Posted on 09/03/2005 8:06:40 AM PDT by Pikamax
Parents push public schools to be more Muslim-friendly 9/3/2005, 8:31 a.m. ET By WAYNE PARRY The Associated Press
CLIFFSIDE PARK, N.J. (AP) — Yasmeen Elsamra had a simple request: While her classmates were eating lunch, she wanted to go off by herself for a few moments and pray.
The 14-year-old was told she couldn't, and went home distraught that afternoon in October 2003. Praying five times a day is a cornerstone of her Muslim faith.
"If I wasn't allowed to pray my second prayer at school, I couldn't do it at home," she said. "When school finishes, the third prayer begins."
Her family contacted a Muslim advocacy group, the Council on American-Islamic Relations, which asked the school district to reconsider. Eventually, the district acknowledged it had no policy preventing a student from praying on his or her own during free time, and allowed Yasmine to use an empty classroom to unfurl her prayer rug, face Mecca and touch her head to the floor in a few moments of worship.
Her case was part of a nationwide grassroots effort by Muslim parents to make public schools more friendly and accommodating to Muslim students. The movement gained strength following the Sept. 11, 2001 terror attacks.
"The reality for many Muslim students in public schools is very difficult," said Ingrid Mattson, vice president of the Islamic Society of North America. "It's highly stressful."
She said her children were sometimes taunted in their Connecticut school district.
"The kids will say, `Hey Osama, do you have a bomb? Are you going to blow us up?' " she said. "My daughter has had people try to pull her head scarf off, or say, `What are you doing with that rag on your head?' But they have also had friends who defended them."
Noor Ennab, a fifth grader who attends the private Muslim Al-Noor School in Brooklyn, N.Y., said she was driven out of her public school by post-Sept. 11 harassment.
"Before that (the 2001 terror attacks) happened, we were treated so kind," she said. "Now it's like, '`You're a terrorist; get out of this country.' "
Older students also have had problems. Debra Mason of Jersey City dropped out of Fairleigh Dickinson University's nursing program after she said she was told to remove her head covering during patient rounds. The New Jersey civil rights division recently found probable cause to proceed with an investigation into whether the school violated her rights. The school declined comment on the case.
Mason said she can't imagine how anyone could feel uncomfortable seeing a nurse with a head scarf, particularly in northern New Jersey.
"It's not like no one's ever seen a Muslim," she said. "There are Muslim doctors everywhere, Muslim nurses, and Muslim patients."
Some school districts are starting to take notice. A zero-tolerance policy on harassment of Muslim students was adopted by the Broward County school board in Florida in March 2003, just before the U.S.-led invasion of Iraq began.
In February, Muslim community leaders led the Pledge of Allegiance at a San Antonio high school as part of a daylong conference on Islam.
Paterson, N.J., home to the state's largest Arab-American community, lets some students out of class early on Friday to attend prayers with their parents' permission, and is one of a handful of New Jersey districts that closes schools for Eid-al-Fitr, a Muslim religious holiday.
"You're seeing a lot of schools becoming more sensitive this way," said Michael Yaple, a spokesman for the New Jersey School Boards Association. "A lot of these decisions are based on demographics. For generations, the major school holidays were Christian and Jewish ones. But New Jersey has become so diverse that you're seeing more districts seeing to the needs of their students and staff."
Bassima Mustafa, a civics teacher in Paterson, said it is crucial that students feel comfortable and welcome in the classroom.
"A majority of our students are immigrants or the children of immigrants," she said. "It's going to spread as the population increases."
But despite a large Muslim student population, efforts to add Eid to the school holiday calendar fizzled earlier this year in Baltimore, where the school board voted 10-0 against the proposal. That disappointed Samira Hussein, a parent of four and an educator who helped nudge the Montgomery County school district in Maryland toward a more inclusive curriculum.
She and others got the district to send teachers and administrators to a special Ramadan celebration each fall at local mosques marking the holiest month of the Muslim calendar. The teachers ate lunch there and spoke to parents and students about Islam and how it intersects with the school day, particularly what it feels like to fast during the day while other children eat.
Now, her kids and other Muslim students sit at a cafeteria table doing homework, playing games or just talking during lunch.
That's the kind of simple accommodation that Aliya Rohani wishes every Muslim student could have.
"I don't want to be hated by other people," said Rohani, who attends the Al-Noor School in Brooklyn and said she was harassed by non-Muslims after 9/11. "I didn't do anything wrong. I would go home to my mom and cry. I started saying, `No, I'm not Arabic.' But I don't want to deny who I am."
But .. they disguise their "cult of hate" as a religion - so we need to respond as if it were. They think we're too stupid to figure it out - and they don't seem to realize that we have ALREADY FIGURED IT OUT.
Oh they'll glory in the diversity not realizing there will be none of that sentiment headed back in their direction, and that they are contributing to the extinction of the values system that gave them their standard of living.
And we should not be doing anything to accommodate Islam that we do not do for other religions, be it Christianity, Judaism, Buddhism, or Hinduism! They can stay home during Rama-lama-ding dong, as Jewish kids in my high school did during Rosh Hoshana and Yom Kippur.
You tend to have problems like this when a school-system is run entirely by liberal Democrats, which is the norm here in New Jersey
I think I'll throw up.
You are so correct in your assessment: "... none of that sentiment headed back in their direction, and ... they (the liberals) are contributing to the extinction of the values system that gave them their standard of living."
But the saddest part is - the extinction will take place before they realize it and then it might be too late to fix it.
If people are wild and evil, the USA let them have their way. This will lead to the fall of a nation. The USA has been giving into terrorists all over the world.
I would not be willing to fight for any nation with an Islamic constitution, for it is just replacing one evil with another one.
" I started saying, `No, I'm not Arabic.'"
That stupid chick doesn't even know that "Arabic" designates the language, not the person.
Muslims do not have to pray with their rear up in the air.
The best advice for the unhappy Muslims is to go to Saudi Arabia where they can exercise all of their rights as Muslims.
Muslims do not have to pray with their rear up in the air.
In the Bible is a phrase something to the effect, "Be ye not unequally yoked together." IMO, that is important advise. What we see today is a Christian nation being forced to accomodate the norms of a hostile religion.
Here we are in America experiencing the same problem that the children of Israel did thousands of years ago. We are comingling with the Philistines and expecting a different outcome. Big mistake IMO...
Our God WILL NOT be pleased by this. As He withdrew his hand from Israel for periods of time, so goes the nation.
We are sewing so many seeds of our own destruction these days, it's really becoming hard for me to see this nation continuing on as it has in the past.
I'll probably catch flack for this, but this is the way I see it.
"What we see today is a Christian nation being forced to accomodate the norms of a hostile religion."
Well .. I don't agree we're being FORCED .. I think we're trying to be nice about it .. but the bombings in London have shown a lot of people that maybe being so nice is not the right thing to do.
People need to be assimilated into the community .. not forced to form their own community. And .. if they want their own community .. we should be very suspicious.
While the Irish, Germans, Poles - huddled in groups to live - they assimilated into the community as AMERICANS.
That's the secret.
Yes, agree that assimilation is vital. Take care.
This is the first time I have ever seen that written. I'm sorry, I do not like it. It is worse than that abbreviation of Christmas as 'Xmas'. It takes Christ out of it. His name should always be written out, so the world never forgets.
Ooohhhh.... Yeah, I've heard some things negative about Xmas. Hrm... I was just being lazy, and got it adapted from takin notes at school (Catholic hs). Hrm, good point tho. Thanks.
okay......muslims pray 5 times a day. Praying to god is not singing or doing actions or anything like that. Praying is the 1st thing a person will be asked upon when they die. The angels and god wont ask you wat have u been up to, what did u do in ur summer vacation, or did u bring ur bible to school... Praying is the most important thing. Each Prayer in Islam has times, and a muslim must pray it on time, and before the next prayer time arrives.
Muslims SHOULD pray in their schools. at least in my school we do. And i see no objection of that.
The only thing that ALL students cant do is force anyone into a religion. Another thing, Muslims in public schools are a symbol, we are there and they see us, they ask about us, and wonder, and keep asking.
Besides Islam is a peace religion, everything u hear on the media is inncorrect. That is not MUSLIMS and that is not the religion ISLAM. if you really want to learn about it read the Quran (The HOly Boook) the last revealed book of all the books revealed by god including the torah, bibel, zabour, and others..
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