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Nebraska charges man for having sex with 14-year-old wife
Associated Press ^ | Tuesday July 26, 2005 | KEVIN O'HANLON

Posted on 07/26/2005 2:08:42 PM PDT by BenLurkin

LINCOLN, Neb. (AP) A 22-year-old man faces criminal charges in Nebraska for having sex with an underage 13-year-old girl, although he legally married her in Kansas after she became pregnant.

The man's lawyer said the couple, with their families' support, ``made a responsible decision to try to cope with the problem.''

Matthew Koso, 22, was charged Monday with first-degree sexual assault, punishable by up to 50 years in prison. He was released on $7,500 bail pending an Aug. 17 preliminary hearing.

After the girl became pregnant, her mother gave permission in May for Koso to take the young woman to Kansas, which allows minors to get married with parental consent. The girl is now 14 and seven months pregnant.

``The idea ... is repugnant to me,'' said Nebraska Attorney General Jon Bruning. ``These people made the decision to send their ... 14-year-old daughter to Kansas to marry a pedophile.''

He said the marriage is valid, thanks to the ``ridiculous'' Kansas law, ``but it doesn't matter. I'm not going to stand by while a grown man ... has a relationship with a 13-year-old now 14-year-old girl.''

Bruning, who has said he will seek a second term in 2006, has aggressively prosecuted sex crimes against children since he was elected in 2002

The couple were married in May by a judge in Hiawatha, Kan., just across the state line from Falls City.

Nebraska allows people as young as 17 to marry if they have parental consent.

Kansas law, however, sets no minimum marriage age, although case law sets the minimum age at 14 for boys and 12 for girls. The marriage must be approved by both parents or guardian, or by a district court judge, said Whitney Watson, spokesman for Kansas Attorney General Phill Kline. A judge also must approve if only one parent approves.

Koso's lawyer, Willis Yoesel, said the girl's mother and Koso's parents approved of the marriage. He said the girl's father has not lived with the family for some time.

``It seems to me like they, as much as they could, made a responsible decision to try to cope with the problem,'' Yoesel said.

``The families are all united in this effort,'' Yoesel said. ``I don't know who is complaining. ... What benefit is there to anybody in the prosecution of this young man?''

There was no comment from Koso, who does not have a listed telephone number.


TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; US: Kansas; US: Nebraska
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1 posted on 07/26/2005 2:08:43 PM PDT by BenLurkin
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To: BenLurkin
"...What benefit is there to anybody in the prosecution of this young man?"

Um, keeping a child molestor off the streets?

2 posted on 07/26/2005 2:10:56 PM PDT by thoughtomator (How many liberties shall we give up to maintain the pretense that we are not at war with Islam?)
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To: BenLurkin
Nebraska Attorney General Jon Bruning. ``These people made the decision to send their ... 14-year-old daughter to Kansas to marry a pedophile.'' He said the marriage is valid, thanks to the ``ridiculous'' Kansas law....

No jury in the history of the world is going to find the young man guilty.

3 posted on 07/26/2005 2:11:54 PM PDT by FormerACLUmember (Honoring Saint Jude's assistance every day.)
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To: BenLurkin

The Prophet Mohammed (may the peace and blessings of Allaah the beneficient and merciful be upon him) married a 5 yr old, so why is this bad?

/s


4 posted on 07/26/2005 2:13:18 PM PDT by Dolphan (It's the 99% of Mohammedans that make the other 1% look bad.)
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To: BenLurkin
He said the marriage is valid, thanks to the ``ridiculous'' Kansas law, ``but it doesn't matter. I'm not going to stand by while a grown man ... has a relationship with a 13-year-old now 14-year-old girl.''

I REALLY hope this guy doesn't go for any higher office. He COMPLETELY contradicted himself in one sentence right there. THEN AGAIN, he could have a great future as a Democrat....
5 posted on 07/26/2005 2:13:19 PM PDT by MikefromOhio (Proud member of Planet ManRam)
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To: BenLurkin

Oddly in such cases, the male is always the age he is today. While the female is the age she was back when a crime is alledged.


6 posted on 07/26/2005 2:13:33 PM PDT by JLS
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To: BenLurkin

This is bigger than a lot of people might think. If the marriage is upheld in Federal courts under full faith and credit, then gay marriages will have to be recognized over state lines. If not, then the poisonous gay marriage decisions will be held within the borders. This is worth watching.


7 posted on 07/26/2005 2:13:33 PM PDT by AmishDude (Join the Amishdude fan club: "LOL, you have a great sense of humor." -- msmagoo54)
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To: FormerACLUmember

No I could see a guilty verdict in Nebraska.

The jurors will be instructed on Nebraska law which evidently holds no exception for married couples.

I guess in Kansas it would be perfectly legal.


8 posted on 07/26/2005 2:14:07 PM PDT by BenLurkin (O beautiful for patriot dream - that sees beyond the years)
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To: FormerACLUmember

I guess he's being tried for the premarital sex, not postmarital.

I still doubt he'll be convicted, though.


9 posted on 07/26/2005 2:14:10 PM PDT by ahayes
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To: BenLurkin

To be blunt, I've seen some 13-year-old girls I *really* thought were a lot older. Early bloomers, a side effect of growth hormones, I dunno... just... damn. Good thing I'm chick repellant, or I'd'a been in trouble sometimes.


10 posted on 07/26/2005 2:14:43 PM PDT by orionblamblam ("You're the poster boy for what ID would turn out if it were taught in our schools." VadeRetro)
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To: FormerACLUmember

Put me on that jury and I bet I can convince them he is.


11 posted on 07/26/2005 2:14:54 PM PDT by Abathar (Proudly catching hell for posting without reading since 2004)
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To: BenLurkin
Hm. This is a tough one -- he shouldn't have been having sex with her in the first place, but now he's married her.... The age of consent laws are designed to prevent older men from taking advantage, but the marriage seems to nullify that.

Of course, if it'd been my daughter, I'd be up on murder charges.

12 posted on 07/26/2005 2:15:13 PM PDT by r9etb
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To: FormerACLUmember
For crying out loud - the kid was stupid to get involved with a teenager but at least he did the right thing by marrying her.

How long ago was it that 14 yo girls were married off? Here in the States?

I suppose they could have killed the baby, would that have been better?

13 posted on 07/26/2005 2:15:39 PM PDT by corkoman (Overhyped)
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To: JLS

I'm not sure 13 and 21 makes it any better.


14 posted on 07/26/2005 2:16:04 PM PDT by sharktrager (My life is like a box of chocolates, but someone took all the good ones.)
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To: FormerACLUmember

No jury in the history of the world is going to find the young man guilty.
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One would think unless the DA can stack the jury with people like the poster above your post.


15 posted on 07/26/2005 2:16:40 PM PDT by JLS
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To: BenLurkin
Bruning is making a complete ass of himself.
He will lose this case and the ridicule will probably cost him the election as well.

So9

16 posted on 07/26/2005 2:16:49 PM PDT by Servant of the 9 (Trust Me)
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To: thoughtomator
"...What benefit is there to anybody in the prosecution of this young man?"

Um, keeping a child molestor off the streets?

I don't know what is in the mind of an adult who wants to have sex with a child, but the culture seems to find it "O.K." Mary Kay Leturneau (sp?) is apparently marrying the father of her two youngest children who was 12 when they first became involved, and it is all perfectly legal. Very strange...

17 posted on 07/26/2005 2:16:51 PM PDT by podkane
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To: BenLurkin
The prosecutor can bluster all he wants, and we can debate the morality of it all we want. The truth is this: they are married, legally. Furthermore, it's generally unreasonable to think that a husband is not going to have sex with his wife for 4 years. What this guy did is not illegal, thus, he cannot and should not be prosecuted.

It might be a good idea for Kansans to write their congresscritters, however, and see about getting some laws changed.
18 posted on 07/26/2005 2:17:00 PM PDT by JamesP81
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To: FormerACLUmember
If I were on the jury, I'd like to know if this was a habit, or passion.

I'm familiar with a similar case, where a teenaged boy of legal age (just barely) served time for sexual assault, who then returned when both were of age and married the girl. They're just another couple now, and he's trying to get his name off the sexual offenders list. Should he get cut a break? The ages and age differences were similar to Romeo and Juliet.

We do have these early marriages in our frontier history. There should be some common sense applied here--

19 posted on 07/26/2005 2:17:25 PM PDT by Mamzelle
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To: BenLurkin

The sad thing is that if he'd have gotten her an abortion, there'd be no problem.


20 posted on 07/26/2005 2:18:02 PM PDT by narby (There are Bloggers, and then there are Freepers.)
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To: AmishDude

I would not worry about the gay marriage crossing lines -- based on this, at least.

As disgusting as this is to me, this is a valid marriage --- and used to not be uncommon even 50 years ago (remember Jerry Lee Lewis), and were common 100 years ago.



21 posted on 07/26/2005 2:18:11 PM PDT by MeanWestTexan
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To: corkoman
Maybe the husband can get the marriage anulled and than when she has the baby, he can adopt them both.
22 posted on 07/26/2005 2:18:51 PM PDT by Normal4me (I'm sweating like a muslim wearing a backpack on a London subway!)
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To: BenLurkin

Why is it whenever I read of this sort of thing I imagine the wedding march being played on a banjo?


23 posted on 07/26/2005 2:19:08 PM PDT by commonasdirt (Reading DU so you won't hafta)
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To: BenLurkin

What's the big friggin' deal?! The girl's MOTHER gave Matthew permission to marry her daughter. Why is the court system even involved and why are FReepers chiming in with ad hominem attacks about sexual predator when it's not even relevant to the story?


24 posted on 07/26/2005 2:19:10 PM PDT by Extremely Extreme Extremist
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To: sharktrager

Marginally, but we are not at trial yet. By the time we get to trial if this DA is stupid enough to prosecute, the male will be 25 and the female 13. You see how it will be? Then if convicted he will be a 29 year old male appealing his conviction of sex with his then 13 year old wife.


25 posted on 07/26/2005 2:19:22 PM PDT by JLS
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To: orionblamblam
"To be blunt, I've seen some 13-year-old girls I *really* thought were a lot older. Early bloomers, a side effect of growth hormones, I dunno... just... damn. Good thing I'm chick repellant, or I'd'a been in trouble sometimes."

Not blunt, the truth only appears blunt to the naysayers.
26 posted on 07/26/2005 2:19:22 PM PDT by Ursus arctos horribilis ("It is better to die on your feet than to live on your knees!" Emiliano Zapata 1879-1919)
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To: BenLurkin
Isn't she a little young? http://www.vahealth.org/civp/sexualviolence/varapelaws/

Granted, this didn't happen Virginia, but it reminded me of a pretty powerful ad campaign to stop creeps like this guy.

Isn't she a little young?

Sex with a minor. Don't go there.
An adult who has sex with a minor
is breaking the law. The law is
there to protect younger teens from
unhealthy relationships and its
consequences. Consent is not the
issue.

27 posted on 07/26/2005 2:19:31 PM PDT by Fixit (comedian.blogspot.com)
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To: BenLurkin
After the girl became pregnant, her mother gave permission in May for Koso to take the young woman to Kansas, which allows minors to get married with parental consent. The girl is now 14 and seven months pregnant.

That's some good parenting, mom.

28 posted on 07/26/2005 2:19:44 PM PDT by silent_jonny (every time a conservative is nominated an angel gets his wings)
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To: BenLurkin

The man committed a crime, period. What he did afterwards (marrying her) does not matter.


29 posted on 07/26/2005 2:22:23 PM PDT by zeebee
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To: BenLurkin

He committed a crime in Nebraska prior to the marriage. Neither the girls mother, nor his mother and father, can write him a note excusing him from having illicit sex with 13 year old girls. I'd say he's gonna get convicted.


30 posted on 07/26/2005 2:22:33 PM PDT by jwalsh07
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To: BenLurkin

The headline makes is sound as though the act was post-wedding when in fact the wedding is the result of an illegal relationship. Marriage after the fact does not nullify the illegality of the act.

Can you imagine the precedent that would be set by allowing pedophiles off the hook if they simply marry their victims?

The consenuality of the act has no bearing on the law as it relates to statutory rape. That is what distinguishes cases of statutory rape from forcible rape of a minor.

And what parent in their right mind sends their 13/14 year old daughter off to marry a man of 22? It's like they are rewarding his illegal behavior. "Well, heck, you got away with it at least once, so now u can just have her anytime you want."

Me - I think the concept of the shotgun wedding in cases like this should be replaced with a 'shotgun' induced family gathering of another sort.


31 posted on 07/26/2005 2:22:44 PM PDT by BlueNgold (Feed the Tree .....)
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To: BenLurkin
I guess in Kansas it would be perfectly legal.

Seems to me they need to add the "Ar" to Kansas.

32 posted on 07/26/2005 2:23:18 PM PDT by dfwgator
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To: BenLurkin

Bruning is looking ahead, see
http://www.jonbruning.com/
"Future home of Jon Bruning.com and Jon Bruning Campaign"

but I think he'll lose on this in the court of public opinion.


33 posted on 07/26/2005 2:24:10 PM PDT by bwteim (Begin With The End In Mind)
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To: MeanWestTexan

My wife's grandfather married her grandmother when he was 28 and she was 15.

No one thought anything about it.

They were married until they died of old age.


34 posted on 07/26/2005 2:24:26 PM PDT by Skooz (Political Correctness will eventually destroy America)
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To: silent_jonny
After the girl became pregnant, her mother gave permission in May for Koso to take the young woman to Kansas, which allows minors to get married with parental consent. The girl is now 14 and seven months pregnant.

That's some good parenting, mom.

NO KIDDING. setting a great precedent there! When we're trying to get kids to abstain from sex during their teen years, we're giving license for very young teenage promiscuity as long as it's with someone old enough to be their dad! yow..

35 posted on 07/26/2005 2:24:48 PM PDT by podkane
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To: Mamzelle
I'm familiar with a similar case, where a teenaged boy of legal age (just barely) served time for sexual assault, who then returned when both were of age and married the girl. They're just another couple now, and he's trying to get his name off the sexual offenders list. Should he get cut a break? The ages and age differences were similar to Romeo and Juliet.

Short answer, yes. One of my best friends, who is about 23, is now dating a young lady of 18. No big deal, except if they had starting dating six months earlier people would throwing about the 'sexual predator' (it wouldn't have been true then. They are both conservative christians and will remain celebate until they marry, but that's not what people would've thought about them).

The age of consent laws need to be amended in a few ways. One of them being if the two are within 1 or 2 years of each other in age then it doesn't count as assault (an eighteen year old and a 17 year old together is not as bad as a 19 year old and a 45 year old, but the latter is legal and the former is not).

I'm just speaking from a legal standpoint only. I'm a christian; I believe in celibacy until marriage.
36 posted on 07/26/2005 2:26:26 PM PDT by JamesP81
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To: BenLurkin

I was once searching records at a court house in Alabama and was surprised how many 14 year olds had been issued marriage licenses.


37 posted on 07/26/2005 2:26:39 PM PDT by yarddog
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To: FormerACLUmember

It depends on what is being prosecuted. If he is trying to prosecute the guy for sleeping with his wife, in the absence of a Nebraska law with no exception for married people, he probably will not win if the jury has an ounce of common sense (it's not a California jury, so I'm optimistic).

However, if he is being prosecuted for impregnating her when he clearly was committing statutory rape, Daddy's goin' to jail!


38 posted on 07/26/2005 2:28:32 PM PDT by GatorGirl (God Bless Pope Benedict XVI)
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To: orionblamblam

I have seen 14-year-olds who look like they are 18.


39 posted on 07/26/2005 2:29:05 PM PDT by rwfromkansas (http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=rwfromkansas)
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To: jwalsh07
He committed a crime in Nebraska prior to the marriage

And interestingly, it seems like the prosecutor isn't prosecuting that particular crime. I wonder why? Maybe he's just an idiot. Many attorneys are.
40 posted on 07/26/2005 2:30:10 PM PDT by JamesP81
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To: BenLurkin

Would some of the posters have been happier if the guy hadn't married the girl?


41 posted on 07/26/2005 2:31:27 PM PDT by curmudgeonII (I've had amnesia once...or twice.)
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To: JamesP81
What this guy did is not illegal, thus, he cannot and should not be prosecuted.

Err, yes, it is illegal - she couldn't give consent because of her age, thus it is statutory rape, even if you exclude any further relations after they were married. Even though they are married, he is still committing statutory rape since there is no exemption for marrying someone so young.

If that was how they wanted to live, might have been a good idea to stay out of the state and live where such behavior isn't illegal.
42 posted on 07/26/2005 2:32:42 PM PDT by kingu
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To: thoughtomator

Until relatively recently, it was common for a woman to be married off once she had her period. 14 year old brides were VERY common. Don't let your 21st century suburban values blind you to this.


43 posted on 07/26/2005 2:33:02 PM PDT by Clemenza (JJesus CChrist MMade SSeattle UUnder PProtest)
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To: BenLurkin

All of these posts and not one that questions the abortion industry's protection of predator adult males who impregnate young teenage gals then drop them off at an abortion mill.

I am not aware of single abortion factory that has been brought up on charges of protecting statutory rape.


44 posted on 07/26/2005 2:33:13 PM PDT by Jacquerie (Democrats soil the institutions they control)
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To: kingu
Err, yes, it is illegal - she couldn't give consent because of her age, thus it is statutory rape, even if you exclude any further relations after they were married

I refer you to my post #40.
45 posted on 07/26/2005 2:33:51 PM PDT by JamesP81
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To: BenLurkin

I thought the SCOTUS cleared all this up...that now, anything goes....


46 posted on 07/26/2005 2:34:26 PM PDT by stylin19a (In golf, some are long, I'm "Lama Long")
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To: JamesP81
"And interestingly, it seems like the prosecutor isn't prosecuting that particular crime. I wonder why? Maybe he's just an idiot. Many attorneys are."

No, he is prosecuting for the sex with a 13 year old, not for marrying a 14 year old.

Jon Bruning is not an idiot. He is a fine and respectable person and a great asset to the State of Nebraska.
47 posted on 07/26/2005 2:34:37 PM PDT by SolidRedState (E Pluribus Funk --- (Latin taglines are sooooo cool! Don't ya think?))
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To: BenLurkin

Marrying your rapist is a Muslim tradition.
Let's not bring that crap over here.


48 posted on 07/26/2005 2:37:52 PM PDT by SJSAMPLE
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To: Dolphan
The Prophet Mohammed (may the peace and blessings of Allaah the beneficient and merciful be upon him) married a 5 yr old

Aisha's age just keeps going down. Next thing you'll hear he consummated the marriage in the womb.

49 posted on 07/26/2005 2:37:59 PM PDT by antiRepublicrat
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To: BenLurkin

I guess I'm really old-fashioned. Back in the day before women were given license to murder their off-spring so long as they hadn't had the good fortune to be born yet, the young man in question would be described as "doing the right thing" because he married the girl he impregnated.

Quite frankly I think Kansas law is perfectly fine on this point, complete with a 16 year old age of consent, exceptions for marriages involving younger spouses, and Romeo-and-Juliet provisions which do not extend the definition of statutory rape to relations between couples close enough in age. The rest of the country by trying to pretend that young women (in the full biological sense of women) are still children is seeking to criminalize normal human sexual behavior under the bogus claim of suppressing 'pedophilia'. (Last I checked pedophilia was a morbid fetishistic attraction to pre-pubescent children, not a normal sexual attraction to young sexually mature members of the opposite sex.)

Maybe the couple can flee to Kansas, where presumably there
would be no interest in extraditing him.

Of course, we could always revive laws against fornication and adultery in general.


50 posted on 07/26/2005 2:41:17 PM PDT by The_Reader_David (And when they behead your own people in the wars which are to come, then you will know . . .)
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