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To: wideawake
sometimes delighting in their newfound freedom

And spousal and 'child support' payments

15 posted on 01/16/2007 10:17:16 AM PST by paul51 (11 September 2001 - Never forget)
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To: paul51

Oh my... I guess I'm going to be hit big time, but I am a single woman... divorced after raising our family. I have a wonderful job that requires travel about 50% of the time. I never would have done that with a husband and/or family. So I am enjoying seeing the world!

My marriage was horrible at the end and I was hurt deep to the core. I'm not willing to experience that kind of hurt ever again. I am enjoying my freedom and my life in a way I never thought possible.

I am free to serve the Lord in the way He directs. I am free to enjoy my grandkids to the fullest and can for the first time in my life, enjoy friendships.

I am not ugly or stupid or crude or any of the other negative traits another poster suggested as a reason for not having a husband. I just choose to be single. I was married and would have remained so because I believe that is what you do as directed by God. He divorced me, but I still believe that he was my husband... now he is no longer but that doesn't give me a reason to take another.

The Lord has provided for me in a way that no man could do. Would I have liked to have that perfect marriage? Sure, I love family and my dream was to have the American family.

Fortunately in this day and age, marriage isn't the only way to financial security, there are so many other reasons to be married. I just choose my very peaceful and fulfilled single life.


40 posted on 01/16/2007 10:29:43 AM PST by myrabach
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To: paul51

>And spousal and child support payments.<

By the grace of God, I raised three without either during the sixties and early seventies. No handouts, no gubmint programs, just faith, grit and hard work after 13 years of a bad marriage. It can be done.


405 posted on 01/17/2007 11:00:53 AM PST by Paperdoll
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