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The expression is "hate the sin. Love the sinner." Is a Catholic parent supposed to condemn a gay child? As far as pedophilia is concerned we seem to have an excessive number of Church officials accepting the behavior. How is this different? Pedophilia, like abortion, murder , rape, theft, perjury, adultery etc. hurts another person. You cannot excuse an act that inflicts harm or pain on another, but practicing homosexuality is a sin of the self. Accepting that person as a human being, and accepting that his life is different, this is no different than accepting the couple who practice birth control using the pill or the diaphragm, or accepting the reality that your 16 year old son masturbates. When we accept and foster behavior that hurts others, we sin as well.Accepting a person who is homosexual is not sinful.Allowing a person the freedom to be himself is not sinful. Accepting behavior that creates harm to another, be it physical, psychological, emotional or spiritual is sinful. But in the final analysis our judgment is not the one which counts. As Catholics we believe in a merciful God.

A couple of points from your comments:

"As far as pedophilia is concerned we seem to have an excessive number of Church officials accepting the behavior. "

Most of the priests who were sexually abusing boys were not actual pedophiles, just regular homosexuals. The media likes to call them pedophiles, since it separates them from homosexuals as a group. But stricly speaking, pedophiles are attracted to pre-pubescent children, and homosexuals now and throughout history, notoriously are attracted to adolescent boys. Most of the boys molested by priests were adolescents.

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"Accepting a person who is homosexual is not sinful."

It depends on the definitions. First of all, no one is homosexual as far as an iron clad or eternal identity. Homosexual behavior is a noxious habit, attraction, and set of activities. But no one is born homosexual. So to accept someone "as" a homosexual is just what the "gay" activists want. For instance, if I have a friend or relative who identifies as a "gay" person, I can love that person, but that love doesn't have to (and shouldn't, if it is real love) accept or love that person's sexual attractions or behavior.