti
But while rekindling a past love can be wonderful, as it appears it often is, however, accept this cautious note, it is not without risk.  Too often, it is a married person who first fantasize, then tempts fate when seeking then seeing an old flame, even when it seems harmless.  “You just don’t realize the hold that old love may still have over you,” Kalish says.  “Almost one-third of the reunited couples in the project were adulterous relationships.  Most of these people had been faithful spouses before they looked up their lost love.  I've seen marriages completely blown out of the water by innocently reconnecting with an old flame,” warns Kalish.
"Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up."
-James Baldwin
Kalish, interviewed a young woman that we shall call Katy Martin, who asked that her real name not be used, because she knows all too well the dangers of meeting up with a past love.  When her old boyfriend called out of the blue one day to tell her that a mutual friend had died, Martin, 32, innocently agreed to meet him for coffee after the funeral.  Though happily married mother of 2 children, Martin was shocked when sparks began flying between the two of them. The resulting affair destroyed her marriage and her family.

Even if you're not married, looking up a past love can still have its downfalls.  “The memories you hold dear may be destroyed when you're confronted with the present reality,” Ahrons says.  “Don’t forget that ten or fifteen years may have passed since you were with that lost lover. You're not the same, and neither is the other person.”   “We tend to see the past through rose-colored glasses,” Ahrons adds.  Suddenly that boyfriend who was uncommunicative is remembered as quiet and shy.

 "Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye."
-H. Jackson Brown Jr.
I have to remind you that sometimes the heart is wrong, because memories can be very selective, and often faulty. That hot-tempered and jealous high school girl has developed in your fantasized recollection, to have become an attractively passionate and intense angel. If you forget why the relationship may have ended in the first place, you may be setting yourself up for a repeat of the last breakup. For all of those fond memories, in reality may return like a bad habit. However, it is entirely possible that it may not be a mistake.
"A very small degree of hope is sufficient to cause the birth of love."
-Stendhal

All of that aside, everyone wants and needs love, and maybe over time we have set up too many conditions that prevent anyone from entering our heart, or our lives. The comfort of an old friend re entering our life may be just what the doctor ordered. Those defenses may fall like leaves when old passions return and we find the love of our life was indeed, our first true love.. our one and only flame.. is still burning in our heart.. my hope and love are always with you.. never forget, all FReepers are lovers.

If all else fails, for better or worse, you will always have me.. I LOVE YOU . . :)

HAPPY NEW YEAR



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ALREADY GOT LOVE, FIND YOUR KITCHEN!

I'll meet ya there.. WOO HOO... sigh.. :)

{{{{{{{SMOOCH}}}}}}}}


1 posted on 12/30/2003 12:09:29 PM PST by carlo3b
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To: Jim Robinson; Bob J; christie; stanz; jellybean; Angelique; Howie; TwoStep; piasa; Exit148; ...
Don't forget about our other recipes located on former threads.. including these great threads.. All aboard.. We're getting on track to a healthier LIFE! Get series about HEALTHY, and LOW CARB FOOD , and who could forget.. Lets get the SKINNY on the Atkins Diet
Hurry, GET ON BOARD the LOWCARB, and OTHER HEALTH LIVING TRAIN, is leaving the station..

THE DIET WARS, a Battle of the SEXES.. How LowCarb can this go?MY TRUE STORY OF SANTA AND A REAL CHRISTMAS TALE... Where is spirit of Christmas? Have you seen it?, and many more..
BUT YOU MUST NEVER FORGET..Someone Loves you, more than you know... Enjoy!
2 posted on 12/30/2003 12:10:40 PM PST by carlo3b (http://www.CookingWithCarlo.com)
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To: carlo3b
Nice psot, as always.....I'm waiting for the first person to accuse you of being a ...metrosexual.....(G)....just funnin' ya..Happy New Year..
3 posted on 12/30/2003 12:12:45 PM PST by ken5050
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To: carlo3b
Someone one quipped that love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Fortunately, as Einstein once noted, imagination is more important than knowledge. : )

Happy New Year to you and yours!
4 posted on 12/30/2003 12:14:47 PM PST by Prime Choice (Americans are a spiritual people. We're happy to help members of al Qaeda meet God.)
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To: carlo3b
After 23 years apart, the first love in my life, my Senior Year high school girlfriend got in touch with me by looking my phone number up in the Internet.

Man, did she ever get fat!

5 posted on 12/30/2003 12:15:37 PM PST by Kenton (Dennis Kucinich is an evil gnome)
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To: ken5050
I've never been accused of being a metrosexual, maybe an extrosexual, or even a bakosexual, but metrosexual.. naw, not a chance.. Happy New Year my FRiend.. :)
6 posted on 12/30/2003 12:16:18 PM PST by carlo3b (http://www.CookingWithCarlo.com)
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To: carlo3b

I hope you have the happiest New Year ever!

7 posted on 12/30/2003 12:16:38 PM PST by Diva Betsy Ross ("were it not for the brave , there would be no land of the free")
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To: carlo3b
Hey, we BOTH like to cook..Freepers AND Foodies...
8 posted on 12/30/2003 12:18:19 PM PST by ken5050
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To: Kenton
Yehaaaaaaaaaa, all of that and MORE.. If there are still sparks, I have a recipe to put that fire to work, and get everything back where it belongs.. Ping me.. :)
9 posted on 12/30/2003 12:18:54 PM PST by carlo3b (http://www.CookingWithCarlo.com)
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To: carlo3b
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Too much absence makes it wander." - Stanz
10 posted on 12/30/2003 12:19:12 PM PST by stanz (Those who don't believe in evolution should go jump off the flat edge of the Earth.)
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To: carlo3b
Can't say this enough. When one, or the other, or both have moved on, it is best to let go. Sure, cherish those early memories, learn from the mistakes, and build toward that new, more compatible love. Don't lose that true love over some fantasy that wasn't meant to be.
11 posted on 12/30/2003 12:20:58 PM PST by CounterCounterCulture (America works best without union pests --- UNION NO!)
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To: carlo3b
I will always have a "soft spot" for my first real love, I think of her on occaision still. Do I ever want to give up the wonderful family that I have now for that old fantasy? Not a chance in hell. Just like Garth said, "Sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers..."
12 posted on 12/30/2003 12:21:28 PM PST by cspackler (There are 10 kinds of people in this world, those who understand binary and those who don't.)
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To: stanz
"A relationship is like a rose, How long it lasts, no one knows; Love can erase an awful past, Love can be yours, you'll see at last; To feel that love, it makes you sigh, To have it leave, you'd rather die; You hope you've found that special rose, 'Cause you love and care for the one you chose."
-Rob Cella

{{{{{{SMOOCH}}}}}}}}

13 posted on 12/30/2003 12:22:58 PM PST by carlo3b (http://www.CookingWithCarlo.com)
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To: cspackler
Amen to your post.
14 posted on 12/30/2003 12:23:47 PM PST by CounterCounterCulture (America works best without union pests --- UNION NO!)
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To: carlo3b
Dare I say it? there are many of us who simply are unable to pinpoint our FIRST true love.

I'll admit that I had a seemless series of crushes and "true loves" from the first grade until I fell for the womn I finally married at the age of 31. Was SHE my FIRST true love?

Was my first "true love" at the age of 6? Was it the first one after puberty? Or after I became an adult? As far I'm concerned there is no such thing as "first" true love.
15 posted on 12/30/2003 12:24:40 PM PST by ElkGroveDan (Fighting for Freedom and Having Fun)
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To: Kenton
Man, did she ever get fat!

Yup, I would rather fantasize about what she looked like 42 years ago, than replace that image with a current version.

16 posted on 12/30/2003 12:25:30 PM PST by Blue Screen of Death (,/i)
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To: CounterCounterCulture
BLESS YOU FOR YOUR FAITHFULLNESS.. HAPPY NEW YEAR!
17 posted on 12/30/2003 12:25:47 PM PST by carlo3b (http://www.CookingWithCarlo.com)
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To: carlo3b
. Ok just for fun; here is a joke

Woman comes to pet store kind of depress, a lady comes up to her and asked her what is wrong. She said; well my husband and I have serious problems. Lady ask what is the problem. Woman said well you know when I go to bed he doesn't talk to me no more not to mention other things. So lady goes; don't worry I have something that will help you it is called intelligent frog. Woman looks at her and says; what! Lady replies it is intelligent frog do not worry she will take care of the problems you have. So this lady picks the frog comes home and goes to bed with husband while putting frog between her and him. He looks at it and says; what in the world is this? She says; don't worry honey it is just a frog to take care our problems. Well, around 4 in the morning, she is awaking by loud noises coming from the kitchen. She walks there and sees her husband and frog looking at cooks books talking to each other as best friends. So she goes: what is going on here? Well husband looked at her and said; woman once I teach this frog how to cook your butt is out of here. Happy New Year to all of you and God Bless


18 posted on 12/30/2003 12:26:55 PM PST by matrix2225
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To: carlo3b

I was imagining you
here in my shadow
under a starless world
inhaling love
breathing you into existence.
You'll be my love in the end,
is desire exhaled?

bentfeather
a/k/aMLH
Copyright © 12/30/2003
All Rights Reserved



19 posted on 12/30/2003 12:28:01 PM PST by Soaring Feather (I do Poetry. Feathers courtesy of the birds.)
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To: ElkGroveDan
If you don't know, you haven't had it yet.
20 posted on 12/30/2003 12:28:40 PM PST by cspackler (There are 10 kinds of people in this world, those who understand binary and those who don't.)
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To: ElkGroveDan
As far I'm concerned there is no such thing as "first" true love.

Sure there was Dan, you married her.. I am convinced that if you had another FIRST TRUE LOVE, you'd know it..Trust me, and it didn't have to happen before your 21st birthday, it can still happen, as long as you live and breath.. :)

21 posted on 12/30/2003 12:30:22 PM PST by carlo3b (http://www.CookingWithCarlo.com)
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To: carlo3b
Happy New Year BTTT
22 posted on 12/30/2003 12:31:11 PM PST by hattend (Mr Bush, the Supremes upheld CFR...what's your plan B? Too late to veto, now)
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To: carlo3b
It took me a long time, but I have finally realized that my first (and only) true love is someone that became a close friend when I was far from a little kid, he is my husband.

Like any normal girl I fell in and out of "love" including getting married and divorced in my 20s. And there is one other "love" that I still occasionally think about, but the last time I saw him, there was no spark at all.

And not only does my love share my love - he shares my love of cooking!!!!!

Happy New Year with much love and hugs from me and mine!!!
23 posted on 12/30/2003 12:32:06 PM PST by Gabz (smoke gnatzies - small minds buzzing in your business -swat'em)
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To: bentfeather
OH MY DEAR FEATHER.. you have such a way with words.. HUGGGG.. :)
24 posted on 12/30/2003 12:32:15 PM PST by carlo3b (http://www.CookingWithCarlo.com)
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To: carlo3b
Carlo..wanna bet that a lot of guys reading this confuse "first time" with "first love?"
25 posted on 12/30/2003 12:33:36 PM PST by ken5050
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To: Gabz
And not only does my love share my love - he shares my love of cooking!!!!!

What a lucky woman, what more could you ask for...other than a VIKING stove and fridge.. :)

26 posted on 12/30/2003 12:35:02 PM PST by carlo3b (http://www.CookingWithCarlo.com)
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To: carlo3b; All
Thanks. Happy New Year to you too.

For the record, ladies, I am still single and available!

27 posted on 12/30/2003 12:35:35 PM PST by CounterCounterCulture (America works best without union pests --- UNION NO!)
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To: cspackler
"Sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers..."

THANK YOU GOD, I know he is watching this thread, and smiling.. :)

28 posted on 12/30/2003 12:37:37 PM PST by carlo3b (http://www.CookingWithCarlo.com)
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To: carlo3b
SEVEN WONDERS OF THE WORLD


A group of students were asked to list what they thought were the present "Seven Wonders of the World." Though there were some disagreements, the following received the most votes:

1. Egypt's Great Pyramids
2. Taj Mahal
3. Grand Canyon
4. Panama Canal
5. Empire State Building
6. St. Peter's Basilica
7. China's Great Wall

While gathering the votes, the teacher noted that one quiet student hadn't turned in her paper yet. So she asked the girl if she was having trouble with her list.

The girl replied, "Yes, a little. I couldn't quite make up my mind because there were so many."

The teacher said, "Well, tell us what you have and maybe we can help."

The girl hesitated, then tread, "I think the Seven Wonders of the World are:

1. To see
2. To hear
3. To touch
4. To taste
5. To feel
6. To laugh
7. And to love."

The room was so quiet you could have heard a pin drop.

A gentle reminder that the most precious things in life cannot be built by hand or bought by man.

"Each day comes bearing its own gifts. Untie the ribbons."

-Author Unknown

29 posted on 12/30/2003 12:38:14 PM PST by Lady Jag (Googolplex Star Thinker of the Seventh Galaxy of Light and Ingenuity)
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To: carlo3b
What a timely post, I'm currently trying to track down my true love from high school. Last time I heard she got married, but it's been many years and who knows if she still is. Only problem is I don't know what her married name was/is. I haven't been able to track down her parents and all the old phone numbers I have are no good. If anyone has the ability to find out anything I'll love ya forever.
Name (before marriage) Lisa Dorfman
graduated from Lakeside High School in 87 or 88 in Georgia, Dekalb/Atlanta.
Anyway, I shall keep trying............................
30 posted on 12/30/2003 12:38:40 PM PST by labowski ("The Dude Abideth")
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To: carlo3b
My first love was an unmitigated cheeser. My true love, on the other hand, is workin' late tonight, poor guy. :)
31 posted on 12/30/2003 12:39:35 PM PST by Xenalyte (I may not agree with your bumper sticker, but I'll defend to the death your right to stick it)
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To: matrix2225
...So she goes: what is going on here? Well husband looked at her and said; woman once I teach this frog how to cook your butt is out of here...

Can ya really teach a frog how to cook..too???... Bwhahahahhaahhahhaha

32 posted on 12/30/2003 12:40:49 PM PST by carlo3b (http://www.CookingWithCarlo.com)
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To: carlo3b
I know I am lucky and I say a prayer a thanks every day for him and our daughter.

Now, what is a VIKING stove and fridge?????? And why should I be asking for them?
33 posted on 12/30/2003 12:42:28 PM PST by Gabz (smoke gnatzies - small minds buzzing in your business -swat'em)
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To: carlo3b
Oh man you making me loug lol hahaha, oooh
34 posted on 12/30/2003 12:42:35 PM PST by matrix2225
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To: carlo3b
Oh man you making me loug lol hahaha, oooh
35 posted on 12/30/2003 12:42:36 PM PST by matrix2225
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To: carlo3b
Oh man you making me loug lol hahaha, oooh
36 posted on 12/30/2003 12:42:38 PM PST by matrix2225
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To: carlo3b
Here's a Viking Stove

And a Viking Fridge


37 posted on 12/30/2003 12:43:09 PM PST by ASA Vet (Having achieved Nibbana, what can I do next?)
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To: carlo3b
"If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, hunt them down and kick their butt."
38 posted on 12/30/2003 12:43:12 PM PST by N. Theknow (Be a glowworm, a glowworm's never glum, cuz how can you be grumpy when the sun shines out your bum.)
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To: carlo3b; Bacon Man
Yo, I have a soup recipe I'd like your opinion on. Xena's Mom gave it to me a few weeks back, and it's some of the best soup I've ever tasted. (Bacon can testify to the power of the soup.)

Taco Soup

Brown one to one-and-a-half pounds ground beef or turkey with a chopped onion. Drain.

Drain one can kidney beans, one can pinto beans, and one can corn; add to meat.

Drain two cans stewed tomatoes and one can Ro-Tel tomatoes; add to meat/bean mix.

Add one envelope taco seasoning and one envelope dry ranch dressing mix.

Add four cups water. Simmer.

If desired, serve over smushed tortilla chips.

This gets better over the second and third days, especially if you drop in another envelope of taco seasoning, maybe some more corn or beans, and a little more water. MMMMMM!
39 posted on 12/30/2003 12:43:22 PM PST by Xenalyte (I may not agree with your bumper sticker, but I'll defend to the death your right to stick it)
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To: sciencediet
That's wonderful!
40 posted on 12/30/2003 12:43:45 PM PST by Gabz (smoke gnatzies - small minds buzzing in your business -swat'em)
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To: carlo3b
If there are still sparks, I have a recipe to put that fire to work, and get everything back where it belongs..

Sounds like a recipe I might like! Do you have it handy?
41 posted on 12/30/2003 12:43:58 PM PST by Xenalyte (I may not agree with your bumper sticker, but I'll defend to the death your right to stick it)
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To: labowski
HELLO...DETECTIVE WEBBIES, NEEDED ON POST # 30 We'll find her for you.. Oh my.. love is in the air.. YAHOOOOOOooooo.. :)
42 posted on 12/30/2003 12:45:05 PM PST by carlo3b (http://www.CookingWithCarlo.com)
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To: labowski
Try looking up your highschool at Class Mates.com>

I believe the basic signup is free, and it allows you to search schools, check on reunions/coordinators etc.

43 posted on 12/30/2003 12:45:15 PM PST by Johnny Gage (How does the guy who drives the snowplow get to work in the mornings?)
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To: ASA Vet
ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!

I should have known that asking (even though you weren't replying to my question) would bring out the FReeper best!!!!
44 posted on 12/30/2003 12:45:59 PM PST by Gabz (smoke gnatzies - small minds buzzing in your business -swat'em)
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To: labowski
Ever look up ClassMates to see if she's registered there?
45 posted on 12/30/2003 12:47:26 PM PST by CounterCounterCulture (America works best without union pests --- UNION NO!)
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To: Xenalyte
Thank you for deciding what I am cooking for dinner this weekend - WOW that sounds wonderful!!!
46 posted on 12/30/2003 12:47:40 PM PST by Gabz (smoke gnatzies - small minds buzzing in your business -swat'em)
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To: sciencediet
"Where there is love there is life."
-Mahatma Gandhi
47 posted on 12/30/2003 12:49:18 PM PST by carlo3b (http://www.CookingWithCarlo.com)
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To: labowski
Try this...


http://www.classmates.com/cmo/reg/school/index.jsp?communityId=7162&nodeId=NC5_NC1_user
48 posted on 12/30/2003 12:49:19 PM PST by IGOTMINE (All we are saying... is give guns a chance!)
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To: carlo3b
My first love was part of a marriage that came apart. She turned out to be a loser, but I gained 3 true loves, my children. Children who have made their own way in the world, and of whom I'm very proud.
49 posted on 12/30/2003 12:49:20 PM PST by stylin_geek (Koffi: 0, G.W. Bush: (I lost count)
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To: carlo3b
Thank you again oh so very much! *smooch*
50 posted on 12/30/2003 12:49:40 PM PST by Alamo-Girl
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