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Sex and the Single (Preteen) Girl: Gossip Girl
Breakpoint with Charles Colson ^ | April 3, 2006 | Charles Colson

Posted on 04/04/2006 6:29:59 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback

When writer Marcia Segelstein headed to the bookstore to scout out books for her 12-year-old, she wasn’t sure what to expect. But she certainly didn’t expect rampant drinking, drug use, profanity, and explicit descriptions of sex and nudity.

Nevertheless, that’s exactly what she found.

Segelstein’s daughter had been clamoring to read the Gossip Girl series, which “‘all’ of her friends were reading,” she said. After seeing what was in the books, Segelstein was floored. But a school librarian confirmed, “They’re very popular among sixth and seventh graders.” Even worse, the librarian added, “Some parents are so happy that their kids are reading anything, they don’t care what it is.”

The series, described by Teen People magazine as “Sex and the City for the younger set,” is set among a group of wealthy, spoiled students at an elite New York high school. And the drugs, drinking, and various kinds of sexual encounters aren’t their only problem behavior. Both teen and adult characters engage in binging and purging. Also of concern is the unfettered materialism. With the constant name-dropping of expensive stores, clothing designers, cosmetics, and other pricey name brands, some of the pages in these books read like advertisements.

Perhaps the worst part is that no moral judgments are made at all. As Segelstein put it in an article on our BreakPoint website, “The fact that the Gossip Girl books are nowhere close to being well written pales in comparison to the fact that they are utterly amoral. . . . They smoke, they drink, they have sex, they do drugs—yet they never have problems like getting AIDS or becoming pregnant or getting arrested or flunking out of school. Consequences don’t exist in the lives of these ‘chosen ones,’ as they’re called. The fictional world of the Gossip Girl books is a dangerous one, yet it is never portrayed as such.”

Gossip Girl author Cecily von Ziegesar admits that she wrote the books that way for a reason. She told Colby magazine, “It’s completely unrealistic to have a group of kids who are constantly reforming or who are being punished because they’re ‘naughty.’ And I always resented that quality in books I’d read.” She goes on, “I don’t know what it is that redeems the characters, exactly, but deep down, they’re still good kids.”

I can answer the author’s question—there’s very little redemptive about her characters. And that’s why parents of preteen girls need to do their job and keep these corrosive books out of their homes and out of their daughters’ lives. Von Ziegesar herself tipped her hand when she wrote in one of the books, “Luckily Blair and her friends came from the kind of families for whom drinking was as commonplace as blowing your nose. Their parents believed . . . that the more access kids have to alcohol, the less likely they are to abuse it. . . . The same thing went for everything else, like sex or drugs—as long as you kept up appearances, you were all right.”

There’s no justification for that kind of parenting, in fiction or in life. And there’s no excuse for putting this kind of literature into the hands of young girls who need to learn better.


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To: Carry_Okie
One of my pre-teen daughters just read Aristotle's Nicomachean Ethics.

You...are...an...AWESOME parent!

21 posted on 04/04/2006 7:06:18 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback ("I was in such a hurry to climb that tree, I punched a squirrel.")
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To: GrandEagle
De nada, mi amigo. I am so glad to do it.
22 posted on 04/04/2006 7:07:53 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback ("I was in such a hurry to climb that tree, I punched a squirrel.")
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To: AD from SpringBay
Good post.

My kids like to watch Animal Planet and Discovery Channel stuff. I try to keep the TV watching to a minimum despite the fact that most of it is of good quality. That said, I'd rather park them in front of cartoons all day every day for years than have them reading one page of this smut. Some people are just freakin' insane and have no business raising children.

23 posted on 04/04/2006 7:10:31 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback ("I was in such a hurry to climb that tree, I punched a squirrel.")
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To: television is just wrong

My granddaughter is devouring the Chronicles of Narnia after seeing the movie. She already read the series once.
Her parents don't care what she reads, as long as it is good literature! The family is big on Tolkien, too.


24 posted on 04/04/2006 7:12:08 AM PDT by sine_nomine (I voted for George Milhouse Bush.)
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To: Mr. Silverback
You...are...an...AWESOME parent!

Nope. That's what we should be expecting. It's a matter of feeding them from the time they are two. Once the fundamentals are there, stand back and guide. I spend less time teaching these kids than I did when they were in private school.

I'll ping you when FReepers NattieShea and PowerBaby publish their term paper: Liberty Follows Virtue: How Personal Values Ordained the Rise & Fall of Rome. 14,000 words, 163 footnotes.

25 posted on 04/04/2006 7:12:31 AM PDT by Carry_Okie (There are people in power who are truly evil.)
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To: jwalburg

Stand by, will check.


26 posted on 04/04/2006 7:14:51 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback ("I was in such a hurry to climb that tree, I punched a squirrel.")
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To: jwalburg

Publisher is Little, Brown.


27 posted on 04/04/2006 7:15:14 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback ("I was in such a hurry to climb that tree, I punched a squirrel.")
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To: Mr. Silverback
I try to keep the TV watching to a minimum despite the fact that most of it is of good quality.

Even good TV can be a problem, especially for kids under the age of ten. It teaches passivity in learning and induces a physical dependence upon rapid visual stimulation of powerful neurotransmitters. Once hooked upon their own chemistry, it's hard to get them to focus upon a long and complex learning task. IMO such is often the genesis of ADHD.

The essence of creativity is found in recognizing what is fascinating about seemingly dull things.

28 posted on 04/04/2006 7:17:22 AM PDT by Carry_Okie (There are people in power who are truly evil.)
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To: AD from SpringBay; Mr. Silverback
We have a rule in my house. No books, DVD's, tapes, or CD's come into my home unless I have OK'd them. Doesn't matter where they come from. If I find one it is thrown out right then and the offending party is disciplined. I once read/watched/listened to them all, but alas there are now too many of them submitting requests, but I do look at them all, and I still listen to ALL music.
My 6 year old lost a school book like that last year because I found it and it didn't have Dad's seal on it. That one I had to replace - my own rule bit me on that one.
Anyway, my childrens teachers all know not to spring something new on them.
My daughters best friend is forbidden to bring music to my house (she lost a CD also once). She listens to garbage.

Seems to work for us ... so far

Cordially,
GE
29 posted on 04/04/2006 7:17:58 AM PDT by GrandEagle
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To: sine_nomine
My granddaughter is devouring the Chronicles of Narnia after seeing the movie.

I read the series out loud to my kids last year. They loved it. DVD comes out today, BTW.

30 posted on 04/04/2006 7:19:14 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback ("I was in such a hurry to climb that tree, I punched a squirrel.")
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To: sine_nomine

My daughter read those too. She went from in fifth grade, third grade reading level to in sixth grade a tenth grade reading level in 6 months. I am proud of her....

She overcame a difficult situation...


31 posted on 04/04/2006 7:20:08 AM PDT by television is just wrong (Our sympathies are misguided with illegal aliens...)
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To: Carry_Okie

Please do ping me. I consider it required reading. How old are they?


32 posted on 04/04/2006 7:20:42 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback ("I was in such a hurry to climb that tree, I punched a squirrel.")
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To: Carry_Okie
IMO such is often the genesis of ADHD.

Concur. We are phasing it out. Frankly, the only reason I have cable is Fox News and Packer games.

33 posted on 04/04/2006 7:22:11 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback ("I was in such a hurry to climb that tree, I punched a squirrel.")
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To: television is just wrong
This is the correct approach.

My kids are being read the Scriptures, Shakespeare, Dickens, etc. from an early age.

By the time they are 12, they will consider semiliterate garbage like these "novels" an insult to their intelligence.

34 posted on 04/04/2006 7:22:12 AM PDT by wideawake
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To: wideawake

my daughter laughs at these silly girls who fall prey to fads and such.


35 posted on 04/04/2006 7:23:15 AM PDT by television is just wrong (Our sympathies are misguided with illegal aliens...)
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To: Mr. Silverback

Chuck Colson/BreakPoint Ping List please. Thank you.


36 posted on 04/04/2006 7:24:37 AM PDT by GregB (Give Pottsville,Pa their NFL Championship back!!!!!!!!)
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To: television is just wrong
See - if you set high goals for your kids early on they will strive to reach them.

A normal 12 year old wants their parents to be proud of them.

37 posted on 04/04/2006 7:25:49 AM PDT by wideawake
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To: Mr. Silverback
Chronicles of Narnia
I hate to seem out of touch, I have heard a lot about this series. Is it good reading for children? I had assumed it was about witchcraft ans such stuff.

GE
38 posted on 04/04/2006 7:27:45 AM PDT by GrandEagle
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To: sine_nomine
Could I just say something else about Narnia for my own personal gratification? When I was in high school and in my early Air Force days, I was involved in theater. I acted, was a prop master on a couple of productions, and even wrote and directed a vignette. But I never had a moment as proud as an "actor" as when my son heard that the first actor doing Aslan's voice had backed out of the production, and he said, "You should call them, Dad. You sound just like Aslan should." I had a big grin on my face the rest off the day...I'm easily amused.

When you read Narnia, you definitely have to "do" all the voices...but it's all about Aslan, baby.

39 posted on 04/04/2006 7:37:49 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback ("I was in such a hurry to climb that tree, I punched a squirrel.")
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To: JohnnyZ
There are so many good books for children and young adults ..... although many of them are out of print.

You'd think some publisher could make a killing selling a series of classic children's books.

Try Applewood Books. They reprint original Hardy Boys, Tom Swift, etc.:

http://www.applewoodbooks.com/

40 posted on 04/04/2006 7:38:37 AM PDT by GOP Jedi
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