"...Hide behind "complexity" if you like buy what you really have is a complex."
Don't we all have a complex of some kind?
This thread has gone from a discussion (though heated, at times) to a "Get Monkey Face" kinda thing, don't you think?
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! Priceless cluelessness. Darlin' don't go poking people and then rebuke them for defending themselves. If you can't take the heat, don't hand it out. We've all be soundly rebuffed at one time or another for something we've posted. It makes us better thinkers and more circumspect in our positions.
But, it doesn't make us victims.
If you don't want to get shot at, keep your head down.
It isn't about "you".
That may be part of your problem.
When you get off on a "God is incompetent to do anything except judge [the way I want Him to]" jag, you can expect people to get in your Monkey Face.