Posted on 01/11/2006 6:32:06 AM PST by NYer
Exactly. I sympathize with women in the Middle East who may feel their lives are at stake, but women in the U.S. have other options - such as being honest.
For a man who knows his wife/girlfriend isn't a virgin - because they've been married for 15 years and have children, for example - it almost seems like feeding a rapist instinct. If he's really into this, what's he going to do if his wife doesn't want to be "reconstructed" a second or third time?
Probably your husband is like mine, and cares about something in addition to appearance ... love, fidelity, humor, tolerance, patience, clean laundry, a balanced checkbook ...
And presumably, you can file the taxes :~D
Absolutely! I have to confess I got tripped by Alternative Minimum Tax once, though. It's been almost 20 years since my income tax courses, and 10 since I left my job, so I'm not up to date.
Well I haven't heard of folks doing this, fully well with the man they are with knowing they aren't just for the sake of it... most of what I have read or seen on this is gals who for whatever reason aren't (not divorced with kids) but wind up with a guy who wants them to be one, or get involved with a ethnic group man that highly expects it them to be.
I know if I was obsessed with taking someones virginity, I'd be out finding a virgin, not asking gals I know aren't to sew it back up so I could pretend.
WHAT???? You do laundry and can keep a checkbook balanced??? Damn.. not going to be able to keep from thinking of you all day ;)
More stupid women doing stupid things to make themselves feel better, unfreakinbelievable.
So what happens when the "Virginal Bride" and her husband meets up with one of her former lovers?
LOL!
Think about bringing home takeout Chinese, because my cooking is "What's with this casserole, again?"
I hope these women plan on allowing their men to cat about a little so they can truly appreciate the restoration work.
That was the example in the article, but I expect it's not the usual situation. As everyone's been saying, unless a man's really weird, he'd rather have a cruise or a plasma-TV than fake being with a virgin for the same cost.
BTW, since we're on this fairly wacked subject, there's lots of virgins whose hymen is gone long before they ever have sex the first time. It does wear away naturally, I guess mine did, I have no memory of it so it seems a bizarre concept to even contemplate as part of sex. Any girl who is active in sports or athletics at all, rides horses or has a bicycle, probably has no hymen any more. Which is why it's particularly barbaric when it is seen as some kind of a proof with consequences.
FRegards,
H-T
I actually strongly approve of this for poor women trapped with islamfascicsts. I read someplace they check the sheets on the wedding night for blood to "prove" the gal is a virgin, sounds like this surgery would save their lives. I would guess most of the women who have this surgery there were raped or molested and don't feel like being stoned. But it makes NO sense -- and is actually a little weird -- to think reattaching a piece of skin will make it like you never had sex. Your sexual experiences are still in your memory, you aren't fooling anyone.
Ah man.. Typical gal... teases you and leads you on.. and then BAM.. crushes it all with the truth. :)
Sorry, Gotta have a gal who can cook... after all looks fade, but you always gotta eat.
Forget the cost... man that's beyond freaky..
If ya want a virgin, go out and find a virgin. If you want to role play, get get a blood pack and place it in the area.. .if you are man "enough" you can have the blood if that's your thing.
Me personally, nothing against a little role play, but wouldn't require surgery by my partner to do it. Largest sex organs the mind.. know how to get that going, and the rest of her will follow you anywhere.
It was developed for women who came to America to study, but had to seem "pure" when they returned. To see Western women use it for vanity or some other perversion is, well, perverted.
SD
major wince reaction ... and i'm a guy
yowzers!
How about a nice Bravo Juliet?
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