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'Wing-Women' Help Single Guys Find Romance
ABC 7online ^ | 7/3/04 | Tinabeth Pińa

Posted on 08/21/2004 3:00:15 PM PDT by qam1

(New York-WABC) — Even in a city as big as New York people say they have trouble meeting other people to date.

One company is trying to change all that -- by allowing men to hire "Wing-Women" to accompany them out on the town. So we sent our Tinabeth Piña to find out what's going on.

Single guys listen up!!! If I told you I found women who are willing to introduce you to single women in the city you'd go for it right? I knew you would so I got you the 411 -- check it out.

Amna Shamim, Wingwoman: "Absolutely, this is like the best job I've ever come into."

Amna Shamim is not your average woman, she's a wing woman -- whose sole purpose is introduce eligible New York City bachelors to single women.

Amna Shamim: "A woman approaching a woman is different than a guy approaching a woman, or a woman approaching a guy. Because we have sisterhood bonds. If I came up to you and I was like, 'Oh, my God, I really love your shoes.' We would start talking about your shoes. And then in comes my male friend. And you're already in a good mood, we've already established a bond. And that's extended to my friend."

This whole concept is the brain child of Shane Forbes, a 29-year-old computer programmer who realized the positive aspect of hanging around with women to meet other women.

Shane Forbes, Founder, Wingwomen.com: "I had a couple of my girlfriends and I went out with them a couple times. And it sort of worked for myself. And I told my friends about it, and they were like, 'How come we can't do it?'"

So Shane put his idea to the test around January of this past year, and 100 clients and 25 wing women later, he has grown quite a profitable business.

Shane Forbes: "Two of you guys and a girl looks like a fun bunch. A people who see people having fun want to be part of that fun. So the enthusiasm is like contagious in the bar, you're having fun and people just want to join you, and the next thing you know you're having fun with tons of girls."

All this fun comes at a price. For $50 an hour a single man can book a Wing Woman for the night. Remember, she is only your wing woman for the night, not your date.

Amna Shamim: "It's literally the same thing as going out with your male friends. When he sees someone that he likes you introduce them. It's really a lot less technical than people think it is. Just hanging out having fun and introducing people -- it's like a social hostess."

Chris Mathews, Wingwomen Client: "My experience has been very good, to me actually. I've used it twice, once with a group of four other guys. We split the wing woman, if you will. And we all went out together, and just had a good time. And yes, she acted as a social lubricant of sorts."

Shane Forbes: "A lot of guys they're already like established professionals. They don't have as much time as they used to have to go out. So, when they do go out -- since our service does help you meet women they maximize their time."

It also maximizes the Wing Women's pocketbooks, because they can be paid up to $30 an hour.

Amna Shamim: "I have something to do during the day, and I get to go out at night and get paid for it."

Let me tell you this service is a win-win situation for all involved! And its even expanding from NY to Miami.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Extended News
KEYWORDS: genx; singles; wingwomen

1 posted on 08/21/2004 3:00:16 PM PDT by qam1
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To: qam1; ItsOurTimeNow; PresbyRev; tortoise; Fraulein; StoneColdGOP; Clemenza; malakhi; m18436572; ...
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2 posted on 08/21/2004 3:01:27 PM PDT by qam1 (McGreevy likes his butts his way, I like mine my way - so NO SMOKING BANS in New Jersey)
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To: qam1

I thought it was called bait jank.


3 posted on 08/21/2004 3:02:53 PM PDT by palmer (Solutions, not just slogans -JFKerry)
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To: qam1

If they need a Wing Woman, why don't they just GET SOME FRIENDS?????


4 posted on 08/21/2004 3:03:29 PM PDT by JohnnyZ
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To: qam1
you're having fun with tons of girls

First, I'd have to know how many girls to the ton?

5 posted on 08/21/2004 3:06:45 PM PDT by Larry Lucido
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To: Larry Lucido
First, I'd have to know how many girls to the ton?

Doesn't matter, just melt em down and start creatin'! :-)

6 posted on 08/21/2004 3:10:23 PM PDT by JoeSixPack1 (Kerry couldn't have gone to Sears in Cambodia Christmas day! They were closed!)
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To: qam1
Chris Mathews, Wingwomen Client: "My experience has been very good, to me actually. I've used it twice, once with a group of four other guys. We split the wing woman, if you will. And we all went out together, and just had a good time. And yes, she acted as a social lubricant of sorts."

AMBUSH JOURNALISM...OR MY EVENING WITH CAVEMAN CHRIS MATTHEWS

As I am seated at the table with Matthews, who I am meeting for the first time, he cracks a joke--and not in a well-meaning way--about how I look. (There are quite a few people who are hung up on this.) "Are you sure you are old enough to be on the show? What are you? 28?" I grit my teeth. He badgers me again with the same question. I politely answer his question and supply my age.

(I wonder how Matthews' wife, the respected TV journalist Kathleen Matthews, who hosts a show about working women, would react if informed about her husband's treatment of a fellow female journalist. I've been in the business a dozen years and would be happy to talk to Mrs. Matthews about my firsthand experience with Neanderthal chauvinism in the workplace.)

http://michellemalkin.com/archives/000418.htm

7 posted on 08/21/2004 3:13:37 PM PDT by SlickWillard
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To: qam1

Sounds like a form of pimping to me.


8 posted on 08/21/2004 3:37:24 PM PDT by Sola Veritas (Trying to speak truth - not always with the best grammar or spelling)
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To: JohnnyZ

Probably because men tend to be friends with women they are interested in.


9 posted on 08/21/2004 3:50:12 PM PDT by sharktrager (The road to hell is paved with good intentions. And the paving contractor lives in Chappaqua.)
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To: qam1

Hmmmmmm. Sounds like a John Cheever story, I have forgotten the title.

"I gave myself to many lonely soldiers."


10 posted on 08/21/2004 4:02:32 PM PDT by annyokie (Now with 20% More Infidel!)
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To: qam1

I'm doing the internet thing right now. The bar scene in Seattle S-CKS!


11 posted on 08/21/2004 4:04:19 PM PDT by Clemenza
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To: JohnnyZ

I don't know...I think I have met most of my girlfriends at that age from female friends and roommates. Ya know the "I know this guy" sort of thing. Now my wife I met at work, but that was hush as it broke rule #9 at the establishment, LOL.


12 posted on 08/21/2004 4:23:41 PM PDT by doodad
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To: qam1
Bill Clinton went one step further.

He had State troopers bring women to him. No need to pay an hourly fee. The taxpayers paid wages.

13 posted on 08/21/2004 4:26:08 PM PDT by Montfort
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To: qam1
This whole concept is the brain child of Shane Forbes, a 29-year-old computer programmer who realized the positive aspect of hanging around with women to meet other women.

I seem to remember understanding this concept in the 16-18 years old range.

14 posted on 08/21/2004 6:05:14 PM PDT by He Rides A White Horse (unite)
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To: lavrenti
Chris Mathews, Wingwomen Client: "My experience has been very good, to me actually. I've used it twice, once with a group of four other guys. We split the wing woman, if you will. And we all went out together, and just had a good time. And yes, she acted as a social lubricant of sorts."

Chrissy alert! ;)

15 posted on 08/21/2004 6:10:26 PM PDT by NYC GOP Chick (Kerry is a Sitzpinkler!)
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To: palmer
I thought it was called bait jank.

Bell cow.

Judas goat.

16 posted on 08/21/2004 6:13:21 PM PDT by asgardshill (The Republican's best weapon lies midway between John Kerry's nose and lower chin.)
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To: NYC GOP Chick

The words "social lubricant" jump out at me. That's a new phrase!


17 posted on 08/21/2004 6:36:58 PM PDT by lavrenti (I'm not bad, just misunderstood.)
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To: lavrenti

Down, boy! ;D


18 posted on 08/21/2004 6:45:41 PM PDT by NYC GOP Chick (Kerry is a Sitzpinkler!)
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To: qam1

The best way for a straight guy to meet women is join a musical society or a drama club.

Why?
Because there are always tonnes of single women involved in these, and majority of guys involved are gay.

If a straight bloke joins he'll have the pick of dozens of women! Honestly, I've had at least five of my straight male friends meet their wives through the two musical societies in my town.

(PS...it helps if you can sing! *L*)


19 posted on 08/21/2004 6:47:02 PM PDT by Happygal (Liberals - fully au fait with their 'rights', utterly ignorant of their responsibilities)
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To: Happygal
Why?

Because there are always tonnes of single, liberal women involved in these, and majority of guys involved are gay.

20 posted on 08/21/2004 6:57:10 PM PDT by He Rides A White Horse (unite)
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To: He Rides A White Horse

You think conservative women can't sing, dance and act as good as liberals?

;-)


21 posted on 08/21/2004 6:58:50 PM PDT by Happygal (Liberals - fully au fait with their 'rights', utterly ignorant of their responsibilities)
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To: Happygal

.....you know where I'm coming from...(g)


22 posted on 08/21/2004 7:05:03 PM PDT by He Rides A White Horse (unite)
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To: Happygal
You think conservative women can't sing, dance and act as good as liberals?

I always thought they were best at actually thinking.

23 posted on 08/21/2004 7:07:12 PM PDT by He Rides A White Horse (Am I out of Hot Water now?)
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To: Happygal
(PS...it helps if you can sing! *L*)

Well that rules me out, Last time I sung was Kariokie and I ended up starting a riot and well let's just say it ended with me promising the judge I would never sing in public again.

24 posted on 08/21/2004 7:07:16 PM PDT by qam1 (McGreevy likes his butts his way, I like mine my way - so NO SMOKING BANS in New Jersey)
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To: qam1
Hey....you're that guy from American Idol, aren't you?
25 posted on 08/21/2004 7:09:39 PM PDT by He Rides A White Horse (Am I out of Hot Water now?)
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To: Clemenza
Oh, I didn't even realize you moved.

Congrats on escaping Liberal New York, I'm sure even Seattle is a big improvement conservative wise.

Though yes the bar scene does suck away from NY when you are used to 4 a.m. closing times and go to a place where they close at 2 (Well really 1:30, It's everybody out by 2). In New Jersey each town picks it's own closing time, most choose 2am but a few choose 3am and when I moved here I made sure to pick one of the towns that stays open to 3 to live in. I still lose an hour from NY but oh well at least I can still smoke a cigarette in them.

But anyhow, Good luck on your move, hope everything works out for you.
26 posted on 08/21/2004 7:23:15 PM PDT by qam1 (McGreevy likes his butts his way, I like mine my way - so NO SMOKING BANS in New Jersey)
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To: Long Cut; Old Sarge; Darksheare

This one will make you say "Hmmmmmmm......"


27 posted on 08/21/2004 7:39:35 PM PDT by StarCMC (It's God's job to forgive Bin Laden, it's our job to arrange the meeting.)
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To: StarCMC

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....


28 posted on 08/21/2004 8:07:55 PM PDT by Old Sarge (ZOT 'em all, let MOD sort 'em out!)
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To: Old Sarge

LOL!! Told ya that's what you'd say!! He he he!


29 posted on 08/21/2004 8:12:44 PM PDT by StarCMC (It's God's job to forgive Bin Laden, it's our job to arrange the meeting.)
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To: qam1
"A woman approaching a woman is different than a guy approaching a woman, or a woman approaching a guy. Because we have sisterhood bonds. If I came up to you and I was like, 'Oh, my God, I really love your shoes.' We would start talking about your shoes. And then in comes my male friend. And you're already in a good mood, we've already established a bond. And that's extended to my friend."

I lost 10 IQ points just reading that sentence.

30 posted on 08/21/2004 8:18:01 PM PDT by spodefly (This post meets the minimum daily requirements for cynicism and irony.)
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To: JohnnyZ
If they need a Wing Woman, why don't they just GET SOME FRIENDS?????

No kidding. I guess it's because they wouldn't get their names in the papers for that.

31 posted on 08/21/2004 11:21:05 PM PDT by NYCVirago
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To: StarCMC; Old Sarge

My best friend pulled something like this on me.
Set me up on a date..
In her words at the timer, "Because deary, you're just so pathetic at choosing who to date on your own. That's why."


32 posted on 08/22/2004 8:23:17 AM PDT by Darksheare (If a tree fell on a mime in the forest, would he still taste like chicken?)
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To: Darksheare

ROFL!! :o)


33 posted on 08/22/2004 6:40:30 PM PDT by StarCMC (It's God's job to forgive Bin Laden, it's our job to arrange the meeting.)
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To: qam1

 

 

Just my luck.

 

34 posted on 08/22/2004 6:48:06 PM PDT by Fintan (I don't need to know what it looks like to know what it looks like.)
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To: Fintan
Could be worse:

35 posted on 08/22/2004 6:50:10 PM PDT by Mike Bates (Did I mention I'm peddling a book?)
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To: qam1

Do they bring donuts?


36 posted on 08/22/2004 6:52:43 PM PDT by philetus (Keep doing what you always do and you'll keep getting what you always get)
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To: StarCMC

It was fun, almost like getting thrown out of stores in the mall..


37 posted on 08/22/2004 7:01:37 PM PDT by Darksheare (If a tree fell on a mime in the forest, would he still taste like chicken?)
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To: caligirl217

Tuition assistance, ping!


38 posted on 08/23/2004 4:50:11 AM PDT by CSM (To spread the wealth the liberal is willing, he'll take YOUR dollar and keep his shilling. -albertp)
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To: He Rides A White Horse; qam1

"Hey....you're that guy from American Idol, aren't you?"

Yep, he's "Hung"!


39 posted on 08/23/2004 5:47:54 AM PDT by CSM (To spread the wealth the liberal is willing, he'll take YOUR dollar and keep his shilling. -albertp)
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To: qam1

We teach about how to identify the wrong wingwomen and stay away from them. Check out our article Stay Away from the Wrong Wingwomen at http://tootit.com. The direct URL is
http://tootit.com/2011/11/stay-away-from-the-wrong-wingwomen/


40 posted on 11/08/2011 2:03:34 PM PST by tootit (Stay Away from the Wrong Wingwomen)
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To: qam1

bm


41 posted on 11/08/2011 2:08:27 PM PST by Vision ("Did I not say to you that if you would believe, you would see the glory of God?" John 11:40)
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