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In reversal, Sanders supports gay-marriage resolution (San Diego Mayor (R)
The San Diego Union-Tribune ^ | 9/19/2007 | Matthew T. Hall

Posted on 09/19/2007 10:03:48 PM PDT by South40

Mayor Jerry Sanders reversed his position on gay marriage Wednesday, supporting it in emotional remarks punctuated by pauses, shaking sips of water and his wife's hand resting one time reassuringly on his back. Sanders' wife, Rana Sampson, stood next to him as he acknowledged publicly for the first time that his daughter, Lisa, is a lesbian.

“I've decided to lead with my heart, which is probably obvious right now, to do what I think is right and to take a stand on behalf of equality and social justice,” Sanders said. A day after staff members said Sanders would veto it, the mayor announced that he would sign a City Council resolution passed Tuesday that directed the City Attorney's Office to file a brief in support of gay marriage.

The council voted 5-3 to send the brief to the state Supreme Court backing an end to the state's ban on same-sex marriage. Similar briefs have been sent by other cities, which like San Diego, are not directly involved in the case.

Almost 200 people attended the council hearing on the issue, with gay marriage supporters arguing for equal treatment under the law, and opponents contending marriage should be between a man and a woman.

“As I reflected on the choices that I had before me last night I could just not bring myself to tell an entire group of people in our community they were less important, less worthy or less deserving of the rights and responsibilities of marriage than anyone else simply because of their sexual orientation,” Sanders said.

In a reference to his daughter and two staff members who are gay, he said, “I want for them the same thing that we all want for our loved ones, for each of them to find a mate whom they love deeply and loves them back, someone with whom they can grow old together and share life's experiences, and I want their relationships to be protected equally under the law.”

In his 2005 mayoral campaign, Sanders said he supported civil unions and domestic partnerships but not gay marriage.

“I have personally wrestled with that opinion ever since,” he said Wednesday his voice wavering. “My opinions on this issue have evolved significantly as I think the opinions of millions of Americans from all walks of life have.”

In a nod to those who don't support gay marriage, he said, “I acknowledge that not all members of our community will agree or even understand.”


TOPICS: Constitution/Conservatism; Culture/Society; Government; News/Current Events; US: California
KEYWORDS: caglbt; extortion; flipflopper; homosexualagenda; jerrysanders; samesexmarriage; sandiego; sellout

1 posted on 09/19/2007 10:03:50 PM PDT by South40
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To: South40
Mayor Jerry Sanders reversed his position on gay marriage Wednesday

NOOOO!!! What a sell out spineless piece of.... Rodger Hedgcock better be all over his ass like white on rice.

2 posted on 09/19/2007 10:05:47 PM PDT by chaos_5 (... I'm just another angry white male ...)
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To: chaos_5
“I've decided to lead with my heart,

As opposed to leading with logic and reason.

3 posted on 09/19/2007 10:06:44 PM PDT by South40
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To: South40; BlackElk
I have gay folks in my family, and know gay folks, but it doesn't mean I support something that is plain wrong. Love the sinner, condemn the sin, anybody ?
4 posted on 09/19/2007 10:07:48 PM PDT by fieldmarshaldj (~~~Jihad Fever -- Catch It !~~~ (Backup tag: "Live Fred or Die"))
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To: chaos_5
NOOOO!!! What a sell out spineless piece of.... Rodger Hedgcock better be all over his ass like white on rice.

He's got him on tomorrow to talk about the Enrique Morones protest as well. Morones with bullhorns 50' away shouting down a gathering honoring Pete Wilson is fine, but Minutemen protesting Elvira the Illegal alien must be 300' away and our of sight. Sanders said that decision was based on legal principles, but it wasn't.

5 posted on 09/19/2007 10:22:32 PM PDT by Squeako (ACLU: "Only Christians, Boy Scouts and War Memorials are too vile to defend.")
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To: Squeako
See him crying about his decision here.

http://www.cbs8.com/flv/video_pop_hd3.php?startID=103358

Yep, thats the kind of strong leadership people respect.

6 posted on 09/19/2007 10:28:16 PM PDT by chaos_5 (... I'm just another angry white male ...)
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To: chaos_5

7 posted on 09/19/2007 10:31:59 PM PDT by South40
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To: chaos_5
Good grief. So, his decision isn't based on anything more than he "wants his daughter to be happy". No wonder he was in the Gay Pride parade.

Glad I didn't vote for that clown. I'm curious what the response of James Hartline will be. That guy is way out there, but he was in that "community" and knows how the lifestyle can destroy.

8 posted on 09/19/2007 10:36:39 PM PDT by Squeako (ACLU: "Only Christians, Boy Scouts and War Memorials are too vile to defend.")
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To: chaos_5

As a SD resident I am both sadenned yet unmoved. God makes my laws and no man can overturn those laws by proclamation,vote nor tort.


9 posted on 09/19/2007 10:37:19 PM PDT by Cyman
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To: South40
So. If one’s son is a drug addict does that mean the father in a position of leadership and authority decides they support and condone the illegal drug trade? Give me a break.

There is no doubt a father loves a daughter. There is also no doubt he wants his daughter to have a joyful life. Yet what is wrong with disagreeing with the sin and loving the sinner as Jesus did. Here he is loving the sin and the sinner and supporting the sin as law because a loved one is a sinner.

Evil works in mysterious and tricky ways. One soul at a time and then a city. Sad. Hope San Diego bites back and rises up. Just because his moral compass is off, doesn't mean the city needs to stand for this.

10 posted on 09/19/2007 10:40:54 PM PDT by GOP Poet
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To: South40

LOL!


11 posted on 09/19/2007 10:41:10 PM PDT by GOP Poet
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To: fieldmarshaldj

Yep. I am on board with you. my sentiments exactly.


12 posted on 09/19/2007 10:43:08 PM PDT by GOP Poet
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To: GOP Poet

If he really loved his daughter he would try to get her the psychiatric help she so desperately needs.


13 posted on 09/19/2007 10:43:22 PM PDT by South40
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To: South40

Wow. So Sanders turns out to be a scumbag....
It sounds to me like somebody has some dirt on him.


14 posted on 09/19/2007 10:45:39 PM PDT by Lancey Howard
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To: Lancey Howard
It sounds to me like somebody has some dirt on him.

Just what I thought.

Caught him playing footsie in a Balboa Park men's room, perhaps.

15 posted on 09/19/2007 10:46:52 PM PDT by South40
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To: Cyman

>>>As a SD resident I am both sadenned yet unmoved. God makes my laws and no man can overturn those laws by proclamation,vote nor tort.<<<

Do you ever wonder what Saint Diego and Saint Francis would have to say about the fact that towns named after them had descended down to this?


16 posted on 09/19/2007 10:48:20 PM PDT by CheyennePress
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To: South40

Yes and the spiritual help as well or atleast set and example.


17 posted on 09/19/2007 10:59:42 PM PDT by GOP Poet
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To: South40

THe answer for him is not to support gay marriage, but instead to love his daughter, but to realize she is in sin, and must repent, she can be helped to escape, not endure in that lifestyle!

I hate this tactic employed by the gay movement that in order that equates accepting of their sin is necessary for acceptance of them as people. It’s pathetic, and based on emotion rather than real world data, and real morality!!


18 posted on 09/19/2007 11:15:27 PM PDT by JSDude1 (When a liberal represents the Presidential Nominee for the Republicans; THEY'RE TOAST)
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To: South40

Sniveling selfish ass.

It’s about way more then YOU Sanders.

Attacking the pillars of our society for special privlages for the self victimized vocal few is WRONG.

What shame. I voted for this guy. He was not my first choice for mayor either, my instincts were right about him.

EFFING RINOS!


19 posted on 09/20/2007 12:16:26 AM PDT by Names Ash Housewares
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To: South40

“As I reflected on the choices that I had before me last night I could just not bring myself to tell an entire group of people in our community they were less important, less worthy or less deserving of the rights and responsibilities of marriage than anyone else simply because of their sexual orientation,” Sanders said. “

Why not?

This isn’t about some “inherent worth”; its about what we as a culture want our children to emulate and how they should be raised to become productive contributors. The ONLY reason for the state to sponsor marriage at all is to promote the stable relationships children need.

And you don’t get that in ‘mo households. Its impossible. You don’t get it in single parent households. You only have a chance of getting it in man-woman households. Hence the “special priveleges” granted to man-woman couples.


20 posted on 09/20/2007 3:29:16 AM PDT by Adder (hialb)
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To: South40
Having learned that this man's policy decisions can be so easily reversed simply by learning someone in his family is gay, I have lost respect for him even if he reversed his decision again.
21 posted on 09/20/2007 5:33:22 AM PDT by DaveLoneRanger ("Being normal is not necessarily a virtue. It rather denotes a lack of courage.")
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the cowardly generation


22 posted on 09/20/2007 5:35:29 AM PDT by Swordfished
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To: South40

I live just outside city limits (thank goodness), but please, San Diego city residents, vote this ass out next time. He has been horrible on so many issues and now this...


23 posted on 09/20/2007 7:43:30 AM PDT by jrp
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To: jrp
It is pretty amazing. I knew Rick Roberts would give him a very hard time this morning. Well deserved.

So much for power to the people. Instead, he is pandering to a very small interest group -- his daughter and a few staff members.

24 posted on 09/20/2007 9:24:22 AM PDT by redgirlinabluestate (MittReport.com)
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To: JSDude1

Such a shame. He should be intervening to stop his daughter from condemning her eternal soul, instead he is taking a step that will surely lead to more damnation for others.

This makes me physicaly sick. And this is what happens because people cowtow to the deviant activists.


25 posted on 09/20/2007 12:43:43 PM PDT by TraditionalistMommy
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To: TraditionalistMommy

Exactly; I am convinced homosexuality is a spiritual and phychological disease upon this nation (does that mean we condemn those whom are sick: HECK NO); Jesus didn’t he came for the sick and dying!!

But it is abhorant what our society has done; in cow-towing to their ‘gay-movement’-rather accepting it (soft-response), rather than as you so well put ‘intervening to stop his daughter (and their friends/family) from condemning her (their) eternal soul’.

I agree! This must be stopped: (PLEASE: JESUS!).


26 posted on 09/20/2007 1:15:00 PM PDT by JSDude1 (When a liberal represents the Presidential Nominee for the Republicans; THEY'RE TOAST)
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To: South40

Right and what exactly is your logic and reason? Would you call it logic and reason had it been Jerry Sanders been supporting your right to marry with a statement from his heart?


27 posted on 09/20/2007 7:50:22 PM PDT by Eros2008
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To: jrp

“He has been horrible on so many issues and now this...”

... been doing a pretty good job keeping us out of bankruptcy - the rest of this petty stuff is just side-show


28 posted on 09/20/2007 9:03:50 PM PDT by RS ("I took the drugs because I liked them and I found excuses to take them, so I'm not weaseling.")
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To: Eros2008
Considering I am a man and am married to a woman, yes I would.

Later, troll.

29 posted on 09/20/2007 11:03:20 PM PDT by South40
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To: All

Oh, so because his daughter turned out to be a perv, and in his infinite kindness (yeah, right) mayor of San Diego thinks it’s OK, now we all (OK, all San Diego only) have to accept it as a legit lifestyle?

Just because someone you love has an issue/condition, doesn’t mean 1) you have to accept it as normal; 2) everyone else has to agree with you.

Homosexualization in full swing...


30 posted on 09/21/2007 7:56:22 AM PDT by Sapirit
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To: chaos_5
As a SD resident I am both saddened yet unmoved. God makes my laws and no man can overturn those laws by proclamation, vote nor tort.

I hear you, but you seem too resigned. It's up to humans, not up to God, to create communities and community standards. Hopefully the latter will be in tune with God's laws.

All: I don't really think the mayor is amoral by choice. More like brainwashed and spineless. Listen to Evan Sayet's speech to Heritage (YouTube has it). He explains it. Pure gold.

31 posted on 09/21/2007 8:02:50 AM PDT by Sapirit
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To: All; Cyman; chaos_5

Sorry, the above was to Cyman


32 posted on 09/21/2007 8:03:59 AM PDT by Sapirit
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