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Women Who Regret Their Abortions Rally at March for Life
LifeNews.com ^ | January 23, 2004 | Steven Ertelt

Posted on 01/23/2004 3:11:04 PM PST by Federalist 78

Washington, DC (LifeNews.com) -- The post-abortion movement is picking up steam and women who are sharing the tragedies of their abortion experiences are rapidly becoming the face of the pro-life movement and encouraging young women not to make the same mistakes they did.

Led by actress and model Jennifer O'Neill, women who regret their abortions participated in the March for Life, where they held hundreds of signs saying just that. They also planned their own rallies to promote their message.

O'Neill was joined at a rally at the Supreme Court on Thursday by actress and singer Melba Moore and Dr. Alveda King, niece of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Luana Stoltemberg, a 43 year-old from Iowa, attended the rally. She said she began regretting her abortions when she realized they had robbed her of the ability to have children. Later, she adopted children.

"I've had three abortions and that hurts women like me,'' she told the Associated Press. "It devastates us physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally.''

Similar rallies were being staged by the group across the country.

Vikki Raymond attended a rally in California and told how she was 22 and already had one daughter when she decided to have an abortion.

"They put us on gurneys and lined us up in the hallways," Raymond, now 43, told the Press Enterprise newspaper. "I remember lying there, and we couldn't even look at each other because we all knew what we were there for."

Raymond grew up in a family that backed abortion but said, "I wish someone would have told me about the shame and guilt and remorse."

The Silent No More Awareness Campaign is one of many organized efforts to focus on women's negative abortion experiences.

It is a joint project of Priests for Life and the National Organization of Episcopalians for Life, seeks to raise awareness about the harm abortion does to women and their families, and about the many healing programs available.

Another organized post-abortion effort is Operation Outcry. They also held numerous events across the nation Thursday.

"We represent women who are not yet ready to break the silence: women who are suffering from their choice to end the life of their unborn babies but who cannot yet face the pain, the hurt, and the guilt they feel and have caused themselves and others. Shame and fear keep them quiet. Others are alone and convinced that they are the only ones hurting," said Joyce Zounis, Colorado state leader for Operation Outcry.

Susan Renne Mosley, director of Women's Outreach for Operation Outcry, who had an abortion at age 15 shares, "It's time to speak honestly about the pain we've lived with. Abortion hurts and it is a much harder choice to live with after the fact than adoption or child rearing. I know because I have lived with all three.

Mosley said her group wants to help women and men who are hurting from abortions to find peace.

"This effort will let them know they're not alone; they don't have to live their life in pain anymore," Mosley said. "There is hope and healing after abortion. We've found help and they can too. They need to know about the programs, books and resources available to help them."

Related web sites:
Silent No More - http://www.silentnomoreawareness.org
Operation Outcry - http://www.operationoutcry.org


TOPICS: Constitution/Conservatism; Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; Front Page News; Government; News/Current Events; US: District of Columbia
KEYWORDS: alvedaking; dralvedaking; marchforlife; marchforlife2004; melbamoore; noel; operationoutcry; postabortivewomen; priestsforlife; silentnomore
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1 posted on 01/23/2004 3:11:04 PM PST by Federalist 78
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To: Federalist 78
O'Neill was joined at a rally at the Supreme Court on Thursday by actress and singer Melba Moore and Dr. Alveda King

Good on them!


She still looks great.
2 posted on 01/23/2004 3:25:33 PM PST by visualops (Liberty is both the plan of Heaven for humanity, and the best hope for progress here on Earth-G.W.B.)
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To: Federalist 78
Then, of course, there are these other ladies.
3 posted on 01/23/2004 3:30:25 PM PST by madprof98
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To: madprof98
these other ladies

Imagine being a fiancé, husband, or significant other to one of those CULTURE OF DEATH ladies...wake up with a hatchet buried in your head someday.

Romans 1: 28 - 32 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;" Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

4 posted on 01/23/2004 3:44:38 PM PST by Federalist 78
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To: Federalist 78
Every single woman I know that has had an abortion now regrets it.
5 posted on 01/23/2004 3:47:29 PM PST by EuroFrog (Outlaw abortion.)
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To: Federalist 78
Of course they regret their abortion - how could anyone be proud of killing their own future son or daughter and forever denying that little person the gift of a life here on earth? They may have other children but that child was consigned to nothingness for eternity by its own mother.

I commend them in realizing the mistake and helping others speak of it.

This shows that God's plan for man's life is the best plan for man's happiness.



6 posted on 01/23/2004 3:49:30 PM PST by ClancyJ (It's just not safe to vote Democratic.)
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To: madprof98
One is really struck by the selfishness.
Sadly even those with regrets feel compelled to rationalize.

Thinking a second child would be a playmate for the first is a "simplistic fantasy"?

I think many of those women are weeping inside and that's very sad.
7 posted on 01/23/2004 4:11:38 PM PST by visualops (Liberty is both the plan of Heaven for humanity, and the best hope for progress here on Earth-G.W.B.)
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To: Federalist 78
Mosley said her group wants to help women and men who are hurting from abortions to find peace.

It is good those who have had abortions feel guilty. Maybe then they can convince others thinking of having one not to make the same mistake.

8 posted on 01/23/2004 4:31:30 PM PST by Reaganwuzthebest
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To: visualops
What astonishing and admirable courage.

"I was wrong" are hard words to say. "I was wrong and I will do anything to make it as right as I can" are words that take even more strength.
9 posted on 01/23/2004 4:36:54 PM PST by Triple Word Score
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To: Triple Word Score
"It's time to speak honestly about the pain we've lived with. Abortion hurts and it is a much harder choice to live with after the fact than adoption or child rearing. I know because I have lived with all three. "

The first "choice" should be to learn to say no and then keep your knees closed.


10 posted on 01/23/2004 5:02:22 PM PST by TASMANIANRED (black dogs are my life)
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To: Triple Word Score
Very true. And, admitting you were wrong for something so absolutely final- the regret of all regrets- is particularly so.
11 posted on 01/23/2004 5:04:00 PM PST by visualops (Liberty is both the plan of Heaven for humanity, and the best hope for progress here on Earth-G.W.B.)
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To: Federalist 78
"I've had three abortions and that hurts women like me,'' she told the Associated Press. "It devastates us physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally.''

Not as much as it hurt the baby.
12 posted on 01/23/2004 5:09:41 PM PST by DMZFrank
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To: Federalist 78
If these women are taken seriously, are they against ALL abortions, the second one, the third or what? If there is a halt to it, where will we house and feed all the illegal guest workers? ...it is harder than ever to determine who is a Dem and who is a Rep!
13 posted on 01/23/2004 6:17:28 PM PST by Henchman (I Hench, therefore I am!)
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To: Federalist 78

http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/nationworld/2001842194_watch23.html


Friday, January 23, 2004, 12:00 A.M. Pacific

Capital Watch
Abortion foes march in D.C. to repeal law


WASHINGTON - Thousands of abortion protesters, some carrying signs that said "American Holocaust" and "I regret my abortion," marched from the White House to the Supreme Court yesterday to mark the 31st anniversary of the decision that established a woman's right to the procedure.

The day of demonstrations against the court's 1973 ruling in Roe v. Wade began with a Mass and rally attended by Catholic bishops and a crowd of about 15,000, mostly teenagers.

President Bush called in a brief statement, telling anti-abortion marchers they were gathered for "a noble cause."

"The right to life does not come from government, it comes from the creator of life," the president said from Roswell, N.M., where he was wrapping up a two-day trip.

A smaller group of abortion-rights activists said it largely focused on lobbying on Capitol Hill for legislation to reverse limits on reproductive freedom imposed since 1973.

Those activists planned a march for April 25. "Anti-choice zealots want to impose their views and theology on the rest of us, and that's just not right," said Gloria Feldt, president of the Planned Parenthood Federation of America.

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a Mass and rally attended by Catholic bishops and a crowd of about 15,000, mostly teenagers.

See how the leftist media spreads "the big lie"?
The crowd was estimated to be as much as 300,000. But they bury this article inside the paper, and try to diminish the impact.


14 posted on 01/23/2004 6:27:10 PM PST by ppaul
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To: TASMANIANRED
Most of those who choose abortion do so because they have been coerced or tricked or otherwise misled into believing it's the best thing. A few do it because they were raped and in the aftermath of rape they cannot deal emotionally with the pregnancy too.

Very few do it knowing what they're really doing. Truly this is one of those times when Jesus's words on the cross really apply. They know not what they do. That's what regret is--learning better.

There are a very few occasions where it is done out of medical necessity; when it is done for convenience, it is almost always because someone has lied to a girl or young woman about what actually is going to happen to her.

"Keep your knees closed" works fine when you have some control over the matter...sometimes young women do not have that control.
15 posted on 01/23/2004 6:52:03 PM PST by Triple Word Score
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To: Federalist 78
Romans 1: 28 - 32

Boy doesn't that describe them?

You could have written the whole thing in bold. The "without natural affection" is something I have become aware of this year.
16 posted on 01/23/2004 9:25:59 PM PST by Delphinium
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To: Henchman
If these women are taken seriously, are they against ALL abortions

I would say they are against ALL abortions.

...it is harder than ever to determine who is a Dem and who is a Rep!

Pretty easy for me. Republicans believe in Life, Liberty, and Property, and democrats don't
17 posted on 01/23/2004 9:34:36 PM PST by Delphinium
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To: Federalist 78
WHERE ARE THE MEN MARCHING AND REGRETTING CONVINCING THEIR GIRLFRIENDS/WIVES TO GET ABORTIONS????
18 posted on 01/23/2004 9:38:58 PM PST by cyborg
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To: Triple Word Score
Why Abortions Are Performed * The overwhelming majority of all abortions, (95%), are done as a means of birth control. * Only 1% are performed because of rape or incest; * 1% because of fetal abnormalities; * 3% due to the mother's health problems. Source: Central Illinois Right To Life web source
19 posted on 01/24/2004 2:15:27 AM PST by Lexinom
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To: Triple Word Score
My apologies. Let's try that again:

Why Abortions Are Performed

  • The overwhelming majority of all abortions, (95%), are done as a means of birth control.U.S. Abortion Statistics, U.S. State abortion statistics, by Race, by Age, Worldwide abortion statistics, teen abortion statistics
  • Only 1% are performed because of rape or incest;
  • 1% because of fetal abnormalities;
  • 3% due to the mother's health problems.

Source: Central Illinois Right To Life

web source

20 posted on 01/24/2004 2:18:39 AM PST by Lexinom
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