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Report: Family Completes Trip With Dead Grandma in Back of RV
http://www.foxnews.com ^ | Tuesday, January 15, 2008 | Michael Rollins

Posted on 01/15/2008 2:01:36 PM PST by nmh

A family drove hundreds of miles with their dead grandmother in the back of their recreational vehicle to fulfill the ailing woman's wishes.

They arrived in Hillsboro, Ore., on Sunday with the body and notified police. The 79-year-old woman, who likely died in Wyoming, was in poor health but wished to see family members in Arkansas before she passed away.

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,322806,00.html

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Update: Grandmother's last family trip ends in Hillsboro after her death in Wyoming

by The Oregonian Monday January 14, 2008, 12:51 PM The woman was last seen alive by the family about 3 a.m. Saturday near Laramie, Wyo., he said.

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"We believe they were about 1,100 miles from Hillsboro when she passed away," Rouches said. "We believe they were in Wyoming. That's based on gas receipts."

Rouches said the woman's doctors told family members the frail grandmother might not survive the trip.

Hillsboro Police were called at about 9 a.m. Sunday.

Rouches stressed that the death was not a police matter, despite its seemingly unusual nature, because no law had been broken. Because it was not a police matter, Rouches did not release the woman's name.

"People die every day," Rouches said. This could happen more frequently than we know." He said Hillsboro police were called by family members who drove her to Oregon because they wanted to report the death to authorities.

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http://www.oregonlive.com/washingtoncounty/index.ssf/2008/01/hillsboro_family_finishes_rv_t.html

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TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: dead; elderly; grandma; vacation
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Sounds like something out of a Chevy Chase movie.

How could they be traveling with her in this condition?

Furthermore if she was so ill, why weren't they more watchful that she was okay?

1 posted on 01/15/2008 2:01:38 PM PST by nmh
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To: nmh

links

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,322806,00.html

http://www.oregonlive.com/washingtoncounty/index.ssf/2008/01/hillsboro_family_finishes_rv_t.html


2 posted on 01/15/2008 2:02:30 PM PST by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God) .)
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To: nmh

In the back of the RV? Not up on top?


3 posted on 01/15/2008 2:04:09 PM PST by SoldierDad (Proud Dad of a 2nd BCT 10th Mountain Soldier home after 15 months in the Triagle of death)
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To: nmh

The Griswalds!


4 posted on 01/15/2008 2:05:10 PM PST by Beckwith (Dhimmicrats and the liberal media have chosen sides -- Islamofascism)
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To: SoldierDad

I hate to admit it - but that was my first thought!

Honestly, why didn’t the relatives come to HER?


5 posted on 01/15/2008 2:05:34 PM PST by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God) .)
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To: Slings and Arrows

At least they wasn’t going to “Wally World”.


6 posted on 01/15/2008 2:06:24 PM PST by KoRn
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To: nmh

Did they leave her body in a rocking chair?


7 posted on 01/15/2008 2:06:46 PM PST by TenthAmendmentChampion (Global warming is to Revelations as the theory of evolution is to Genesis.)
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To: Beckwith

The Griswalds!

YES, that’s the family I was thinking of ... .


8 posted on 01/15/2008 2:06:53 PM PST by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God) .)
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To: SoldierDad
"Not up on top?"

That would interfere with the TV antenna, Silly!


9 posted on 01/15/2008 2:07:18 PM PST by battlegearboat
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To: nmh
"We believe they were about 1,100 miles from Hillsboro when she passed away," Rouches said. "We believe they were in Wyoming. That's based on gas receipts."

1100 miles? And they didn't check on her during that distance? How many hours do you figure that is? My guesstimate is around 15 hours. She didn't need food, water, to use the bathroom for 15 hours? Not too caring a family IMHO.

10 posted on 01/15/2008 2:07:59 PM PST by SoldierDad (Proud Dad of a 2nd BCT 10th Mountain Soldier home after 15 months in the Triagle of death)
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To: battlegearboat

11 posted on 01/15/2008 2:09:38 PM PST by battlegearboat
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To: nmh

Good question.


12 posted on 01/15/2008 2:09:57 PM PST by SoldierDad (Proud Dad of a 2nd BCT 10th Mountain Soldier home after 15 months in the Triagle of death)
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To: SoldierDad

“1100 miles? And they didn’t check on her during that distance? How many hours do you figure that is? My guesstimate is around 15 hours. She didn’t need food, water, to use the bathroom for 15 hours? Not too caring a family IMHO.”

I don’t understand it!

It’s not like she was a suitcase.

I’m normally hugnry after traveling that far and need to go to the bathroom. Guess, I’m odd.


13 posted on 01/15/2008 2:09:59 PM PST by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God) .)
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To: nmh

No, you’re normal.


14 posted on 01/15/2008 2:11:03 PM PST by SoldierDad (Proud Dad of a 2nd BCT 10th Mountain Soldier home after 15 months in the Triagle of death)
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To: nmh

All I can figure is that the death of someone close to you can make you somewhat irrational. In this case, it sounds like she died of TMBD (too many birth days), and she wanted to finish the trip, so her family carried out her dying wish. Seems irrational (and frankly was) from the outside, but probably made “sense” to her family at the time.

It’s a strange, strange world sometimes...


15 posted on 01/15/2008 2:14:26 PM PST by piytar
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To: battlegearboat

16 posted on 01/15/2008 2:14:26 PM PST by battlegearboat
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To: SoldierDad

Thanks ... between politics and news items like this ... I feel like an alien. Just today, in lovely NJ, Corzine, our governor, decided to comment on doing away with capital punishment and “feels good about it”. Meanwhile he’s all for abortion and hoping to change “domestic partnerships” to “civil unions” in the near future.


17 posted on 01/15/2008 2:14:35 PM PST by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God) .)
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To: nmh

Little Miss Sunshine!


18 posted on 01/15/2008 2:15:01 PM PST by GnuHere
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To: nmh
A family drove hundreds of miles with their dead grandmother in the back of their recreational vehicle to fulfill the ailing woman's wishes.

Her wish to be remembered as a punchline in reference to National Lampoon's Vacation?

Or her wish to be remembered as a punchline in reference to Little Miss Sunshine?

19 posted on 01/15/2008 2:15:29 PM PST by wideawake (Why is it that those who call themselves Constitutionalists know the least about the Constitution?)
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To: battlegearboat

Thanks - brings back memories - a funny movie.


20 posted on 01/15/2008 2:15:50 PM PST by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God) .)
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To: Beckwith
"Oh Lord, ease our suffering in this our time of great despair. Admit this good and decent woman into thine heavenly area up there. The flock. And Mohab laid down by the band of the Kingonights and although the Hindues speak of carma, I implore you, give, give her a break...Barookatah, Hallalooyah."

- Clark W. Griswold
21 posted on 01/15/2008 2:17:35 PM PST by reagan_fanatic (Ron Paul put the cuckoo in my Cocoa Puffs)
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To: nmh
You're just like Clark!


22 posted on 01/15/2008 2:17:37 PM PST by battlegearboat
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To: nmh; Lijahsbubbe
A family drove hundreds of miles with their dead grandmother in the back of their recreational vehicle

Great! Another sequel. The Griswold family drives to Wally World in Eddie's tenement on wheels.

23 posted on 01/15/2008 2:18:02 PM PST by Ezekiel
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To: SoldierDad

and I feel like a sicko, because I find this funny...although I would not if this happened to my mom. Judging from the responses, though, I don’t think I am the only one who finds this amusing.


24 posted on 01/15/2008 2:18:45 PM PST by merry10
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To: nmh

It’s a strange strange world.


25 posted on 01/15/2008 2:19:12 PM PST by SoldierDad (Proud Dad of a 2nd BCT 10th Mountain Soldier home after 15 months in the Triagle of death)
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To: SoldierDad; nmh
The article doesn't say that the family claimed that they didn't know she had passed away. They probably just thought the best thing to do was to take her back home.

As far as the family coming to visit her, when my dad was in the military and we'd come home to visit relatives from wherever we were stationed, traveling hundreds of miles, there were relatives who still wouldn't travel 20 miles from their houses to where we were staying to see us. It used to make my mom so mad!

26 posted on 01/15/2008 2:19:48 PM PST by carolinablonde (Proud member of the Vast Right Wing Conspiracy)
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To: SoldierDad
1100 miles? And they didn't check on her during that distance? How many hours do you figure that is? My guesstimate is around 15 hours. She didn't need food, water, to use the bathroom for 15 hours? Not too caring a family IMHO.

Who says they didn't know she was dead?

Think about this for a minute or two.

Suppose you are on a family trip and heading home when your elderly relative passes away in your RV. What do you do?

If you stop at the nearest town, you are going to be there for weeks, filling out paperwork and dealing with red tape. The expense will be enormous and completely unnecessary.

If you complete your drive home, you will be at home, in familiar surroundings, with friends and other relatives. And, her doctor will be there to make sure that everyone "official" knows this was an expected death from natural causes and not some nefarious plot to do her in for an inheritance.

27 posted on 01/15/2008 2:20:21 PM PST by CurlyDave
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To: CurlyDave

BINGO!!!


28 posted on 01/15/2008 2:21:59 PM PST by Roccus (..........................FOR RENT......................)
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To: CurlyDave

Yep,
icky,
but the most practical of all choices.


29 posted on 01/15/2008 2:23:27 PM PST by najida (Will....will.... will....Heck, will do almost anything for Butter Pecan.)
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To: CurlyDave

I hadn’t considered that ... .


30 posted on 01/15/2008 2:23:52 PM PST by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God) .)
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To: nmh

Shades of “Grapes of Wrath”.


31 posted on 01/15/2008 2:24:16 PM PST by LexBaird (Behold, thou hast drinken of the Aide of Kool, and are lost unto Men.)
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To: Slings and Arrows

Ping


32 posted on 01/15/2008 2:25:36 PM PST by Fiddlstix (Warning! This Is A Subliminal Tagline! Read it at your own risk!(Presented by TagLines R US))
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To: LexBaird
Y&eah, good ole socialist John Steinbeck.

I remember reading his book The Red Pony.

When we were out in California we went to see a museum on him. I didn’t realize just how much of a leftist he was!

WHEW!!

33 posted on 01/15/2008 2:26:13 PM PST by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God) .)
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To: SoldierDad
In the back of the RV? Not up on top?

"Well, officer, we couldn't put her up on the roof because the dog was already there." Mitt Romney

34 posted on 01/15/2008 2:26:40 PM PST by CommerceComet (Mitt Romney: boldly saying whatever the audience wants to hear.)
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To: CommerceComet
You’re naughty!

I’m with Fred but if he drops out, it’ll be Mitt. The rest - too liberal or in the case of Huckabee - a fraud - politically and from a Christian perspective. Mike’s a humanist financing it through socialism. ANy Christian should be able to see through him. He should be ashamed of himself.

35 posted on 01/15/2008 2:30:37 PM PST by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God) .)
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To: SoldierDad

No, they last knew she was alive at 3 a.m. and by 9 a.m. they contacted the police that she had died. That’s only 6 hours, and certainly understandable considering that the passengers other than the driver were likely sleeping. They probably checked on her at 3 and she probably didn’t seem close to death to them and so they went back to sleep. It’s not always easy to tell, especially for those who are unfamiliar with the signs of imminent death. You can know someone is in their last days, but not know it could happen momentarily. Even medical people don’t always predict it accurately.


36 posted on 01/15/2008 2:30:59 PM PST by TruthSetsUFree
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To: nmh

http://tedmathis.blogspot.com/2006/04/woman-nabbed-driving-corpse-across.html


37 posted on 01/15/2008 2:33:07 PM PST by Responsibility2nd
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To: nmh

“No problem here, officer, grandma’s just a heavy sleeper.”


38 posted on 01/15/2008 2:33:58 PM PST by colorado tanker
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To: Responsibility2nd

Monday, April 24, 2006
Woman nabbed driving corpse across country

BERLIN (Reuters) - A 53-year-old German woman who was driving her dead mother across country to save on mortuary transportation costs was fined by police for disturbing a dead person’s peace.

“You’re not allowed to transport dead people in your private car,” said Ralf Schomisch, police spokesman in Koblenz, where the car was found after a tip-off from a mortuary.

“The corpse was on the back seat without a seat belt, which in this case didn’t really matter. But it was covered up with clothing. It is a misdemeanour.”

...

Oh my!


39 posted on 01/15/2008 2:34:44 PM PST by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God) .)
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To: TruthSetsUFree
No, they last knew she was alive at 3 a.m. and by 9 a.m. they contacted the police that she had died. That’s only 6 hours, and certainly understandable considering that the passengers other than the driver were likely sleeping.

Um, read it again. The last time seen alive was 3:00am on Saturday. The contacted police at 9:00am Sunday. That would be 30 hours not 6.

40 posted on 01/15/2008 2:35:14 PM PST by SoldierDad (Proud Dad of a 2nd BCT 10th Mountain Soldier home after 15 months in the Triagle of death)
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To: nmh

I think they realized that she was gone at some point but so no sense in stopping til they got where they were going...seems strange but not as macabre as all that.


41 posted on 01/15/2008 2:37:19 PM PST by Uriah_lost ("I don't apologize for the United States of America," -Fred D Thompson)
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To: windcliff

ping


42 posted on 01/15/2008 2:38:53 PM PST by stylecouncilor (I'm a loner Dottie; a rebel.)
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To: nmh; Monkey Face; Lady Jag; Kathy in Alaska
Furthermore if she was so ill, why weren't they more watchful that she was okay?

She was dying, and they were trying to get her there before she died.

How sweet!

*sigh*

43 posted on 01/15/2008 2:42:08 PM PST by fanfan ("We don't start fights my friends, but we finish them, and never leave until our work is done."PMSH)
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To: SoldierDad; CurlyDave

Why contact the police at all? They didn’t need the police. They needed a mortuary.

Which was back home.

The more I think about it, the more I can almost see why it happened this way. What point was there in stopping Wyoming, really? Some coroner would’ve been summoned, and they’d have made some (expensive) arrangements with a local funeral parlor to ship the body— to where they were going anyway.

Can’t say I would’ve done the same thing, but I can see it happening.


44 posted on 01/15/2008 2:46:16 PM PST by Ramius (Personally, I give us... one chance in three. More tea?)
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To: nmh
Honestly, why didn’t the relatives come to HER?

They're likely also very old and not able to travel on their own. My mom and her siblings are about to take my grandma on a trip to her older brother who lives a thousand miles away. Her body is fairly healthy, but she has minor dementia. Her brother's brain is in good shape, but he is confined to a wheel a chair and needs regular dialysis. So if they are to ever see each other again, it's up to younger family members to take the initiative.
45 posted on 01/15/2008 2:48:15 PM PST by Welsh Rabbit
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To: Ramius

I can understand the argument of getting her home so as to avoid dealing with the hassles of other agencies in another state. I’m just confused as to why it appears it took so long to discover that she had passed.


46 posted on 01/15/2008 2:50:00 PM PST by SoldierDad (Proud Dad of a 2nd BCT 10th Mountain Soldier home after 15 months in the Triagle of death)
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To: Beckwith

That’s what I was thinking too, “Vacation” the movie.


47 posted on 01/15/2008 2:53:43 PM PST by citizen (Capt. McQueeg: "Have any of you an explanation for the quart of missing strawberries?" [click-clack])
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To: SoldierDad

I don’t see anything in the story that indicates how long she lay dead before they realized it. ...or how long they waited to call the cops. It only says when they called the cops.


48 posted on 01/15/2008 2:55:33 PM PST by Ramius (Personally, I give us... one chance in three. More tea?)
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To: SoldierDad
In the back of the RV? Not up on top?

You read Grapes of Wrath, too, huh?

First thing I thought of...

49 posted on 01/15/2008 3:06:48 PM PST by okie01 (THE MAINSTREAM MEDIA: Ignorance on Parade)
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To: nmh
One of my husband’s last wishes were that we travel 500 miles to see his family. I was determined to take him no matter what. I did, and fortunately he lived about 2 weeks after we got back home. I knew it was going to take its toll, and it did.

Same thing with their grandmother. They were just trying to make her last days what she wanted.

50 posted on 01/15/2008 3:10:43 PM PST by Coldwater Creek
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