The woman who said you "should have had your tubes tied", probably has exactly that kind of relationship with whatever family she does have.
In a few years she will be sitting alone and unattended in a nursing home paying the price for her selfishness.
I am not going to tell you the stories about how todays children walk away from their elder parents these days because I type too slowly.
Kids grabbing their parents money and put them in rest homes that are under state supervision. Me, me, me and let the governemnt take care of Mom and Pop is the base of the stories I can tell.