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Loosened Family Ties Haunt Baby Boomer Vanguard Reaching Age 60
Newhouse News ^ | 4/21/2006 | Kathleen O'Brien

Posted on 04/21/2006 11:56:05 AM PDT by Incorrigible

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And according to most studies, Baby Boomers do not have sufficient savings to last them for their expected lifetimes given that they will still likely see 65 as a retirement point.

Then you have the the above confusion about who's kids are going to take care of who; when in fact, the kids are going to be working so hard to pay taxes to support all these Boomers that they won't have time to take care of them!

1 posted on 04/21/2006 11:56:09 AM PDT by Incorrigible
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To: qam1
Click here to see how Baby Boomers have even messed up the lives of their children, not just their own lives:

Woe Is Me, Me, Me [Generation X/Reagan]

 

2 posted on 04/21/2006 11:57:24 AM PDT by Incorrigible (If I lead, follow me; If I pause, push me; If I retreat, kill me.)
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To: Incorrigible

As ye sow, so shall ye reap!


3 posted on 04/21/2006 11:58:55 AM PDT by Rummyfan
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Claudia Burns is sure she won't be one of those, in part because each of her two previous divorces taught her essential lessons about marriage. "This time, when we married, we didn't try to change each other," she says.

I would be very wary of marrying anyone already twice divorced. Of course the advantage is that as people age, I think their expectations wrt a spouse are more realistic (lower?). Good luck to her and her third husband!

4 posted on 04/21/2006 12:03:20 PM PDT by Rummyfan
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"I have a theory," she says philosophically. "I believe I needed a different husband for each stage of my life. I feel like there was a reason for each person."

A very telling comment, which I think encapsulates the problem with those who identify themselves as "boomers" (which is not everybody born during that time period, btw).

This is essentially an "all about me" mentality that reached its pinnacle with people like Bill Clinton and Newt Gingrich.

5 posted on 04/21/2006 12:04:51 PM PDT by r9etb
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X gen kids expect parents to make it on Social Security.


6 posted on 04/21/2006 12:06:10 PM PDT by ClaireSolt (.)
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To: Incorrigible

Look closer and you'll see the left's destructive take over during the 50s, 60s, and 70s, was led by the WWII generation, not a bunch of children and teenagers.


7 posted on 04/21/2006 12:15:21 PM PDT by ansel12
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Now that they need the family, they regret having destoryed it when it was convenient for them.


8 posted on 04/21/2006 12:21:21 PM PDT by Rodney King (No, we can't all just get along.)
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This time, she believes, she has finally gotten it right -- both in her choice of mate and in her expectations. "We haven't had a single fight," she says.

Is this suppossed to be a sign of a healthy relationship to her? Man, no wonder she has had so many husbands. Sounds like she still has a lot of work to do, which means more life stages and according to her she has a new husband for each life stage so . . . I think we all know where this one is heading. Right now she must be going through the "i don't fight with my husband and thus it must be right" life stage. I can't wait until she hits the I am a sinner that is humble before God and I fear his wrath thus I get down on my knees and pray for his forgiveness and guidance each day according to His word stage, although I won't hold my breath.

The level of divorce experienced by the early boomers is worrisome, Hughes says, because marital status affects both health and wealth. Married people live longer. The divorced are at greater risk for health problems, even after remarriage

Maybe the new survival of the fittest! Who would of thunk, way back in the nasty little sixties that the fittest were the one's with the gonies to marry and stay married. It is easy to run away all the time and blame others, maybe this laziness will die out with their species.

As far as the money, I now see these guys in wheelchairs organizing in the streets demanding the richer married folks pay for them to live and get healthcare and their children, knowing they won't inherit anything marching along with them, but only for the money so they can continue to not have jobs and play video games at fifty.

9 posted on 04/21/2006 12:39:26 PM PDT by GOP Poet
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10 posted on 04/21/2006 12:41:51 PM PDT by qam1 (There's been a huge party. All plates and the bottles are empty, all that's left is the bill to pay)
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I believe I needed a different husband for each stage of my life. I feel like there was a reason for each person.

Let us reword the marriage vow, then (and see who takes the bait for marrying this bimbo).

"Do you take this man....."

"Well, for a little while, until I reach a new stage of my life, at least".
11 posted on 04/21/2006 12:42:51 PM PDT by cgbg (When you hear the words "gender" or "stakeholder" run for your life!)
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Love it! LOL. It is so true.


12 posted on 04/21/2006 12:47:12 PM PDT by GOP Poet
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To: Incorrigible

Marriage takes sacrifice and putting someone else's interests first-- something the Me Generation didn't learn. They're reaping what they they sowed.


13 posted on 04/21/2006 1:12:43 PM PDT by mikeus_maximus (Welcome to Meximerica, courtesy of the GOP.)
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"Many of these ties are going to be frail," says Mary Elizabeth Hughes, a Duke University sociologist who has studied the boomers. "They don't have the glue that previous ties did."


You make your bed then you sleep in it.


14 posted on 04/21/2006 1:57:31 PM PDT by TalBlack
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Although Bill has had one long marriage, and Newt's up to number three so far. ;)


15 posted on 04/21/2006 2:02:41 PM PDT by linda_22003
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"I believe I needed a different husband for each stage of my life. I feel like there was a reason for each person."

It's almost funny that there is no recognition in this remark of ANOTHER person in the union.

Almost...


16 posted on 04/21/2006 2:03:58 PM PDT by TalBlack
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It took her only six months to decide on divorce; it didn't occur to her to try marriage counseling. "In hindsight, I didn't give him a chance," she says.

While thankfully we never get all that we deserve we do have to at least pay part of the bill.

When you treat people as disposable commodities to be used and tossed it will come back to bite you.

17 posted on 04/21/2006 2:13:28 PM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (Ditch the 1967 Outer Space Treaty! I want my own space bar and grill)
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To: Incorrigible

Thats where euthanasia will come in!!!!


18 posted on 04/21/2006 3:23:29 PM PDT by fishbabe
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Don't you mean one long "marriage of convenience"?


19 posted on 04/21/2006 3:31:25 PM PDT by GadareneDemoniac
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To: Incorrigible
Will adult children look after an elderly step-parent with the same devotion they would show a parent?

I do not expect my step daughter to take care of me. I have faith in the Old Soldiers Home – before I retired I made sure a lot of troops contributed to it.
20 posted on 04/21/2006 3:37:50 PM PDT by R. Scott (Humanity i love you because when you're hard up you pawn your Intelligence to buy a drink)
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