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To: wideminded
A teenage girl who is our babysitter and friend has ADHD. She seems quite intelligent but is doing very badly in school. I worry about her future. Tell her to stop watching T.V. and read more ,before there was T.V. no one ever heard about this so callled Disorder!
21 posted on 07/11/2006 4:22:58 PM PDT by ABN 505
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To: ABN 505
Actually, tell her how proud you are of how she babysits and point out every area in which she excels. Offer to tutor her in her weak subjects, or to proofread English papers. If she is interested in art, have her do drawings and then point out what is good in each. Rather than define her by what she can't do, define her by what she can. If she is intelligent, she already knows every single area in which she is failing and it probably weighs on her like a stone. Therefore the link between ADHD and depression.

My daughter watches less than 10 hours of TV a month and reads constantly. She has too much energy to sit and watch. But reading takes her mind to other places and soothes her.

Just some free advice....probably worth what you just paid for it :)

24 posted on 07/11/2006 4:28:58 PM PDT by SoftballMominVA
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To: ABN 505
Tell her to stop watching T.V. and read more ,before there was T.V. no one ever heard about this so callled Disorder!

1. She doesn't watch that much TV.

2. She seems very insightful, is a good organizer and works very hard but she clearly has some sort of learning disability. She has trouble reading books to my son and her spelling is incredibly bad.

3. I can remember kids in my elementary school who would clearly be classified as having ADHD today. This was over 40 years ago. There was not much TV to watch in my town. One of these kids was a big reader but had trouble paying attention or sitting still in school. His family did not own a TV.

4. Maybe too many people re being grouped together under the heading ADHD, but there clearly are kids who have problems focussing on schoolwork despite seeming otherwise intelligent. What is your solution for them?

5. I was hoping that I could give our babysitter some tips that would help her get into a good college. Now it seems like graduating from high school without getting pregnant might be a more realistic goal.

6. It's hard to offer help or academic suggestions to teen agers without seeming like their parents.

29 posted on 07/11/2006 5:05:50 PM PDT by wideminded
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To: ABN 505

Excellent point...throw the TV set in the garbage, buy comics for the kids to read, at least in the early stages...


55 posted on 07/11/2006 6:03:46 PM PDT by thinking
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