Except that Reform Jews are most open to converts and mixed marriages. When my wife converted, we started in the conservative synagogue, but were not exactly welcome there, because neither Patti nor I cut our connections with her Christian parents and sisters.
The Reform synagogue has been much more welcoming to us. And to other converts, as well.
I got some news for you. If you didn't do a halachic orthodox conversion--THEN YOU AIN'T JEWISH.
you wife can pretend to be Jewish--BUT SHE AIN'T. AND NEITHER ARE YOUR CHILDREN
being a Jew is not what is convenient for you to be accepted. It's about being a JEW and living like one.
Reform rabbi's would convert a dog to judiasm if someone asked them.
They have no standards of anything, and are 100% wrong in their entire approach to Judiasm, and life in general.
no offense to you or your wife personally--Just pointing out facts.