he's a weird kid, definitely a creep - and very intelligent for his age which is scary. We don't have kids yet, but yeah, when we do, they ain't going near him.
Not just nowhere near him!... The word "perverted" implies that there is a "perverter." He LEARNED that behavior from someone! That's why you need a long talk with your wife, so you can know who is safely distant from this kid to scratch off your list of suspects... you've got real illness there, and its the sort of illness which runs in families.
This kid sounds like he has been abused or is a narcissist.