Skip to comments.(Fr.)Frank Pavone Discusses the Last Moments of Terri Schiavo
Posted on 04/01/2005 7:47:01 AM PST by marshmallow
FATHER FRANK PAVONE, PRIESTS FOR LIFE, NATIONAL DIRECTOR: Last night, I spent about two hours with her until past midnight, together with Bobby Schindler and Suzanne, and then again this morning for about an hour and a half, and then right up until about ten minutes before she died. We were praying, most of that time was spent simply in prayer, in quiet, just caressing her, and assuring her, also, of the prayers and concern of so many people around the world.
Q: Was their any sign of response from Terri Schiavo?
PAVONE: Yes. And let me tell you, Ill preface that by saying I visited with her several times before the feeding tube was removed. She was very responsive--closing her eyes when I said, Lets pray together, Terri, opening them up after the prayer. Smiling, returning the kiss of her father. Turning her eyes to me when I spoke to her. In many other ways, as well, responsive.
Even today, although, of course, with the effects of the dehydration, her response was much less. Nevertheless, her eyes were open, her eyes were moving, and as I prayed with her, her eyes were shifting over toward my direction--even until the last moments that I was with her.
Q: Now, of course, we are going over old territory, but its important to note here, youve heard the doctors who suggest that that is all reflexive, that none of it was a conscious movement on her part--either eye movement or anything else. What do you say to that?
PAVONE: Certainly amazingly-time reflexes. Ill give the doctors the benefit of their own expertise. But this raises, of course, the deeper moral issue. Give them what they are saying. What does that mean? That someone at a lower level of functioning can just be starved to death?
That, of course, is the bigger question here. This is not just a death. This is a killing.
And we have to ask ourselves, has our nation now begun to go down the road of killing those who are disabled, simply because somebody says that they want to be killed?
Terri didnt die today from anything except the fact that her food and water were withheld for the last two weeks. She had no other underlying illness whatsoever. This is a case of throwing away a disabled person.
Q: Father, do we know what happened to the Schindlers, Terris parents, during these final moments?
PAVONE: Yes. We were in communication with them this morning by phone, and they were then on their way over here, actually, when we heard the news of Terris passing, and then all of us were together inside the hospice just moments after that announcement. They went in to Terri, of course, to embrace her body. I stood at the door and offered the prayers of the church, for those who are just deceased, and of course we sat and just consoled on another, and now they are grieving privately at home. They are going to have a statement a little later.
Q: Were you able to give Terri her last rites?
PAVONE: I was able to give Terri absolution last night. She had already been given the fuller last rites of the Church by other priests in recent days.
Q: It sounds as though, thankfully, there was not a direct conflict between the Schindlers and the Schiavos during these last moments.
PAVONE: Yes. Thanks be to God. Had she lived another hour or so, Im afraid there might have been, because Bobby was saying, I will be glad to be in her room, even with Michael there. I want to be there. And Michael was saying, No. I dont want that. But then she died before that conflict when any further.
Q: There was no reconciliation, then, between the two parties in this fight?
PAVONE: Not as of this moment. I have appealed publicly to Michael to reconsider his whole position here. And even now that Terri has died, I make that appeal to him again, because, again, this affects people way beyond Terri. This affects many, many people who are and are going to be in similar situations.
We all have to, as we grieve, examine our consciences, and say, What are we going to do with the disabled? How are we going to treat them?
Q: Some people say this is such a unique situation, because she didnt have a living will, because there was some dispute about whether Michael had her intentions in mind, that this makes a bad case to base any kind of precedent on. What would you say to that?
PAVONE: Well, first of all, as far as how people should handle these situations, a healthcare proxy--namely, a person who can speak for you, if you are in a situation where you cant speak for yourself--is much better than having a piece of paper. A piece of paper cannot interpret itself. People can begin arguing over what a piece of paper says, just as they can argue over what people said to them verbally. The best thing is to have a living person who knows you, whom you trust, whom youve discussed these issues with, and who then, when you are in medical circumstances in which you cannot speak for yourself, that person can get, from the doctors, the exact details of what can be done for you, and then in consultation with the clergy of their choice, make the proper decision at those moments.
So, in that sense, yes. There were elements here that led to the conflict. However, the solution is broader than that. We do have, here, a classic case of the question of throwing away disabled people. This woman was killed. She didnt die of a terminal illness. She was killed, and it is a matter, therefore, of conscience, right now, for us all to ask: Is this what we are going to continue to do with brain-injured people? Because, whether they have expressed their wishes or not, obviously it can result in their death, as has happened today.
Q: Father Pavone, is the nation better off for having examined the issues that came to the fore with Terri Schiavos death?
PAVONE: We are much better off for having examined them. We at Priests for Life work with the clergy throughout the country. We will ensure that we continue to examine them in the teaching and preaching of the Church, and in the discussion among the people. We would be glad to be part of that whole debate as it ensues.
It had been rumored here that her husband did not allow Terri's parents to be in the room when she died. Turns out that was not true.
It can't be said to often that Terri was killed. Not only was she deprived of the feeding tube, which is not considered an "extraordinary" measure to keep patients alive, but she was deprived of water when it has been well established that she is capable of swallowing.
It was not tested, because Michael Schiavo would not permit it, but most likely she could have been kept alive by feeding her with broths and other nourishing fluids, even without the feeding tube. And that ability to swallow could probably have been further developed if Michael Schiavo had not ordered that all rehabilitation must cease and that she should never be given anything to swallow.
Actually, I think it does look like he didn't want them in the room with him when he was there.
>>>I will be glad to be in her room, even with Michael there. I want to be there. And Michael was saying, No. I dont want that. But then she died before that conflict when any further. <<<
The family (brother and sister) were not allowed in the room when Terri died, they had been asked to leave ten minutes earlier by Micheal Schiavo (through an intermediary of course). The parents were on there way over to the hospice but they did not make it in time.
A sad situation.
That is a very sad situation for all involved.
Father Pavone is the best spokesman I have seen so far regarding this case. He was on the Today show yesterday before Terri's passing and was most convincing.
I noticed this morning the Today show only had Michael Schiavo's attorney on. He said Terri's brother had to be restrained by police. There was no rebuttal guest from the Schindler family.
I wish the Today show would have asked Father Pavone as a rebuttal guest to that weasel lawyer.
How dare that nasty brother want to be at his sister's bedside when she died! Call the police! Call the police! sarcasm
I've posted this on a couple other threads:
Who Will Remember Terri?
By JAMES TARANTO
April 1, 2005; Page A10
"Joe Ford, a Harvard undergraduate with severe cerebral palsy: "Like many others with disabilities, I believe that the American public, to one degree or another, holds that disabled people are better off dead. To put it in a simpler way, many Americans are bigots. A close examination of the facts of the Schiavo case reveals not a case of difficult decisions but a basic test of this country's decency."
< It had been rumored here that her husband did not allow Terri's parents to be in the room when she died. Turns out that was not true. >
Only because they had not arrived in time. He refused the brother. I think we can make a pretty good determination that he would have said no had they been at the hospice. If he wasn't a POS before her death, he is now, just because of that. What kind of trash refuses a brother the opportunuty to be at the bedside of his sister at death? MS is just a big POS.
I don't think judges and doctors can be relied upon to understand and follow your written orders.
Choose an agent to speak for you in the case that you are incapacitated. (You can draw up an ordered list of people to speak for you).
but, but, he had an AGENDA! He was promoting LIFE!
< Father Pavone is the best spokesman I have seen so far regarding this case. >
Agreed. I saw the exchange reprinted above. The Schindler's should keep him as a spokesman for awhile. He is very articulate without being extreme.
Felos made it sound as if Terri's mother had abandoned her. He is scum.
Why are you trying to confuse the issue with facts? Everyone knows that if they were there, he wouldn't have let them in - so that's the same thing as if they were trying to get in and he refused, right?
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