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65 Percent of Americans Spend More Time with Their Computer than Their Spouse
newswire ^ | 22-jan-2007

Posted on 01/24/2007 9:16:14 AM PST by stainlessbanner

REDWOOD CITY, Calif., Jan. 22 /PRNewswire-FirstCall/ -- 65 percent of consumers are spending more time with a computer than with their significant other, according to new independent research commissioned by support.com.

Conducted by independent research firm Kelton Research, the "Cyber Stress" study confirmed consumers' growing relationship with technology in their everyday lives. In fact, more than 8 out of 10 Americans (84%) say they are more dependent on their home computer now than they were just three years ago(1).

Like any relationship, the test comes not when things are going well but when times are tough. And unfortunately in the case of their computers, things aren't going so well for Americans(2).

-- The average consumer has experienced computer troubles eight times - about every four months - over the last three years.
-- The average American is wasting 12 hours per month - the equivalent of half a weekend - due to problems with their home computer.
-- A majority of Americans (52%) describe their most recent experience with a computer problem as one of anger, sadness or alienation.

"We empathize with consumers about the emotional nature of dealing with computer problems. As the leader in computer problem resolution for nearly 10 years, we have a distinct advantage in helping consumers quickly and conveniently solve their frustrating computer problems," said Josh Pickus, CEO of SupportSoft. "For these reasons, we will be launching support.com, a service that speaks to consumers without talking down to them and uses proven, patented technology to resolve their frustrating computer problems - guaranteed(3)."

Considering the large role computers play in people's lives today, experts agree that computer problems can sometimes cause significant emotional distress, similar to what happens when a problem occurs between spouses.

"Ascomputers become increasingly pervasive in our lives, our relationships with them can begin to seem almost as important as a relationship with a significant other. When problems then occur with the computer, it often leaves people feeling frustrated or helpless," says Dr. Robi Ludwig, renowned psychotherapist and host of TLC's reality series "One Week to Save a Marriage." "On my show, I teach couples that they don't have to be an expert in resolving tough marital problems, they simply have to know whom to turn to for support. With the introduction of support.com, consumers can have a trusted advisor to turn to for technology relief when they experience frustrating technology problems."

SupportSoft's "Cyber Stress" study was conducted between December 2006 and January 2007 and involved 1001 nationally representative Americans age 18 and older with PCs and broadband Internet access. The survey results indicate a margin of error of +/- 3.1% at a 95% confidence level.


TOPICS: News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: american; counseling; couples; marriage; pc; relationships; spouse; user

1 posted on 01/24/2007 9:16:17 AM PST by stainlessbanner
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To: stainlessbanner
This can only be good news for marriage.
2 posted on 01/24/2007 9:17:54 AM PST by zarf
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To: stainlessbanner

I'm not dependent on my computer...

WOOHOO!!! 100,000 posts at FR!!! Kneel before me, noobz!


3 posted on 01/24/2007 9:18:40 AM PST by OCCASparky (Steely-Eyed Killer of the Deep)
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To: stainlessbanner

This is not new; its always been such with TV.


4 posted on 01/24/2007 9:19:00 AM PST by dinoparty
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To: stainlessbanner
And 90% of those 65% are men who are tired of nodding and going "yes dear", "oh really dear?" and "Ok dear" all night long...
5 posted on 01/24/2007 9:20:34 AM PST by Abathar (Proudly catching hell for posting without reading the article since 2004)
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To: stainlessbanner

Well, let's see. I spend 8+ hours a day at work, on the computer there. I spend maybe an hour, hour and a half w/ the hubby before he has to do his schoolwork. Then we sleep next to each other at night, of course.. We don't spend that much time together awake, I guess!


6 posted on 01/24/2007 9:20:41 AM PST by arizonarachel (Lord, thank you for this miracle!)
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To: stainlessbanner
"On my show, I teach couples that they don't have to be an expert in resolving tough marital problems, they simply have to know whom to turn to for support. With the introduction of support.com, consumers can have a trusted advisor to turn to for technology relief when they experience frustrating technology problems."

Feh - they can always post to FR. After six people tell them they need a Mac, eight tell them they need to be on Linux, and four ask them if they're logged in, the problem generally gets solved.

By a moose. Cheese?

7 posted on 01/24/2007 9:22:16 AM PST by Billthedrill
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To: stainlessbanner

Mybelovedwife@myhome.com

problem solved.


8 posted on 01/24/2007 9:23:07 AM PST by Hydroshock ( (Proverbs 22:7). The rich ruleth over the poor, and the borrower is servant to the lender.)
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To: stainlessbanner

Maybe someday a drug will be invented to help with computer withdrawal problems....


9 posted on 01/24/2007 9:23:09 AM PST by katdawg
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To: stainlessbanner

That's because he works second shift, gets home at 3 AM, gets up at 1 PM and leaves for work at around 2:30 PM. Hmmm...the computer keeps me company, as there are no kids, just four canines. I think 65% is low.


10 posted on 01/24/2007 9:25:11 AM PST by madison10 (The Democrat Party stands for open treason in a time of war)
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To: zarf

11 posted on 01/24/2007 9:25:29 AM PST by stainlessbanner ("I cannot be destroyed. I cannot be silenced. I cannot be compromised." - The Nuge)
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To: stainlessbanner

Isn't that why IM was invented?


12 posted on 01/24/2007 9:26:27 AM PST by TomGuy
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To: stainlessbanner; Hodar
My hubby & I solved this "problem" years ago...we both have computers. Each at our own desk, side-by-side. We spend many happy hours together! Many of them spent here at FR :-)
13 posted on 01/24/2007 9:27:25 AM PST by zlala ("History does not long entrust the care of freedom to the weak or timid." -Dwight D. Eisenhower)
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To: OCCASparky
WOOHOO!!! 100,000 posts at FR!!! Kneel before me, noobz!

Please tell me you're joking. I've been on FR about 18 months longer than you have and I only have about 4300 posts.

14 posted on 01/24/2007 9:27:37 AM PST by Tamar1973 (Making every thread a Star Wars thread, one post at a time!!!)
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To: katdawg

Naw, just tax it!


15 posted on 01/24/2007 9:29:16 AM PST by Snoopers-868th
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To: stainlessbanner

Should show this to my wife.. it doesn't take 4 friggin hours to update the family budget...


16 posted on 01/24/2007 9:30:02 AM PST by MD_Willington_1976
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To: stainlessbanner
Not us!
We're wireless!
17 posted on 01/24/2007 9:31:53 AM PST by grobdriver (Let the embeds check the bodies!)
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To: stainlessbanner

Well it's not my fault we didn't spend any time together...last time I logged off of FR, she wasn't there.


18 posted on 01/24/2007 9:34:00 AM PST by Joe 6-pack (Voted Free Republic's Most Eligible Bachelor: 2006. Love them Diebold machines.)
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To: OCCASparky
WOOHOO!!! 100,000 posts at FR!!! Kneel before me, noobz!

100,000 posts since 2004 ... you really need to get out more

19 posted on 01/24/2007 9:34:23 AM PST by clamper1797 (Per caritate viduaribus orphanibusque sed prime viduaribus)
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To: katdawg
Maybe someday a drug will be invented to help with computer withdrawal problems....

It's called LIFE! Now, where to find it. I'll just look online!

20 posted on 01/24/2007 9:34:35 AM PST by Fierce Allegiance ("Campers laugh at clowns behind closed doors.")
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To: zarf

What would the numbers be for XBOX, PS, WII?


21 posted on 01/24/2007 9:35:29 AM PST by UpAllNight
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To: clamper1797

I need to pick up the pace.


You've posted a total of 146 threads and 17,507 replies.


22 posted on 01/24/2007 9:36:45 AM PST by Fierce Allegiance ("Campers laugh at clowns behind closed doors.")
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To: Fierce Allegiance

Ah, but that doesn't count freepmails, which are probably triple the number of posts! WOOT!


23 posted on 01/24/2007 9:37:16 AM PST by Fierce Allegiance ("Campers laugh at clowns behind closed doors.")
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To: stainlessbanner

what's a spouse?


24 posted on 01/24/2007 9:40:59 AM PST by CzarNicky (The problem with bad ideas is that they seemed like good ideas at the time.)
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To: stainlessbanner
I say those odds are even higher for Bill Clinton and his computer


25 posted on 01/24/2007 9:41:23 AM PST by AmericanMade1776 (Democrats don't have a plan)
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To: stainlessbanner

My spouse and I can't keep our hands off one another, so no problems here.


26 posted on 01/24/2007 9:43:57 AM PST by Catholic Canadian ( I love Stephen Harper!)
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To: Fierce Allegiance

You've posted a total of 8 threads and 24,623 replies, most of which were snarky pictures, the occasional bit of cheesecake, and a few Helen Thomases.


27 posted on 01/24/2007 9:45:08 AM PST by Tijeras_Slim
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To: stainlessbanner

I just checked with my wife Sally and she said I spend AT LEAST that just on FR. I find it hard to believe.


28 posted on 01/24/2007 9:45:13 AM PST by BunkDetector
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To: stainlessbanner

Wait a sec...did I say Sally?
It's Ann. That's it ...Ann.
I knew that.


29 posted on 01/24/2007 9:45:16 AM PST by BunkDetector
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To: cyborg; Petronski

What's your take on this?

Does posting to each other count?


30 posted on 01/24/2007 9:45:53 AM PST by Tijeras_Slim
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To: OCCASparky

So, what does your wife have to say about that, Sparky? ;-)


31 posted on 01/24/2007 9:47:23 AM PST by andy58-in-nh
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To: Tamar1973
Please tell me you're joking.

That is the first time in over a month that I have seen the contraction of "you are" used correctly instead of the word "your."

Thank you.

32 posted on 01/24/2007 9:48:33 AM PST by N. Theknow ((Kennedys - Can't drive, can't fly, can't ski, can't skipper a boat - But they know what's best.))
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To: OCCASparky
I guess I get the award for just the opposite.

:-)

33 posted on 01/24/2007 9:49:49 AM PST by toros
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To: N. Theknow
That is the first time in over a month that I have seen the contraction of "you are" used correctly instead of the word "your."

You're welcome. Although, part of the problem is that spell checkers won't flag the correct spelling of the wrong word.

34 posted on 01/24/2007 9:56:23 AM PST by Tamar1973 (Making every thread a Star Wars thread, one post at a time!!!)
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To: zarf
This can only be good news for marriage.

It's probably just legend...
but I think it was said that the likely secret for the survival
of Abraham Lincoln's marriage was the months he spent each year
as a circuit-riding lawyer.
35 posted on 01/24/2007 9:56:55 AM PST by VOA
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To: Billthedrill

You forgot: dump Norton.


36 posted on 01/24/2007 9:57:23 AM PST by Old Professer (The critic writes with rapier pen, dips it twice, and writes again.)
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To: N. Theknow

Their you go! Won of my pet peaves too!


37 posted on 01/24/2007 10:01:06 AM PST by Fierce Allegiance ("Campers laugh at clowns behind closed doors.")
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To: stainlessbanner

Happily, I'm divorced and don't have to give up any necessary keyboard time for things like human relations. Everybody is better off this way. Believe me. LOL


38 posted on 01/24/2007 10:02:22 AM PST by gcruse (http://garycruse.blogspot.com/)
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To: Tijeras_Slim
Although you should be shot for the HT pics! Seriesly!
39 posted on 01/24/2007 10:02:33 AM PST by Fierce Allegiance ("Campers laugh at clowns behind closed doors.")
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To: Tamar1973
You're welcome. Although, part of the problem is that spell checkers won't flag the correct spelling of the wrong word.

Alas!

Spell-checkers don't come into play for hand painted signs at nationally televised football games proclaiming "Your dead!" or printed reminders from companies that "Your overdue for an oil change" or a sign that says "your next in line" at a department store.

Even a TV show had a note pictured from a kidnapper that said "Your dead" written on it.

40 posted on 01/24/2007 10:04:08 AM PST by N. Theknow ((Kennedys - Can't drive, can't fly, can't ski, can't skipper a boat - But they know what's best.))
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To: stainlessbanner
Well, duh.
Read the tagline.
41 posted on 01/24/2007 10:04:52 AM PST by Tanniker Smith (I didn't know she was a liberal when I married her.)
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To: OCCASparky
WOOHOO!!! 100,000 posts at FR!!! Kneel before me, noobz!

I got work to do:

"You've posted a total of 81 threads and 6,303 replies. "
And I've been here since 1998!

Hmmmm, where's todays FR Canteen thread . . .

42 posted on 01/24/2007 10:08:40 AM PST by Tanniker Smith (I didn't know she was a liberal when I married her.)
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To: Billthedrill
"After six people tell them they need a Mac, eight tell them they need to be on Linux, and four ask them if they're logged in, the problem generally gets solved. "

LOL! That's just what the replies would be!

Carolyn

43 posted on 01/24/2007 10:34:32 AM PST by CDHart ("It's too late to work within the system and too early to shoot the b@#$%^&s."--Claire Wolfe)
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To: stainlessbanner

No wonder the divorce rate keeps soaring.


44 posted on 01/24/2007 10:51:43 AM PST by Palladin (A mother's womb should be a no-kill shelter.)
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To: Tamar1973

Dude--not only am I joking, I haven't the foggiest idea how to check how many posts I have. I'd be surprised if I had 1K posts, not 100K.

100K means I have NO LIFE.


45 posted on 01/24/2007 11:35:19 AM PST by OCCASparky (Steely-Eyed Killer of the Deep)
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To: OCCASparky
I'd be surprised if I had 1K posts, not 100K.

You can check y'know—on your own profile page.

46 posted on 01/24/2007 10:31:05 PM PST by Tamar1973 (Making every thread a Star Wars thread, one post at a time!!!)
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To: Tamar1973

I did. 600 posts.

Like my mother said, "If I've told you once, I've told you a BILLION times, don't exaggerate!"


47 posted on 01/25/2007 3:55:51 AM PST by OCCASparky (Steely-Eyed Killer of the Deep)
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To: stainlessbanner
In our home office the wife's desk is right next to mine, so if she has anything to say to me her email gets here pretty quickly.
;O)
48 posted on 01/25/2007 4:07:30 AM PST by metesky ("Brethren, leave us go amongst them." Rev. Capt. Samuel Johnston Clayton - Ward Bond- The Searchers)
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