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Sex and the Single (Preteen) Girl: Gossip Girl
Breakpoint with Charles Colson ^ | April 3, 2006 | Charles Colson

Posted on 04/04/2006 6:29:59 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback

When writer Marcia Segelstein headed to the bookstore to scout out books for her 12-year-old, she wasn’t sure what to expect. But she certainly didn’t expect rampant drinking, drug use, profanity, and explicit descriptions of sex and nudity.

Nevertheless, that’s exactly what she found.

Segelstein’s daughter had been clamoring to read the Gossip Girl series, which “‘all’ of her friends were reading,” she said. After seeing what was in the books, Segelstein was floored. But a school librarian confirmed, “They’re very popular among sixth and seventh graders.” Even worse, the librarian added, “Some parents are so happy that their kids are reading anything, they don’t care what it is.”

The series, described by Teen People magazine as “Sex and the City for the younger set,” is set among a group of wealthy, spoiled students at an elite New York high school. And the drugs, drinking, and various kinds of sexual encounters aren’t their only problem behavior. Both teen and adult characters engage in binging and purging. Also of concern is the unfettered materialism. With the constant name-dropping of expensive stores, clothing designers, cosmetics, and other pricey name brands, some of the pages in these books read like advertisements.

Perhaps the worst part is that no moral judgments are made at all. As Segelstein put it in an article on our BreakPoint website, “The fact that the Gossip Girl books are nowhere close to being well written pales in comparison to the fact that they are utterly amoral. . . . They smoke, they drink, they have sex, they do drugs—yet they never have problems like getting AIDS or becoming pregnant or getting arrested or flunking out of school. Consequences don’t exist in the lives of these ‘chosen ones,’ as they’re called. The fictional world of the Gossip Girl books is a dangerous one, yet it is never portrayed as such.”

Gossip Girl author Cecily von Ziegesar admits that she wrote the books that way for a reason. She told Colby magazine, “It’s completely unrealistic to have a group of kids who are constantly reforming or who are being punished because they’re ‘naughty.’ And I always resented that quality in books I’d read.” She goes on, “I don’t know what it is that redeems the characters, exactly, but deep down, they’re still good kids.”

I can answer the author’s question—there’s very little redemptive about her characters. And that’s why parents of preteen girls need to do their job and keep these corrosive books out of their homes and out of their daughters’ lives. Von Ziegesar herself tipped her hand when she wrote in one of the books, “Luckily Blair and her friends came from the kind of families for whom drinking was as commonplace as blowing your nose. Their parents believed . . . that the more access kids have to alcohol, the less likely they are to abuse it. . . . The same thing went for everything else, like sex or drugs—as long as you kept up appearances, you were all right.”

There’s no justification for that kind of parenting, in fiction or in life. And there’s no excuse for putting this kind of literature into the hands of young girls who need to learn better.


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My, my, I would hate to be in von Ziegesar's shoes, now or on Judgement Day.

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1 posted on 04/04/2006 6:30:02 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback
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I am glad my daughter reads, and it is NOT gossip girls. She is into classics and other useful books. She loves reading the books before the movies come out and compares the two versions. My daughter is an independent thinker, not following the latest fads, she has flown ahead of many classmates and is proud of it.


2 posted on 04/04/2006 6:33:17 AM PDT by television is just wrong (Our sympathies are misguided with illegal aliens...)
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To: 351 Cleveland; AFPhys; agenda_express; almcbean; ambrose; Amos the Prophet; AnalogReigns; ...

BreakPoint/Chuck Colson Ping!

If anyone wants on or off my Chuck Colson/BreakPoint Ping List, please notify me here or by freepmail.

3 posted on 04/04/2006 6:33:36 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback ("I was in such a hurry to climb that tree, I punched a squirrel.")
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To: Mr. Silverback
Gossip Girl author Cecily von Ziegesar admits that she wrote the books that way for a reason. She told Colby magazine, “It’s completely unrealistic to have a group of kids who are constantly reforming or who are being punished because they’re ‘naughty.’ And I always resented that quality in books I’d read.” She goes on, “I don’t know what it is that redeems the characters, exactly, but deep down, they’re still good kids.”

"I don't know what redeems the characters" translates "I don't care what redeems the characters". If even the author doesn't know, suffice it to say there is not a lot of redemption going on.

Cecily von Ziegesar is laughing all the way to the bank, leaving nothing but destruction in her wake.

4 posted on 04/04/2006 6:36:08 AM PDT by bondjamesbond (RICE 2008)
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that is the saddest thing i read today...the damage the writers are causing on dozens of fronts is huge...and all for some sleazy cash...they are worse then hustler magazine in my view..


5 posted on 04/04/2006 6:37:11 AM PDT by Irishguy (How do ya LIKE THOSE APPLES!!!!)
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Reminds me of the stir "Valley High Girls" caused when I was about that age (late 80s) but they were NOTHING compared to this stuff. wow.


6 posted on 04/04/2006 6:37:17 AM PDT by lawgirl (She comes on like thunder and she's more right than rain)
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To: television is just wrong

Are they assigning these books as required reading in Public Schools yet? I wonder...


7 posted on 04/04/2006 6:37:31 AM PDT by bondjamesbond (RICE 2008)
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One of my pre-teen daughters just read Aristotle's Nicomachean Ethics.

She couldn't put it down.

8 posted on 04/04/2006 6:39:03 AM PDT by Carry_Okie (There are people in power who are truly evil.)
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My, my, I would hate to be in von Ziegesar's shoes, now or on Judgement Day.

Luke 17:2 It were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and he cast into the sea, than that he should offend one of these little ones.

Mat 25:41 Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand, Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels:

Absolutely the worse thing one could ever hear.

Cordially,
GE
9 posted on 04/04/2006 6:39:03 AM PDT by GrandEagle
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To: bondjamesbond

no


10 posted on 04/04/2006 6:40:11 AM PDT by television is just wrong (Our sympathies are misguided with illegal aliens...)
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To: Mr. Silverback
As the father of three girls - one of which is 10 (she likes to call herself a pre-teen), I appreciate very much my fellow FReepers helping me keep up with what is going on in the culture.
She is a very good girl with a sound Biblical foundation, but there have been a time or two where information I got from you folks has saved me lots of research time. When she asked, I knew the answer right away!

From the bottom of my heart I thank you!

Cordially,
GE
11 posted on 04/04/2006 6:43:02 AM PDT by GrandEagle
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“I don’t know what it is that redeems the characters, exactly, but deep down, they’re still good kids.”

Now where have I heard that reasoning before? Oh I remember - every time someone under 25 is arrested for something some reporter hauls out the the mother who says, "Deep down, she's still a good kid."

Now the Bible on the other hand...there's a book! Lays it out right from the start - we're sinners, every last one of us, with a rot that starts in our hearts. And then it details some of the sins and, best of all, tells what to do about it - how to get those sins taken care of. But I guess that's too moralistic and redemptive for the chosen ones who are on their way to hell. I'm just glad their kids are reading...excuse me while I puke up my pop tarts.
12 posted on 04/04/2006 6:47:04 AM PDT by AD from SpringBay (We have the government we allow and deserve.)
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To: GrandEagle

Dittos in situation and sentiment. Well said.


13 posted on 04/04/2006 6:48:27 AM PDT by AD from SpringBay (We have the government we allow and deserve.)
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To: AD from SpringBay

Isn't it great to have those extra eyes out there!


14 posted on 04/04/2006 6:53:58 AM PDT by GrandEagle
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To: Mr. Silverback

Any idea who the publisher is? This is a long way from Nancy Drew.


15 posted on 04/04/2006 6:54:02 AM PDT by jwalburg (If I have not seen as far as others, it is because of the giants standing on my shoulders.)
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To: GrandEagle

Absolutely. Every day I read something I would otherwise have no idea about. Where would we be without Freerepublic?


16 posted on 04/04/2006 6:56:46 AM PDT by AD from SpringBay (We have the government we allow and deserve.)
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To: Irishguy
they are worse then hustler magazine in my view..

Mine too. At least that smut is nominally aimed at adults.

17 posted on 04/04/2006 7:00:58 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback ("I was in such a hurry to climb that tree, I punched a squirrel.")
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“Some parents are so happy that their kids are reading anything, they don’t care what it is.”

There are so many good books for children and young adults ..... although many of them are out of print.

You'd think some publisher could make a killing selling a series of classic children's books.

18 posted on 04/04/2006 7:02:02 AM PDT by JohnnyZ (Happy New Year! Breed like dogs!)
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To: lawgirl
What was the problem with Sweet Valley High? Or are you just referring to their popularity when you say "a stir?"

I know nothing about this stuff, my daughter is nine and likes non-fiction, and of course I wasn't reading Sweet Valley High books back in the day. :-)

Although I will admit I read every single "Little House" book, even though most kids considered them girl books.

19 posted on 04/04/2006 7:04:22 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback ("I was in such a hurry to climb that tree, I punched a squirrel.")
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To: Irishguy
the damage the writers are causing on dozens of fronts is huge.
And now for the big question.....
WHERE ARE THE PARENTS????
20 posted on 04/04/2006 7:05:36 AM PDT by GrandEagle
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