Respectfully, you're wrong. Any civil-military operations conducted are for the purpose of driving a wedge between insurgent factions, co-opting them, or building rapport with the people to gain intelligence and their cooperation. That's not social work.
Have you ever been in combat?
if so when and where?
Fine. Tell that to the grunts on the ground who are trained to fight and kill bad guys and break their stuff.......most of whom are little more than kids.
Sell it elsewhere.