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How sex ed harms girls' health
WorldNetDaily.com ^ | November 16, 2007 | Ashley Herzog

Posted on 11/19/2007 11:10:26 AM PST by HerzogAEH

This is an excerpt from a column I wrote for WorldNetDaily.com last week. It is about how politically correct sex education is harming girls' health. The full version can be reached through the link above.

As an intern at the Clare Boothe Luce Policy Institute, I’ve been working with our Senior Fellow, Miriam Grossman, M.D., author of the book Unprotected: A Campus Psychiatrist Reveals How Political Correctness in Her Profession Endangers Every Student. Dr. Grossman has garnered media attention because she exposed the fact that health educators often risk students’ well-being in order to promote a particular ideology -- usually a combination of feminism, androgyny, and “anything goes” liberalism.

In the upside-down world of politically correct health care, the main priority is to never make “moral judgments” about a patient’s behavior, and factual information is suppressed if it threatens political agendas.

I’ve been researching sex education and sexual health care for Dr. Grossman’s columns and articles. I’ve browsed health websites, “sex ed” manuals, even teen magazines like CosmoGIRL and Seventeen. Although much of the health information is politicized, the advice offered to young girls on sexual decision-making is downright scandalous.

“There is no right time to have your first intercourse. This is a choice you make,” declares GoAskAlice.com, a popular health Web site. This canard is repeated ad nauseum in sex education programs and magazines geared toward middle and high school students, such as Seventeen (don’t let the name fool you – most of its readership is under 16).

“There is no correct age at which you are ‘supposed’ to have sex,” declares the health Web site coolnurse.com. “Everyone has to make a very personal decision about what is right for them.”

Really? What if a girl decides sex is right for her at age 12 or 13?

(Excerpt) Read more at wnd.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial
KEYWORDS: culturewar; hedonismandstate; ifitfeelsgooddoit; indoctrination; littleredschoolhouse; moralabsolutes; sexpositiveagenda; taxdollarsatwork; teensex
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1 posted on 11/19/2007 11:10:27 AM PST by HerzogAEH
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To: HerzogAEH

Welcome to FR....


2 posted on 11/19/2007 11:12:49 AM PST by ButThreeLeftsDo (Tracking The "Flyin' Imams Since 11/20/06)
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To: HerzogAEH

Most girls who get pregnant already know about birth control. They just refuse to use it. If the guy refuses to use a condom, what’s the girl going to say? No? If she could do that, they wouldn’t be talking about a condom.


3 posted on 11/19/2007 11:12:59 AM PST by AppyPappy (If you aren't part of the solution, there is good money to be made prolonging the problem.)
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To: HerzogAEH

Good job! And welcome to FR!!


4 posted on 11/19/2007 11:13:10 AM PST by JRios1968 (Faith is not believing that God can. It is knowing that God will. - Ben Stein)
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To: HerzogAEH
They don't particularly care about teens – especially girls, who are more likely to suffer physical and emotional consequences from early sexual activity. They care about undermining traditional values and promoting libertine attitudes about sex.

Bravo.
5 posted on 11/19/2007 11:15:14 AM PST by Jaysun (It's outlandishly inappropriate to suggest that I'm wrong.)
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To: HerzogAEH
Bingo. Another leg of the manifesto.

You know the destruction of marriage and family has always been a plank regarding genocide.

It’s usually implemented at the same time children are killed or the public’s told there’s overpopulation.

See Lenin, Stalin, Mao, Hitler

6 posted on 11/19/2007 11:18:04 AM PST by AliVeritas (Pray for the souls of the faithful departed.)
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To: HerzogAEH

There’s no intimacy in sex here. It’s more or less something to do when you’re bored or feeling “horny”.

I want to say that younger women have more emotionally invested in the sexual act, but by judging the women who are just as emotionally deattached as their male counterparts, well.....recreational sex is similar to masturbation. Once you’re done, the interest fades and you find something else to beat off on. *pardon the risque lingue*


7 posted on 11/19/2007 11:19:38 AM PST by John Williams ("Religion without the liberating Spirit of God is nothing but spiritual bondage.")
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To: HerzogAEH

bump


8 posted on 11/19/2007 11:20:06 AM PST by Tribune7 (Dems want to rob from the poor to give to the rich)
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To: HerzogAEH

Question: I saw the Flickr link in your FR profile. How does what you wrote jive with what you wear? It seems like they are contradictory.


9 posted on 11/19/2007 11:20:43 AM PST by Pyro7480 ("Jesu, Jesu, Jesu, esto mihi Jesus" -St. Ralph Sherwin's last words at Tyburn)
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To: HerzogAEH

P.C. is not only affecting girls health...it is affecting the health of the entire country!


10 posted on 11/19/2007 11:22:19 AM PST by Don Corleone (Leave the gun..take the cannoli)
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To: Pyro7480

Are you kidding? I went to see the pics. She’s gorgeous, and covered in all the right places.

After all, she’s not a nun.


11 posted on 11/19/2007 11:25:20 AM PST by Palladin ("How do we beat The Bitch?"--John McCain Supporter)
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To: HerzogAEH
If I may repost something I posted on another thread?

#3 and the following paragraphs seem like the may be relevant here...

Indeed! I think there are three main reasons arranged marriages have a high success rate:

1) The couple goes into the marriage without unrealistically high expectations.
2) The families don’t select based on lust.
3) In the societies that practice arranged marriage it is very likely that the first sexual partner is the new spouse.

By the time they have worked their way through the Kama Sutra (for example) they are pretty thoroughly imprinted on each other.

Contrast that to the dozens or even scores of partners the typical bride and groom may have here, the sense of bonding is so blurred and degraded that it can’t act as a glue to hold them together.

414 posted on 11/14/2007 2:09:49 PM PST by null and void

12 posted on 11/19/2007 11:25:25 AM PST by null and void (No more Bushes/No more Clintons)
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To: Pyro7480; HerzogAEH
Oh my. Definitely Welcome to FR!
13 posted on 11/19/2007 11:27:59 AM PST by null and void (No more Bushes/No more Clintons)
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To: HerzogAEH

I feel so sorry for girls now days because they skip the romance.


14 posted on 11/19/2007 11:28:38 AM PST by donna (The United States Constitution and the Koran are mutually exclusive.)
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To: Palladin

Modesty is more than being “covered in all the right places.” And it’s not about being dress in a nun’s habit or a Islamic veil. Find the happy medium.


15 posted on 11/19/2007 11:28:59 AM PST by Pyro7480 ("Jesu, Jesu, Jesu, esto mihi Jesus" -St. Ralph Sherwin's last words at Tyburn)
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To: null and void
Contrast that to the dozens or even scores of partners the typical bride and groom may have here, the sense of bonding is so blurred and degraded that it can’t act as a glue to hold them together.

One writer I saw put it like this: "A woman who is communal property is beyond individual interest."

16 posted on 11/19/2007 11:30:54 AM PST by thulldud
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To: HerzogAEH
In the upside-down world of politically correct health care, the main priority is to never make “moral judgments” about a patient’s behavior, and factual information is suppressed if it threatens political agendas.

This is the goal of the Sex Positive agenda. End ALL moral judgements over sexual pairings regardless of sex, age, relation, marital status, number, or species of partner(s).

Sex Positive proponents oppose abstinence not because "it doesn't work" but because they see sexual pleasure as a birthright and seek to see everyone sexually active at every age. They see abstinence as "unhealthy" because it is a supression of sexual desires.

I think that it is positive.org that has a campaign called "just say YES" because there are too many stuffy adults already telling kids what they can and cannot do.

The Sex Positive agenda has been defined by Kinsey, Reich, and feminists.

17 posted on 11/19/2007 11:38:59 AM PST by weegee (End the Bush-Bush-Bush-Clinton/Clinton-Clinton/Clinton-Bush-Bush-Clinton/Clinton Oligarchy 1980-2012)
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To: Jaysun
Planned Parenthood made the rounds again last week “debating” the concept of teaching abstinence to teens.

Planned Parenthood makes no money when kids say “No”. They sell birth control, counseling, and abortions.

18 posted on 11/19/2007 11:40:21 AM PST by weegee (End the Bush-Bush-Bush-Clinton/Clinton-Clinton/Clinton-Bush-Bush-Clinton/Clinton Oligarchy 1980-2012)
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To: Pyro7480
Question: I saw the Flickr link in your FR profile.
I did too! She is one sweety; Pryo, what is the contradiction?
19 posted on 11/19/2007 11:41:32 AM PST by SF Republican
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To: HerzogAEH
I also have a photo page on Flickr: http://www.flickr.com/photos/60868301@N00/

Definitely Not Guilty.

20 posted on 11/19/2007 11:44:51 AM PST by krb (If you're not outraged, people probably like having you around.)
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To: Pyro7480

I’m 51 years old and female and STRAIGHT. While I wouldn’t want those photos taken of a 16 year old, they are well within the bounds of good taste. She’s lovely and let’s face it: that window closes way fast, so enjoy it while you can! LOL

Welcome to FR, Ashley.


21 posted on 11/19/2007 11:45:33 AM PST by trimom
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To: SF Republican

One way to stop teenagers from having premarital sex is to stop their hypersexualization, which includes immodest dress.


22 posted on 11/19/2007 11:46:59 AM PST by Pyro7480 ("Jesu, Jesu, Jesu, esto mihi Jesus" -St. Ralph Sherwin's last words at Tyburn)
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To: SF Republican; HerzogAEH
This thread is worthless without pic's!


23 posted on 11/19/2007 11:49:45 AM PST by jdm
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To: HerzogAEH
“There is no right time to have your first intercourse. This is a choice you make,” declares GoAskAlice.com, a popular health Web site.

A reasoned basis for this statement is probably too much to ask.

The following is a simple natural law argument for monogamy and post-marital sex.

1) Looking at the bodies of men and women, it's obvious that they play complementary roles in the process of bringing new human life into the world. This is the way nature meant children to come into the world, hence the term, "reproductive system" or "genitals."

2) No reasonable person would argue that children are better off raised by anyone other than their biological parents. Nevertheless, there are some unreasonable people who do. These people need to become acquainted with the data regarding the rate of sexual abuse by step-parents.

3) And if it's not obvious that children are generally better off being raised by both of their natural parents, then again, I would point them to the sociological data regarding the effect of divorce on children.

4) The act of sexual intercouse is pleasurable and ordered by nature toward procreation. It is also unitive, as common sense, common experience, and current scientific data affirms.

5) It follows then that this unitive aspect of intercourse is ordered by nature toward the unity of the man and woman for their benefit(4), and also for the benefit of the children who may issue from the act (2).

6) Moreover, nature intends this unitive bonding to be lifelong, since the children of parents bonded together for life are generally happier and healthier than children raised otherwise (3).

7) If one or the other members of the bonded couple engages in intercourse with a third person, then new natural bonds will be formed, weakening the original bond which nature intended, to the detriment of the original couple and their children (5).

8) Since nature intends intercourse to unify the couple for life, for the benefit of the couple and the benefit of children which may issue from the act, no man or woman should engage in intercourse without having made a lifetime commitment to the other partner.

8) Therefore, intercourse outside of a lifetime commitment is harmful and wrong.

24 posted on 11/19/2007 11:54:30 AM PST by Aquinasfan (When you find "Sola Scriptura" in the Bible, let me know)
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To: Pyro7480

All those exposed bosoms are used by professional women to intimidate men. A work tool!


25 posted on 11/19/2007 11:55:07 AM PST by donna (The United States Constitution and the Koran are mutually exclusive.)
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To: John Williams
...recreational sex is similar to masturbation.

You're right on the mark. It's mutual masturbation, to coin a phrase.

26 posted on 11/19/2007 11:57:14 AM PST by Aquinasfan (When you find "Sola Scriptura" in the Bible, let me know)
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To: HerzogAEH
Our local FM Talk station had the author of a book of similar subject matter.

http://www.prudethebook.com/

Check it out... very informative!!

27 posted on 11/19/2007 11:57:41 AM PST by erikm88
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To: donna

Now you’re getting ridiculous. ;-)


28 posted on 11/19/2007 12:00:38 PM PST by Pyro7480 ("Jesu, Jesu, Jesu, esto mihi Jesus" -St. Ralph Sherwin's last words at Tyburn)
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To: HerzogAEH
If I had a daughter, I'd tell her she won't have sex til she's 18. As long as she lives under my roof, there are things she won't be allowed to do with a boy - and when I set the conditions under which they can be together, she gets to be with him only when he follows the rules. When they become adults, its their business. As long as they are children, it is my responsibility as a parent to make sure they are kept out of harm's way - and that includes sex.

"Show me just what Mohammed brought that was new, and there you will find things only evil and inhuman, such as his command to spread by the sword the faith he preached." - Manuel II Palelologus

29 posted on 11/19/2007 12:02:16 PM PST by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives In My Heart Forever)
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To: HerzogAEH
This is a choice you make,” declares GoAskAlice.com, a popular health Web site.

Curious name for a website. "Go Ask Alice" is the (true) diary of a young girl who "choose" to be a drug user and what her life was like as a drug user. It has a curious ending which you can see if you highlight the following:




"Alice"'s final entry indicates that she's going to get on with her life now. Ironically, the epilogue notes that within a couple of weeks of making that entry, after she's cured, she died of a drug overdose.

30 posted on 11/19/2007 12:03:03 PM PST by Tanniker Smith ("What are we doing tomorrow night?" "Same thing we do every night. Try to take over the world!")
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To: HerzogAEH

Check your FReepmail.


31 posted on 11/19/2007 12:08:01 PM PST by Albion Wilde (America: “the most benign hegemon in history.”—Mark Steyn)
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To: HerzogAEH
Really? What if a girl decides sex is right for her at age 12 or 13?

She hooks up with Jerry Lee Lewis, and bang, game on.

32 posted on 11/19/2007 12:09:28 PM PST by Hemingway's Ghost (Spirit of '75)
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To: donna; Pyro7480
All those exposed bosoms are used by professional women to intimidate men. A work tool!

As someone who worked in advertising and marketing for many years, I totally agree.

33 posted on 11/19/2007 12:10:43 PM PST by Albion Wilde (America: “the most benign hegemon in history.”—Mark Steyn)
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To: HerzogAEH

Thanks for the “welcome” messages! Any concerned parents out there (or college students, for that matter) should really think about buying a copy of “Unprotected.” I was shocked by some of the things I learned from it!


34 posted on 11/19/2007 12:11:47 PM PST by HerzogAEH
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To: Tanniker Smith
Ridiculous. As a teen male, I never had sex with a teen girl. So I grew up a virgin? I don't feel bad at at all and looking back at those years, I'm thankful I didn't take on the responsibilities of becoming a parent. The point is sex has consequences and can quickly terminate the care-free joys of childhood. We don't allow children to drink before they're 21 because we understand their bodies and minds are not yet ready to handle alcohol. Ditto for tobacco products. Why then should the rule be different for sex?

"Show me just what Mohammed brought that was new, and there you will find things only evil and inhuman, such as his command to spread by the sword the faith he preached." - Manuel II Palelologus

35 posted on 11/19/2007 12:13:55 PM PST by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives In My Heart Forever)
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To: Aquinasfan

Some have argued that we should be teaching teens “outercourse” as a defense to engaging in intercourse. It’s just a ruse. Just as the issue of condoms in school forever shifted the argument from IF teens should have sex to WHEN...


36 posted on 11/19/2007 12:17:28 PM PST by weegee (End the Bush-Bush-Bush-Clinton/Clinton-Clinton/Clinton-Bush-Bush-Clinton/Clinton Oligarchy 1980-2012)
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To: Jaysun
“They don’t particularly care about teens – especially girls, who are more likely to suffer physical and emotional consequences from early sexual activity. They care about undermining traditional values and promoting libertine attitudes about sex.”

The so-called womens’ movement has benefited only unscrupulous men who are looking for free sex without commitment, and destroys women. The movement is concerned only with its own power.

37 posted on 11/19/2007 12:18:18 PM PST by Spok
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To: goldstategop

Teach her to respect herself and to expect others to give her respect too. It is a different side of the coin.


38 posted on 11/19/2007 12:19:14 PM PST by weegee (End the Bush-Bush-Bush-Clinton/Clinton-Clinton/Clinton-Bush-Bush-Clinton/Clinton Oligarchy 1980-2012)
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To: Albion Wilde

And a kind and honest woman will do the opposite.


39 posted on 11/19/2007 12:20:42 PM PST by donna (The United States Constitution and the Koran are mutually exclusive.)
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To: jdm

I wouldn’t trade our conservative babes for the liberals’ “womyn” for all the money in the world!

And, BTW, the article was great!


40 posted on 11/19/2007 12:21:26 PM PST by puroresu (Enjoy ASIAN CINEMA? See my Freeper page for recommendations (updated!).)
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To: HerzogAEH

Welcome! Glad to have you aboard here at FR!


41 posted on 11/19/2007 12:22:30 PM PST by puroresu (Enjoy ASIAN CINEMA? See my Freeper page for recommendations (updated!).)
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To: jdm

Innnocent!


42 posted on 11/19/2007 12:38:55 PM PST by Paleo Conservative
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To: Aquinasfan

The big problem is that liberals do not acknowledge and/or disregard Natural Law. Therefore, your points are invalid and you are a bigot/racist/sexist/[add other type of “ist” here].


43 posted on 11/19/2007 1:19:22 PM PST by John Williams ("Religion without the liberating Spirit of God is nothing but spiritual bondage.")
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To: weegee
Tell that to the skank generation. Not all of them have the attitude women just exist for men's amusement. Wendy Shalit, Ariel Levy and Ashley Herzog have a different take on it. Just as decent men are men who respect women from the waist up, thoughtful women like the above writers think its adds to rather than detracts from a woman's femininity when women respect themselves. I call the return to modesty not as a refutation of sexuality but the enlightened expression of it with style and a feeling of grace. Before the 60s, our parents had no difficulty expressing themselves without the coarseness and lack of restraint so apparent today. The sexual revolution that followed simply allowed men and women to both behave like pigs instead of people endowed with the equipment of manners. That is what is missing today from our culture.

"Show me just what Mohammed brought that was new, and there you will find things only evil and inhuman, such as his command to spread by the sword the faith he preached." - Manuel II Palelologus

44 posted on 11/19/2007 2:51:14 PM PST by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives In My Heart Forever)
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To: HerzogAEH
Conservative babes are Ssooo hot! Not like the libs who don't bathe or groom themselves.

45 posted on 11/19/2007 3:04:36 PM PST by Islander7 ("Show me an honest politician and I will show you a case of mistaken identity.")
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To: jdm; sit-rep

Not guilty.


46 posted on 11/19/2007 3:09:00 PM PST by Larry Lucido (Hunter 2008)
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To: Tanniker Smith
You wrote: Curious name for a website. "Go Ask Alice" is the (true) diary of a young girl who "choose" to be a drug user and what her life was like as a drug user.

No, it is not a true diary of anyone. "Go Ask Alice" is a work of fiction. In my experience, kids are often shocked and deeply dismayed and feel lied to when they discover that the book is not autobiographical, but was written by Beatrice Sparks, the purported "editor".

It is best not to lie to kids (not you, the publisher). The simple truth works just fine: that the story is fiction, but that the events in it do happen to people who do drugs.

See: http://www.snopes.com/language/literary/askalice.asp

47 posted on 11/19/2007 3:24:42 PM PST by mountainbunny
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To: HerzogAEH

Wow. How did you get a photo with Newt?


48 posted on 11/19/2007 3:34:01 PM PST by keats5 (tolerance of intolerant people is cultural suicide)
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To: Spok
The so-called womens’ movement has benefited only unscrupulous men who are looking for free sex without commitment, and destroys women. The movement is concerned only with its own power.

It's a movement that will eat itself alive. These feminist will wonder what happened to them when 60 Christmas have gone by and after several divorces they're alone and bitter.

They can't get along with men because they want to power over them. No man will have that. So they're left with being lesbians or alone. What a life.
49 posted on 11/19/2007 3:59:57 PM PST by Jaysun (It's outlandishly inappropriate to suggest that I'm wrong.)
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To: Aquinasfan
Very nicely summed up. Marriage is an ideal time to have your first intercourse. This is the right time and this is a choice we made.

Our reward is that we're still together after 23 years and our kids are well-adjusted and committed to saving themselves for marriage. And yes, we know other families just like us in this respect, even in 2007.

Everyone of us makes Planned Parenthood less relevant and less wealthy.

50 posted on 11/19/2007 4:51:58 PM PST by Vigilanteman (Are there any men left in Washington? Or are there only cowards? Ahmad Shah Massoud)
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