Posted on 01/25/2008 9:44:11 AM PST by nickcarraway
That's very common, you know, having kids ... and becoming a MOTHER! ((DUH!))
If she'd married a REAL man, and not just some stud, they could have evolved to enjoy the new relationship.
Marriage is not just "Sex-with-a-Marriage-license."
Marriage is a "Real-Life*with-Sex!" (Yahoo!) :)
It's all how you look at it!!
A combination of her picutre, her past sexual activity, and her general stupidity give a really good indication as to who is to blame. She is absolutely pathetic.
Heh. :o)
Glenn Reynolds' wife, Helen, has written quite a bit about this on her blog, too.
>>>”excellent illustration. how many male freepers would marry her [[sexy model in photo]] just based on looks without regard to her personality [she’s a schizo] or morals [she’s an incorrigible slut]? tons, i wager ; )
I would say they are all important (looks,personality,morals). It is tough though to find one that fits all.
“Very true. We’ve been married for 18 years and our relationship will have a lasting impact on our 4 kids. I know I wanted to model my parents’ marriage and hope my kids want to model mine. Just like my husband didn’t want a marriage like his parents had. We were just talking about this last night with our teens about how sex is an important part of a marriage (they were asking questions, discussing their friends sex lives, relationships in general, sex in general, etc.).”
I think that’s what bothers me the most about this woman’s self-centered carthartic release.
In her efforts to publicly whine about her plight, she has embarrassed her husband and her children.
She has shown she is the type of mother who does not hope for better things for her children.
She is, in essence, robbing her own kids of their hopes for their own futures. Telling them it is impossible for them to find lifelong mates who they will always love and treasure.
I hope those kids don’t buy what she’s selling.
I agree. Her kids will suffer from it, probably already suffering from her behavior. I’m hoping they don’t buy into it either.
Yes, you’re right. And I think her book is entitled something like, “Why Should I Have to Make the First Move?”
Joan, is the correct website called “http://drhelen.blogspot.com/";? Do you have any links within the blog that address this topic?
Unfortunately, this gets beyond my understanding as a male. [I've always been the opposite. Our problem was just resurrecting the desire in my bride or having her accomodate mine.] I'd recommend some counseling.
Thanks you very much!
It’s not for me, though I do understand the problem and it often is the reason that “Sally divorced Hal! I thought he was such a nice guy!”. I agree, counseling seems to be the only answer. BTW, it’s about as common for women as your issue is with your bride.
So, thinking analytically, the issue is, is the fellow in question basically a good, considerate joe who can shift with the right encouragement, counseling, and love from his spouse? Or is he basically just a selfish slob who uses people, especially his own wife, children, and family, and is totally recalcitrant? Wish I could be more help here but I can't. But I want to be an optimist so it's my hope that it's the former.
Look forward to more dialogues about this with you at Free Republic.
Good luck and God bless.
either that or he just does not care. most likely he is chasing something on the side.........
You notice that, she said he was a “good man”...decoding means that he had a job with a comfortable salary, took regular showers, and didn’t demand or expect too much sex...but still, she lusts after the Alpha-male construction guy, who is demanding in sex, but has no social standing....
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