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More City Infants are Dying in Bed
JSOnline ^ | July 2, 2007 | Kawanza Newson

Posted on 07/04/2007 4:19:23 PM PDT by Diana in Wisconsin

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To: AnAmericanMother

I believe your explanation, a common sense thing which a lot of people just don’t get...is right on.

“I rolled on to the baby when I slept” is a catch all phrase that likely explains nothing.

It’s how I intuit all the brouhaha.

And intuitively, I simply do not believe that large amounts of babies from certain zip codes are dying because their mothers are rolling over on them.

Just a guess here but beat me up I’ll simply never believe this.

Wisdom, they say, is an abundance of common sense. Plenty on thread are expressing skepticism as well they should.

It makes no sense.


41 posted on 07/05/2007 6:42:07 AM PDT by Fishtalk (http://patfish.blogspot.com)
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To: Charles H. (The_r0nin)
"But when you make absolute statements denigrating an entire class of people...."

I don't think Fishtalk denigrated an entire class of people unless you consider substance abusers to a class of people.

42 posted on 07/05/2007 6:43:32 AM PDT by Irene Adler (')
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To: petitfour

I had a cat what had kittens in my bed too! What a hoot! I heard these little “mews” and looked over and there was my cat popping out yet another one!

Nine babies lived through sleeping with you, heh? Weird since they’re all dying in those specific zip codes for the same thing.

I think you’re right about that six month thing. At some point babies gleefully accept their own bed and as I recall, it was around 6 months of age. Before that I truly think a child really bonds with a mother by sleeping with her. Cats do it, dogs do it....all sorts of mammals do it because of the nursing thing. Humans are mammals. I simply, using common sense, do not believe that sleeping with a baby kills it.

Hey, science told me that having too many kids will over-populate the earth so I dutifully reproduced only one time and now I find out this “science” was bunk.

Now we have global warming.

I’m going with my good common sense here. I think folks in those suspect zip codes are taking their already dead and neglected babies and putting them into bed with them to claim this as cause of death. Creating, go with me here, more JUNK SCIENCE for the “scientists”!

Yeah, I believe this. Shoot me.


43 posted on 07/05/2007 6:49:11 AM PDT by Fishtalk (http://patfish.blogspot.com)
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To: Irene Adler
I don't think Fishtalk denigrated an entire class of people unless you consider substance abusers to a class of people.

Actually, her statement was that no "real" mother would ever overlay her child, only drug abusers. In other words, any woman who has accidently smothered her child is a drug-abuser or child-abuser. Seems like a categorical denigration to me.

44 posted on 07/05/2007 6:50:54 AM PDT by Charles H. (The_r0nin) (Hwæt! Lãr biþ mæst hord, soþlïce!)
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To: Irene Adler

Thanks IA.

Of course I didn’t denigrate a “class of people”. Hey, I don’t even know what sorts of people live in those suspect zip codes. I don’t know their nationality, religion, color or idealogy. I only know that in those suspect zip codes babies are dying because, why? ...because they’re SLEEPING WITH THEIR MOTHERS?

I got a bridge to sell cheap. For there’s more going on in those zip codes than little babies sleeping innocently besides their loving mothers.

Real cheap...this bridge I got to sell.


45 posted on 07/05/2007 6:51:49 AM PDT by Fishtalk (http://patfish.blogspot.com)
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To: Charles H. (The_r0nin)

Oh please.

Charles H. I make good points and I think I’m right.

You can interpret my words however you want.....plenty of people on this thread seem to understand them.

Hey, I got a bridge for sale, real cheap. You seem like just the right purchaser.


46 posted on 07/05/2007 6:54:35 AM PDT by Fishtalk (http://patfish.blogspot.com)
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To: Charles H. (The_r0nin)
The difference is, you are using the historical record to try to prove a point -- that sleeping with a baby historically has caused death by overlaying or smothering.

I am simply challenging the validity of the proof -- i.e. the deaths attributed to smothering may have had other medical causes which were unknown at the time, or were caused by intoxication. In other words, your premise is invalid because other factors have not been accounted for. That's not 'convoluted rationalization', that's pointing out the inherent weakness in your argument.

We don't start even, so to speak, because you have the burden of proof here.

47 posted on 07/05/2007 7:10:40 AM PDT by AnAmericanMother ((Ministrix of Ye Chase, TTGC Ladies' Auxiliary (recess appointment)))
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To: Fishtalk; petitfour
Wow. MY cat had kittens in the bed with us too!

Early Sunday morning, I turn over and feel something hot and wet next to my arm . . . it's Kitten Number One! So I got up and got Momma Cat a beach towel, and we proceeded with labor and delivery right there. I guess she wanted to be near us in her time.

Once she had them, though, she insisted in keeping them in a large wicker trash basket beside the bed, instead of in the nice queening box with heat lamp that I had all prepared for her. So I moved the receiving blankets and newspapers into the trash basket . . . . you just can't argue with a momma cat, at least it's not worth the trouble.

48 posted on 07/05/2007 7:16:04 AM PDT by AnAmericanMother ((Ministrix of Ye Chase, TTGC Ladies' Auxiliary (recess appointment)))
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To: Diana in Wisconsin

My wife and I have two sons. The oldest sometimes slept with us when he was a baby, and our one year old occasionaly makes it into bed with us as well. Methinks parenting has a lot to do with this problem up north.


49 posted on 07/05/2007 7:17:23 AM PDT by DesScorp
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To: Diana in Wisconsin
We are Lab people . . . never had a Basset but they sure do look funny with those little bandy legs and big sad eyes.

Raising puppies IS a lot of hassle. A friend of mine just got a new little Boykin Spaniel pup yesterday -- she calls me at LEAST once a day asking for advice!!!!! Just got off the phone with her.

50 posted on 07/05/2007 7:18:09 AM PDT by AnAmericanMother ((Ministrix of Ye Chase, TTGC Ladies' Auxiliary (recess appointment)))
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To: SoftballMominVA
I seem to recall reading that study too, and IIRC the conclusions were as you describe.

I would say the reasonable conclusion is that IF you are morbidly obese or an alcohol/drug abuser, it's probably not a good idea to put the baby in the bed with you.

There was a criminal case here a year or two ago involving a very large and very drunk woman who smothered her baby by rolling over on her while drunk. They charged her with manslaughter, and I believe her conviction was upheld on appeal.

51 posted on 07/05/2007 7:21:17 AM PDT by AnAmericanMother ((Ministrix of Ye Chase, TTGC Ladies' Auxiliary (recess appointment)))
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To: CindyDawg
People have been sleeping with their babies for a long time. It has to be something else.

I'm guessing most of these moms are single, with multiple children and receive little to no help from the father(s) of these kids. They are also probably young and uneducated.

At the end of the day they are physically and emotionally exhausted and when they go to sleep, they sleep harder and are less likely to be responsive to a baby in peril.

Just my $0.02.

52 posted on 07/05/2007 7:33:17 AM PDT by Drew68
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To: Drew68

Without info on the 18, it could be anything. Life styles, high risk babies, environment, who knows? It was interesting that cities were mentioned. Why isn’t this happening in rural areas also?


53 posted on 07/05/2007 7:43:29 AM PDT by CindyDawg
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To: Diana in Wisconsin

“unsafe sleeping environment”

For some reason, that phrase has a chilling effect on me.


54 posted on 07/05/2007 7:45:21 AM PDT by Old Professer (The critic writes with rapier pen, dips it twice, and writes again.)
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To: AnAmericanMother
My babies slept on their backs. I did try to put them on their tummies but was unable to leave them that way. I don’t know why, I just had some sort of subconscious thing that told me not to leave them on their tummies. They are now grown and, as far as I know, were not affected by sleeping on their backs. But I felt so guilty for years and wondered why I had that strange opposition to laying them on their tummies.
55 posted on 07/05/2007 7:50:36 AM PDT by pepperdog
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To: Drew68

Pity is the fuel for the wasted effort engines of compassion.


56 posted on 07/05/2007 7:53:19 AM PDT by Old Professer (The critic writes with rapier pen, dips it twice, and writes again.)
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To: AnAmericanMother

Our cat ended up having six kittens. The last one got stuck and needed our assistance. We thought he wasn’t going to make it, but he did. We put them in a big box in our room for a while. Then we put them in a playpen to keep the little ones OUT.


57 posted on 07/05/2007 8:23:56 AM PDT by petitfour
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To: nmh
Common sense is in short supply in Wiconsin.
58 posted on 07/05/2007 8:26:24 AM PDT by Fawn (If it wasn't for FR, I'd be having an Existential MELTDOWN..............right now)
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To: AnAmericanMother; Fishtalk; petitfour

Did everyone end up getting all their cats fixed? Over 50 a day 365 days a year are put to sleep here in ONE COUNTY where I live. It’s becuase people don’t bother to spay/neuter and end up with litters that automatically guarantee that the cats in shelters waiting for homes don’t get one.


59 posted on 07/05/2007 8:34:12 AM PDT by Fawn (If it wasn't for FR, I'd be having an Existential MELTDOWN..............right now)
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To: Fawn

Well my incident with the cat and kittens was yay many moons ago when I was a young thing and my breasts didn’t sag.

I will say this, I have four cats now and they are ALL spayed and/or neutered. My dog is also spayed.

The cat what had kittens on my bed, she was indoor cat. Of course there waaaaasss that one time she got out and I found her standing on a drain pipe surrounded by a bevy of male cats all of them salivating and licking their lips.

Heh.

I THOUGHT I got to her before the male cats did but, alas, the kittens birthed in the bed proved me wrong.

Heh.


60 posted on 07/05/2007 8:46:57 AM PDT by Fishtalk (http://patfish.blogspot.com)
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