Posted on 06/03/2007 2:38:07 AM PDT by Lorianne
Yes and bump.
Thank you.
Not at all. I grew up in the 70’s. We were out and about from morning ‘til evening.
I’d say it’s no accident. Too many criminals loose on the streets for a reason. It keeps people inside, where they are more susceptible to media ideology-hype and materialism. “Life lessons”, as it were, are handed down by social architects, rather than by the forces of nature.
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My eldest grandson just HAD to have a "Game Boy;" (I guess, in the same way I HAD to have a BB gun) and finally wore his (divorced) mother down. He became a social recluse with that thing. But some years later, as we watched the younger grandchildren playing at a family gathering, he turned to me, and said, "These kids just don't have the imagination we had." I guess these things are relative, just as the author's 70's seem as innocent as our 50's.
I grew up in the 70’s, and ran around the neighborhood with my friends. We rode bikes, played ball, etc. Never had a serious incident. I am stunned how kids today just don’t want to get off the couch and go outside.
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True, but the question is, are there more now and if so why? (And for the 'why' I'd want to know the real reasons and not ideologically constructed ones). It sure seems like there are more child molesters now, just as there are more serial killers.
I know that I would never allow my kids to have the unsupervised freedom that I had. Of course some of the things we did were also physically dangerous.
Yes but now they feel entitled to molest kids.
And even to kidnap them. The increased communication that allows parents to be more aware of child molesters also tells child molesters about the crimes that others have attempted and gotten away with. But why do some people feel sexually attracted to children? Is this number going up?
They call them “helicopter” parents, continually hovering over their kids even after college.
Shoot, shovel, and shut up was also used before the police could ever get involved.
There was an old man who lived in a shack in the next block. His was a gathering place for the town tramps, guys we now call, "homeless." One of this group had a larger-than-life persona. He was called "Bum Smullen," and was rumored to grab little kids and carry them off in his burlap bag. No one I know of ever actually saw Bum Smullen, and nothing was told about what he did with the kids he "captured," but the legend was all it took for us to be wary of strangers.
I remembered when my Dad was transferred to Hawaii when I was nine years old, we were staying in a Waikiki hotel for a month, while we waited to get our base housing.
I spent many of those days alone walking around downtown Honolulu by myself without even thinking about it.
I look back now and think, “was I insane?” But it was a different time.
Sorry, I grew up in the 70s and this is exactly the life I lived. We weren’t even allowed in the house for the better part of the day! We were outside CONSTANTLY and no cell phone to keep in touch!
I don’t think they are attracted to kids as much as they are just plain perverts. Anything will do but kids are the easiest targets.
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We used to play night hide and go seek in a less than perfect neighborhood. Some of the funnest times I have ever had. Back in the alley or under cars were good places, everyone knew each other so we also used to hide in other people’s yards too.
I don't believe that. I think that pedophiles are attracted to kids specifically.
When I was a kid my parents had several friends who I later realized were totally gay. I never had any problem with them.
On the other hand there was a barber shop within biking distance of my house where I was sometimes sent for a haircut. One of the barbers there would sometimes "accidentally" feel up kids as he placed the cloth over them in the barber chair. I learned to avoid him, but for some reason it never occurred to me to tell my parents about this. I can't remember if I stopped going there or if the guy disappeared after a while.
I attended a boarding school during high school. One of the most popular teachers there (who was married) gave me the creeps for some reason, although he never did anything to me other than suddenly showing up in my room one time. Many years later he was arrested in a sensational case involving solicitation of young kids for sex.
In 1950 we were advised by our teachers to avoid approaching strangers in cars as there were reported attempts by such an individual to lure kids up to the car, then grab them. One difference today seems to be the apparent increase in the numbers of people turned on by kids, the lack of standards governing sexual conduct, the easy access to pornographic pictures, corrupt office holders, and of course the rather large “forgiveness” crowd.
I remember that. We lived on the DC side of the Takoma Park line and went to Wheaton Plaza for our shopping. I had moved on to college, but still had small sisters at home. Though my parents would never have let them go to Wheaton alone, it was still a sobering experience for them. These things just didn't happen back then.
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