It isn’t a notion, it’s a historical fact. And “natural rapists” is your spin. The men didn’t have much choice about marriage either, people married for social and economic reasons of their elders.
In ancient times (not to mention the Stone Age or prior), the idea that women ought to choose their own mates would have been funny — or decidedly not.
Then produce the evidence that lesbian women had as many offspring as heterosexual women. If it is a historical fact as you state, then it shouldn't be hard. I'll wait.
And natural rapists is your spin.
B.S. You said women had no choice and that their desire for sex had no affect on frequency of sex, thus reproduction. If the woman is forced to have sex, despite not wanting to, there is a term for it, "rape". That isn't spin, it actually is A FACT. Try a dictionary.