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A Sodier's Wife Stands Up to War Critics
email | 4-22-04 | unknown

Posted on 04/22/2004 1:15:43 AM PDT by Susannah

*received the following from a friend via email*

I was sitting alone in one of those loud, casual steak houses that you find all over the country. You know the type--a bucket of peanuts on every table, shells littering the floor, and a bunch of perky college kids racing around with longneck beers and sizzling platters.

Taking a sip of my iced tea, I studied the crowd over the rim of my glass. My gaze lingered on a group enjoying their meal. They wore no uniform to identify their branch of service, but they were definitely "military:" clean shaven, cropped haircut, and that "squared away" look that comes with pride.

Smiling sadly, I glanced across my table to the empty seat where my husband usually sat. It had only been a few months since we sat in this very booth, talking about his upcoming deployment to the Middle East. That was when he made me promise to get a sitter for the kids, come back to this restaurant once a month and treat myself to a nice steak. In turn he would treasure the thought of me being here, thinking about him until he returned home to me.

I fingered the little flag pin I constantly wear and wondered where he was at this very moment. Was he safe and warm? Was his cold any better? Were my letters getting through to him? As I pondered these thoughts, high pitched female voices from the next booth broke into my thoughts.

"I don't know what Bush is thinking about. Invading Iraq. You'd think that man would learn from his old man's mistakes. Good lord. What an idiot! I can't believe he is even in office. You do know, he stole the election."

I cut into my steak and tried to ignore them, as they began an endless tirade running down our president. I thought about the last night I spent with my husband, as he prepared to deploy. He had just returned from getting his smallpox and anthrax shots. The image of him standing in our kitchen packing his gas mask still gives me chills.

Once again the women's voices invaded my thoughts. "It is all about oil, you know. Our soldiers will go in and rape and steal all the oil they can in the name of 'freedom'. Hmph! I wonder how many innocent people they'll kill without giving it a thought? It's pure greed, you know."

My chest tightened as I stared at my wedding ring. I could still see how handsome my husband looked in his "mess dress" the day he slipped it on my finger. I wondered what he was wearing now. Probably his desert uniform, affectionately dubbed "coffee stains" with a heavy bulletproof vest over it.

"You know, we should just leave Iraq alone. I don't think they are hiding any weapons. In fact, I bet it's all a big act just to increase the president's popularity. That's all it is, padding the military budget at the expense of our social security and education. And, you know what else? We're just asking for another 9-ll. I can't say when it happens again that we didn't deserve it."

Their words brought to mind the war protesters I had watched gathering outside our base. Did no one appreciate the sacrifice of brave men and women, who leave their homes and family to ensure our freedom? Do they even know what "freedom" is?

I glanced at the table where the young men were sitting, and saw their courageous faces change. They had stopped eating and looked at each other dejectedly, listening to the women talking.

"Well, I, for one, think it's just deplorable to invade Iraq, and I am certainly sick of our tax dollars going to train professional baby killers we call a military."

Professional baby killers? I thought about what a wonderful father my husband is, and of how long it would be before he would see our children again.

That's it! Indignation rose up inside me. Normally reserved, pride in my husband gave me a brassy boldness I never realized I had. Tonight one voice will answer on behalf of our military, and let her pride in our troops be known.

Sliding out of my booth, I walked around to the adjoining booth and placed my hands flat on their table. Lowering myself to eye level with them, I smilingly said, "I couldn't help overhearing your conversation.

You see, I'm sitting here trying to enjoy my dinner alone. And, do you know why? Because my husband, whom I love with all my heart, is halfway around the world defending your right to say rotten things about him."

"Yes, you have the right to your opinion, and what you think is none of my business. However, what you say in public is something else, and I will not sit by and listen to you ridicule MY country, MY president, MY husband, and all the other fine American men and women who put their lives on the line, just so you can have the "freedom" to complain. Freedom is an expensive commodity, ladies. Don't let your actions cheapen it."

I must have been louder that I meant to be, because the manager came over to inquire if everything was all right. "Yes, thank you," I replied. Then turning back to the women, I said, "Enjoy the rest of your meal."

As I returned to my booth applause broke out. I was embarrassed for making a scene, and went back to my half eaten steak. The women picked up their check and scurried away.

After finishing my meal, and while waiting for my check, the manager returned with a huge apple cobbler ala mode. "Compliments of those soldiers," he said. He also smiled and said the ladies tried to pay for my dinner, but that another couple had beaten them to it. When I asked who, the manager said they had already left, but that the gentleman was a veteran, and wanted to take care of the wife of "one of our boys."

With a lump in my throat, I gratefully turned to the soldiers and thanked them for the cobbler. Grinning from ear to ear, they came over and surrounded the booth. "We just wanted to thank you, ma'am. You know we can't get into confrontations with civilians, so we appreciate what you did."

As I drove home, for the first time since my husband's deployment, I didn't feel quite so alone. My heart was filled with the warmth of the other diners who stopped by my table, to relate how they, too, were proud of my husband, and would keep him in their prayers. I knew their flags would fly a little higher the next day.

Perhaps they would look for more tangible ways to show their pride in our country, and the military who protect her. And maybe, just maybe, the two women who were railing against our country, would pause for a minute to appreciate all the freedom America offers, and the price it pays to maintain it's freedom.

As for me, I have learned that one voice CAN make a difference. Maybe the next time protesters gather outside the gates of the base where I live, I will proudly stand on the opposite side with a sign of my own. It will simply say, "Thank You!"

TOPICS: Your Opinion/Questions
KEYWORDS: iraq; militaryfamilies

1 posted on 04/22/2004 1:15:43 AM PDT by Susannah
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To: Susannah
You know the type--a bucket of peanuts on every table,

Not in communist Marin County California...but I could only dream....the land of buckets of Tofu and carpet munchers

2 posted on 04/22/2004 1:20:34 AM PDT by antaresequity (Miserable failure =
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To: Susannah
I would have applauded too!!
3 posted on 04/22/2004 1:30:48 AM PDT by GeronL (Who stole the fire truck in Poynor TX?? They need it back, please.... thanks)
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To: Susannah
Is the email you received directly from the friend, or are they passing on what someone else sent to them, or...? I'm curious, because though that is a very touching story (and if it's true, I'm very proud of the way she handled herself), I don't like rumors cheapening any real stories like this. (I am not saying that this is simply a rumor, just trying to determine how likely a story this is to have happened.)
4 posted on 04/22/2004 1:38:14 AM PDT by The Grammarian (The Seraph of Syntax)
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To: Susannah
True or not this email has been floating around since before we went into Iraq.
5 posted on 04/22/2004 1:41:13 AM PDT by boxerblues
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To: The Grammarian
The email was passed on to me. I don't know if it's true or not. I checked at and they didn't have it listed.

I do know, from local tv news reports that soldiers and their families have been given special treatment by people they've never met. Besides having people pick up their tabs at restaurants, it was also reported that some contractors have done repairs and remodeling of military families homes.

There are still quite a few bases in California and the soldiers and their families have been featured on local news. One Hispanic fallen soldier's family and friends were grateful to an artist who sang at the funeral because he had heard that the soldier was a big fan of his.

6 posted on 04/22/2004 2:22:32 AM PDT by Susannah (visit for a map history of shrinking Israel)
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To: Susannah
Hard to see thru my tears and get that lump in my throat down to manageable size.......
7 posted on 04/22/2004 4:22:40 AM PDT by OldFriend (Always understand, even if you remain among the few)
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To: Susannah
True or not, it's a good tale.
8 posted on 04/22/2004 5:57:28 AM PDT by jtminton ("Being a 'moderate' Muslims means you only want to kill the Jews." - Micheal Graham)
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To: Susannah
It brought tears to my eyes. Whether this story in particular happened, the point is that it could have easily happened and that the events portrayed in the story happen every day (people cursing and bad-mouthing our prez, our troops, our country) and people engaged in the daily business of life while they're sons, daughters, spouses, loved ones are off fighting so we may live and die as free people. My great, great.... grandpa fought in this country's revolutionary war, thus allowing me the privilege to become a member of the D.A.R. He didn't give his life but he fought for something bigger than himself. Prayers for our troops always and for our leaders.

9 posted on 04/22/2004 8:31:27 AM PDT by Paved Paradise
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