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Atheists and Their Fathers
www.probe.org ^ | 2002 | Kerby Anderson

Posted on 04/17/2005 3:15:49 PM PDT by Tailgunner Joe

How does one become an atheist? Does a person's relationship with his earthly father affect his relationship with his heavenly Father? These are some of the questions we will explore in this article as we talk about the book Faith of the Fatherless by Paul Vitz. Vitz is a psychologist who was an atheist himself until his late thirties. He began to wonder if psychology played a role in one's belief about God. After all, secular psychologists have been saying that a belief in God is really nothing more than infantile wish fulfillment. Dr. Vitz wondered if the shoe was on the other foot. Could it be that atheists are engaged in unconscious wish fulfillment?

After studying the lives of more than a dozen of the world's most influential atheists, Dr. Vitz discovered that they all had one thing in common: defective relationships with their fathers. The relationship was defective because the father was either dead, abusive, weak, or had abandoned the children. When he studied the lives of influential theists during those same historical time periods, he found they enjoyed a strong, loving relationship with a father (or a father substitute if the father was dead).

For example, Friedrich Nietzche lost his father (who was a pastor) before his fifth birthday. One biographer wrote that Nietzche was "passionately attached to his father, and the shock of losing him was profound." Dr. Vitz writes that Nietzche had a "strong, intellectually macho reaction against a dead, very Christian father." Friedrich Nietzche is best known as the philosopher who said, "God is dead." It certainly seems possible that his rejection of God and Christianity was a "rejection of the weakness of his father."

Contrast Nietzche with the life of Blaise Pascal. This famous mathematician and religious writer lived at a time in Paris when there was considerable skepticism about religion. He nevertheless wrote Les pensées (Thoughts), a powerful and imaginative defense of Christianity, which also attacked skepticism. Pascal's father, Etienne, was a wealthy judge and also an able mathematician. He was known as a good man with religious convictions. Pascal's mother died when he was three, so his father gave up his law practice and home-schooled Blaise and his sisters.

Here we are going to look at the correlation between our relationship with our earthly father and our heavenly Father. No matter what our family background, we are still responsible for the choices we make. Growing up in an unloving home does not excuse us from rejecting God, but it does explain why some people reject God. There may be a psychological component to their commitment to atheism.

Nietzche and Freud

Friedrich Nietzche is a philosopher who has influenced everyone from Adolph Hitler to the Columbine killers. His father was a Lutheran pastor who died of a brain disease before Nietzche's fifth birthday. He often spoke positively of his father and said his death was a great loss, which he never forgot. One biographer wrote that Nietzche was "passionately attached to his father, and the shock of losing him was profound." It seems he associated the general weakness and sickness of his father with his father's Christianity. Nietzche's major criticism of Christianity was that it suffers from an absence, even a rejection, of "life force." The God Nietzche chose was Dionysius, a strong pagan expression of life force. It certainly seems possible that his rejection of God and Christianity was a "rejection of the weakness of his father."

Nietzche's own philosophy placed an emphasis on the "superman" along with a denigration of women. Yet his own search for masculinity was undermined by the domination of his childhood by his mother and female relatives in a Christian household. Dr. Vitz says, "It is not surprising, then, that for Nietzche Christian morality was something for women." He concludes that Nietzche had a "strong, intellectually macho reaction against a dead, very Christian father who was loved and admired but perceived as sickly and weak."

Sigmund Freud despised his Jewish father, who was a weak man unable to support his family. Freud later wrote in two letters that his father was a sexual pervert, and that the children suffered as a result. Dr. Vitz believes that Freud's Oedipus Complex (which placed hatred of the father at the center of his psychology) was an expression of "his strong unconscious hostility to and rejection of his own father." His father was involved in a form of reformed Judaism but was also a weak, passive man with sexual perversions. Freud's rejection of God and Judaism seems connected to his rejection of his father.

Both Nietzche and Freud demonstrate the relationship between our attitudes toward our earthly father and our heavenly Father. In both cases, there seems to be a psychological component to their commitment to atheism.

Russell and Hume

Bertrand Russell was one of the most famous atheists of the last century. Both of Russell's parents lived on the margin of radical politics. His father died when Bertrand Russell was four years old, and his mother died two years earlier. He was subsequently cared for by his rigidly puritanical grandmother, who was known as "Deadly Nightshade." She was by birth a Scottish Presbyterian, and by temperament a puritan. Russell's daughter Katherine noted that his grandmother's joyless faith was "the only form of Christianity my father knew well." This ascetic faith taught that "the life of this world was no more than a gloomy testing ground for future bliss." She concluded, "My father threw this morbid belief out the window."

Dr. Vitz points out that Russell's only other parent figures were a string of nannies to whom he often grew quite attached. When one of the nannies left, the eleven-year-old Bertrand was "inconsolable." He soon discovered that the way out of his sadness was to retreat into the world of books.

After his early years of lost loves and later years of solitary living at home with tutors, Russell described himself in this way: "My most profound feelings have remained always solitary and have found in human things no companionship . . . . The sea, the stars, the night wind in waste places, mean more to me than even the human beings I love best, and I am conscious that human affection is to me at bottom an attempt to escape from the vain search for God."

Another famous atheist was David Hume. He was born into a prominent and affluent family. He seems to have been on good terms with his mother as well as his brother and sister. He was raised as a Scottish Presbyterian but gave up his faith and devoted most of his writing to the topic of religion.

Like the other atheists we have discussed, David Hume fits the pattern. His father died when he was two years old. Biographies of his life mention no relatives or family friends who could serve as father-figures. And David Hume is known as a man who had no religious beliefs and spent his life raising skeptical arguments against religion in any form.

Both Russell and Hume demonstrate the relationship between our attitudes toward our earthly father and our heavenly Father. In each case, there is a psychological component to their commitment to atheism.

Sartre, Voltaire, and Feuerbach

Jean-Paul Sartre was one of the most famous atheists of the last century. His father died when he was fifteen months old. He and his mother lived with his maternal grandparents as his mother cultivated a very intimate relationship with him. She concentrated her emotional energy on her son until she remarried when Sartre was twelve. This idyllic and Oedipal involvement came to an end, and Sartre strongly rejected his stepfather. In those formative years, Sartre's real father died, his grandfather was cool and distant, and his stepfather took his beloved mother away from him. The adolescent Sartre concluded to himself, "You know what? God doesn't exist." Commentators note that Sartre obsessed with fatherhood all his life and never got over his fatherlessness. Dr. Vitz concludes that "his father's absence was such a painful reality that Jean-Paul spent a lifetime trying to deny the loss and build a philosophy in which the absence of a father and of God is the very starting place for the good or authentic life."

Another philosopher during the French Enlightenment disliked his father so much that he changed his name from Arouet to Voltaire. The two fought constantly. At one point Voltaire's father was so angry with his son for his interest in the world of letters rather than taking up a career in law that he "authorized having his son sent to prison or into exile in the West Indies." Voltaire was not a true atheist, but rather a deist who believed in an impersonal God. He was a strident critic of religion, especially Christianity with its understanding of a personal God.

Ludwig Feuerbach was a prominent German atheist who was born into a distinguished and gifted German family. His father was a prominent jurist who was difficult and undiplomatic with colleagues and family. The dramatic event in young Ludwig's life must have been his father's affair with the wife of one his father's friends. They lived together openly in another town, and she bore him a son. The affair began when Feuerbach was nine and lasted for nine years. His father publicly rejected his family, and years later Feuerbach rejected Christianity. One famous critic of religion said that Feuerbach was so hostile to Christianity that he would have been called the Antichrist if the world had ended then.

Each of these men once again illustrates the relationship between atheism and their fathers.

Burke and Wilberforce

British statesman Edmund Burke is considered by many as the founder of modern conservative political thought. He was partly raised by his grandfather and three affectionate uncles. He later wrote of his Uncle Garret, that he was "one of the very best men, I believe that ever lived, of the clearest integrity, the most genuine principles of religion and virtue." His writings are in direct opposition to the radical principles of the French Revolution. One of his major criticisms of the French Revolution was its hostility to religion: "We are not converts of Rousseau; we are not the disciples of Voltaire; Helevetius has made no progress amongst us. Atheists are not our preachers." For Burke, God and religion were important pillars of a just and civil society.

William Wilberforce was an English statesman and abolitionist. His father died when he was nine years old, and he was sent to live with his aunt and uncle. He was extremely close to his uncle and to John Newton who was a frequent visitor to their home. Newton was a former slave trader who converted to Christ and wrote the famous hymn "Amazing Grace." Wilberforce first heard of the evils of slavery from Newton's stories and sermons, "even reverencing him as a parent when [he] was a child." Wilberforce was an evangelical Christian who went on to serve in parliament and was instrumental in abolishing the British slave trade.

As mentioned earlier, Blaise Pascal was a famous mathematician and religious writer. Pascal's father was a wealthy judge and also an able mathematician, known as a good man with religious convictions. Pascal's mother died when he was three, so his father gave up his law practice and home-schooled Blaise and his sisters. Pascal went on to powerfully present a Christian perspective at a time when there was considerable skepticism about religion in France.

I believe Paul Vitz provides an important look at atheists and theists in his book Faith of the Fatherless. The prominent atheists of the last few centuries all had defective relationships with their fathers while the theists enjoyed a strong, loving relationship with a father or a father substitute. This might be something to compassionately consider the next time you witness to an atheist.


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1 posted on 04/17/2005 3:15:50 PM PDT by Tailgunner Joe
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To: Tailgunner Joe

interesting article


2 posted on 04/17/2005 3:17:21 PM PDT by 1FASTGLOCK45 (FreeRepublic: More fun than watching Dem'Rats drown like Turkeys in the rain! ! !)
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To: Tailgunner Joe
I don't believe in atheists. I think they simply reject, vice don't believe. The burden is on them to prove otherwise. Or do they just want me to accept it on faith?
3 posted on 04/17/2005 3:25:10 PM PDT by SampleMan ("Yes I am drunk, very drunk. But you madam are ugly, and tomorrow morning I shall be sober." WSC)
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To: Tailgunner Joe
"How does one become an atheist?"

Either vaginally or by c-section ;^)

4 posted on 04/17/2005 3:27:43 PM PDT by elfman2 (@ copyright 2005)
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To: SampleMan
"The burden is on them to prove otherwise. "

Then it’s your burden to disprove every religion you don’t believe in.

5 posted on 04/17/2005 3:29:39 PM PDT by elfman2 (@ copyright 2005)
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To: SampleMan
I don't believe in atheists. I think they simply reject, vice don't believe. The burden is on them to prove otherwise.

Actually, it's more difficult to prove a negative, therefore the burden of proof should be on the faithful.

But please don't bother me, I've already chosen a deity.

6 posted on 04/17/2005 3:31:21 PM PDT by Wormwood (Iä! Iä! Cthulhu fhtagn!)
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To: Tailgunner Joe

I don't buy it. I had a great relationship with my dad growing up and (despite his infuriating adherence to the Democrats and their ilk) I still do.


7 posted on 04/17/2005 3:31:38 PM PDT by Zeroisanumber
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To: Tailgunner Joe
Any thought on Darwin? Anyone?

He fits this category as well as Voltaire but I understand his father was largely responsible for much of his theories on evolution. Without a doubt Darwin is THE patron saint of atheists. I have not heard about the nature of their relationship but his father's theories clearly influenced his work.
8 posted on 04/17/2005 3:33:58 PM PDT by Mark in the Old South (Sister Lucia of Fatima pray for us)
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To: Tailgunner Joe
I believe most athiests are of the "doubting Thomas" types. If they cannot touch, smell and taste something, it must not exist. I personally think it is a lack of faith that causes most athiests to not believe in God.

Can any of us prove beyond a shadow of doubt that God exists? I know I can't. But there are enough signs around me, tangeable and intangeable, and my faith allows me to believe that he does in fact exist. And for me that's enough.

The easiest way to put an athiest on the defensive is to tell them "if you live your life as if there's no God, you better hope you're correct"
9 posted on 04/17/2005 3:34:24 PM PDT by stm
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To: Wormwood
Ever get a chance to see this?

http://esr.ibiblio.org/index.php?p=135

10 posted on 04/17/2005 3:34:58 PM PDT by Zeroisanumber
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To: elfman2

snicker. They're "born that way," just like queers.


11 posted on 04/17/2005 3:35:08 PM PDT by Tailgunner Joe
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To: elfman2
Then it’s your burden to disprove every religion you don’t believe in.

Not really. Its their burden to prove theirs is actually connected to God. 2 religions Judism and Christianity are. The rest are not.

12 posted on 04/17/2005 3:36:19 PM PDT by Bommer
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To: Mark in the Old South
"Without a doubt Darwin is THE patron saint of atheists. "

I couldn’t care less about him. He’s about as relevant to my life as Orville Wright.

13 posted on 04/17/2005 3:36:44 PM PDT by elfman2 (@ copyright 2005)
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To: Zeroisanumber
Ever get a chance to see this?See it? It was my Windows background for months. ;-)

Hail Cthulhu (but at least I ain't no stinkin' athiest, right?)

14 posted on 04/17/2005 3:37:23 PM PDT by Wormwood (Iä! Iä! Cthulhu fhtagn!)
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To: Tailgunner Joe

Note George Soro's is on this list!

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15 posted on 04/17/2005 3:37:48 PM PDT by Beth528
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To: Tailgunner Joe

Wonder if this will get some howling from certain individuals on FR.


16 posted on 04/17/2005 3:38:49 PM PDT by Tench_Coxe
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To: elfman2
I didn't ask you if you cared about him, I don't care about him, but he pokes a hole in this balloon. I suspect the article is largely true but perhaps it paints with too broad a brush.
17 posted on 04/17/2005 3:42:01 PM PDT by Mark in the Old South (Sister Lucia of Fatima pray for us)
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To: Tailgunner Joe
"snicker. They're "born that way," just like queers."

Fortunately most Christian aren’t so unhappy with themselves that they have to slander others to get through the day.

18 posted on 04/17/2005 3:43:31 PM PDT by elfman2 (@ copyright 2005)
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To: Tench_Coxe

You can count on it.


19 posted on 04/17/2005 3:43:50 PM PDT by anniegetyourgun
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To: 1FASTGLOCK45
"interesting article."

I'll second that. I've just sent it around to about 100 friends on my email list, but it's so profound, extensive (exhaustive!) and so complete that it leaves little room for commentary. The writer has pretty much covered the topic.

20 posted on 04/17/2005 3:45:25 PM PDT by CHARLITE (I lost my car keys.....and now I have to walk everywhere...)
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