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For Jews, tattoo yearning pits pride against faith
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Posted on 07/28/2008 6:34:51 AM PDT by WilliamReading

BOCA RATON — Mo Brenner is taking Jewish pride to a new and controversial level.

The 27-year-old Boca Raton tattoo artist boasts a large Star of David on his upper right arm engraved with Abram, his Hebrew name.

He'll gladly sketch Hebrew writing and Jewish stars on his clients at Boca Body Art, because what could possibly be a better way to celebrate religion than with a shrine that will last a lifetime?

"A tattoo should really mean something to you," Brenner said. "Mine represents my religion and family."

With the tattoo phenomenon continuing to explode - 40 percent of people between the ages of 26 to 40 have at least one tattoo, according to the Pew Research Center - some Jews don't want to be left out.

But it's a contradiction for a religion that most believe forbids tattoos. Perhaps even more stinging, millions of Jews were forcibly tattooed during the Holocaust.

"I was always taught that nice Jewish people didn't do that," said 40-year-old Boca resident Amy Lubetkin. "When I think of tattoos, I think of the Holocaust and how tattooing of all these Jewish people was another way to take away their identity, take away from who they were."

Bruce Ratoff, a 55-year-old Boca resident, considers himself an only moderately observant Jew, yet there are certain lines he refuses to cross.

"Tattoos are a permanent mutilation and thus a direct violation of Jewish law," Ratoff said. "The Nazis were aware of this - it was a deliberate desecration when they tattooed concentration camp inmates. Why then should we deliberately choose to desecrate ourselves? I find this trend most disturbing."

Strangely enough, this is one of the reasons that younger Jews, like 18-year-old Alexis Engelhardt of West Palm Beach, are heading to tattoo parlors.

Engelhardt's grandmother was a Holocaust survivor, so he considered having "remember" tattooed on his forearm in Hebrew.

Ultimately he decided against it because he didn't want such a visible tattoo to hurt his chances at future employment. Instead, he modified a common tattoo of surfers - nautical stars at the front of the hips - using two Jewish stars.

"My parents were kind of upset when they found out, and so was my grandma, but it isn't that big of a deal," Engelhardt said. "I think you should take religion as more of a guideline instead of just rules saying this is how you should live. I think banning tattoos is a little bit ancient, and we're kind of past that."

Tattoo artist Brenner, the great-grandson of Jews caught up in the Holocaust, is thinking about adding yellow coloring to the Star of David on his arm.

Jewish people were forced to wear yellow stars and badges in Nazi Germany.

"I want to represent what they went through," Brenner said.

It's an argument that puzzles orthodox Rabbi Shlomo Uminer of the Chabad Jewish Center of Martin and St. Lucie Counties.

"That memory is not a good memory," Uminer said. "The memory of the Holocaust, that terrible act of barbarism that happened while the whole world watched and was quiet, is not something of remembrance. We shouldn't forget, but if you want to be clear that you're Jewish, wear a yarmulke (the traditional Jewish skullcap) on your head.

"How can you care about your religion when you disobey it (by getting a tattoo)? It just doesn't work."

Anthony Fratello, the Reform rabbi of Temple Shaarei Shalom in Boynton Beach, said he has very mixed emotions about tattoos on Jewish people.

He believes that the biblical text barring tattoos is "a bit vague" and that the real stigma these days stems from the Holocaust.

He's heard of people tattooing exact replicas of the numbers that were tattooed on the forearms of their relatives in concentration camps.

"There are those who see it as a way to reconnect with people that perished in the Holocaust, and I can see both sides of the argument," Fratello said.

However, he believes there is something sacred about keeping the body unmarked.

"I think there's a great deal that we can learn from the traditional perspective to say that it's your body, and God gave it you to take care of," Fratello said.

Many Jews have been reluctant to get tattoos because of a long-standing belief that the deceased can't be buried in Jewish cemeteries if they are tattooed.

However, even Orthodox rabbis like Uminer say that's a myth.

The Star of David of the Palm Beaches cemetery in West Palm Beach has no policy regarding tattoos, and Mount Sinai Memorial Park - an Orthodox cemetery in Miami - doesn't have its employees view the body before it is buried.

Once Ann Pardes of Boca Raton learned that prohibiting tattooed Jews from being buried was "just an old wives' tale," she permitted her son to get a tattoo in remembrance of his grandmother.

"I couldn't say no," Pardes said. "I thought it was for a very good reason, and it's a beautiful tattoo in memory of my mom. I'm even considering getting one myself."

Still, don't expect all Jewish people to go against a tattoo-forbidding mantra passed on for thousands of years.

"Every place I look, every movie star, every rock star, every athlete has tattoos, so I'm not surprised at this trend," Lubetkin said. "But I'm still going to instill in my children that Jewish people don't get tattoos. When my son was as young as 4 and he'd see somebody with a tattoo, he'd say, 'Mommy, that person's not Jewish.'"


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To: Andonius_99
yeah...she wants me...LOL

She's pregnant, apparently. Can you account for your whereabouts during the time period in question ?

141 posted on 07/28/2008 10:59:03 AM PDT by Citizen Blade ("Please... I go through everyone's trash." The Question)
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To: Jersey Republican Biker Chick

Yippee......finally a use for the black candles and the voodoo dolls...they had been collecting dust...


142 posted on 07/28/2008 11:02:05 AM PDT by hilaryrhymeswithrich (Gathering of Eagles....its our turn.....)
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To: Jersey Republican Biker Chick

Well, I’m NOT a memeber of MS-13.

So I guess that makes me a Pagan.


143 posted on 07/28/2008 11:03:08 AM PDT by WayneS (What the hell is wrong with these people?)
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To: hilaryrhymeswithrich

Cool, seance at your place?


144 posted on 07/28/2008 11:04:31 AM PDT by Jersey Republican Biker Chick (Some days it is not worth chewing through the restraints.)
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To: WayneS

OK, now go worship some trees and dance around a fire....wink.


145 posted on 07/28/2008 11:05:14 AM PDT by Jersey Republican Biker Chick (Some days it is not worth chewing through the restraints.)
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To: absolootezer0

“devout Catholics”???

I was under the impression that devout Christians of ANY denomination do NOT commit murder.


146 posted on 07/28/2008 11:05:48 AM PDT by WayneS (What the hell is wrong with these people?)
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To: Citizen Blade; Andonius_99
"She's pregnant, apparently. Can you account for your whereabouts during the time period in question ?"

Andonius....admit nothing....

147 posted on 07/28/2008 11:06:30 AM PDT by Jersey Republican Biker Chick (Some days it is not worth chewing through the restraints.)
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To: WayneS
That is what confession is for?????

Dunno...

148 posted on 07/28/2008 11:07:18 AM PDT by Jersey Republican Biker Chick (Some days it is not worth chewing through the restraints.)
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To: definitelynotaliberal; WilliamReading
Def, you are correct in pointing out the hypocracy of Jews who employ plastic surgery for cosmetic reasons. I'm just a shiksa, but I asked a Jewish friend about it once. She explained, with regard to nosejobs, that they are "always to correct a deviated septum. Always." I'm sure you get what she meant by that. If the surgery is considered a medical necessity, it is outside the ban. Facelifts, OTOH, I'll never understand how they could be anything other than verboten.
149 posted on 07/28/2008 11:08:01 AM PDT by grellis (By order of the Ingham County Sheriff this tag has been seized for nonpayment of taxes)
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To: Jersey Republican Biker Chick; Andonius_99
This week it's the paper bark maple. I'll bring the lemon bars! For those who do not know, the Tattooed Freepers Pagan Tree Worshiping Society is renowned for it's bake sales.


150 posted on 07/28/2008 11:08:46 AM PDT by retrokitten (Do not wait for leaders; do it alone, person to person. Mother Teresa)
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To: retrokitten

Hmmm....that was a picture of a tree. Don’t know where the red box came from.


151 posted on 07/28/2008 11:10:18 AM PDT by retrokitten (Do not wait for leaders; do it alone, person to person. Mother Teresa)
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To: SJackson

Not only that but God, Himself, has said that “His people” are NOT to copy the pagans, who cut and mark their bodies in a ritual to “honor their dead.”


152 posted on 07/28/2008 11:12:27 AM PDT by zerosix (native sunflower)
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To: retrokitten
ROTFLMAO....

I'm bringing the cream puffs...

153 posted on 07/28/2008 11:14:55 AM PDT by Jersey Republican Biker Chick (Some days it is not worth chewing through the restraints.)
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To: WayneS

never said it made sense. goes along with the “pick and choose” your laws. they just picked the one about murder to ignore... or perhaps they’re following some of the rules of biblical warfare, or punishment. i don’t know how its justified. but they square it away. doesn’t make it right, but they feel its ok.


154 posted on 07/28/2008 11:20:41 AM PDT by absolootezer0 ( Detroit: we're so bad, even our mayor is a criminal)
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To: Jersey Republican Biker Chick

Well, if she’s pregnant, she hasn’t call - hang on a sec, my cell phone’s ringing...


155 posted on 07/28/2008 11:22:25 AM PDT by Andonius_99 (There are two sides to every issue. One is right, the other is wrong; but the middle is always evil.)
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To: Jersey Republican Biker Chick

Sighing with you. I don’t care who likes them & who doesn’t. I like mine just fine. However I think people ought to think long & hard about getting them. I stuck to a pattern of flowers & butterflies which I can hide or show depending on my mood. So many people have tats now that I think it doesn’t matter to them what the people who dislike them have to say. As for covering them up for a job there is always Dermablend.


156 posted on 07/28/2008 11:23:05 AM PDT by pandoraou812 (Don't play leapfrog with a unicorn! ...........^............)
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To: dennisw
I’m Mexican and the Aztec warrior – I’m like a warrior on the court and I do whatever it takes to win. ... Aztec warriors

Because nothing says you're a bad-a$$ than putting a tatoo of a warrior whose culture that was OBLITERATED after getting their a$$es kicked.

157 posted on 07/28/2008 11:24:16 AM PDT by Centurion2000 (A citizen using a weapon to shoot a criminal is the ultimate act of independence from government.)
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To: TexasRepublic

oh come on, that comment is so last week.
don’t you have anything new to add to our list?


158 posted on 07/28/2008 11:25:17 AM PDT by absolootezer0 ( Detroit: we're so bad, even our mayor is a criminal)
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To: Centurion2000

so it’d be a good tattoo for the members of the lion’s football team, right?

:)


159 posted on 07/28/2008 11:29:53 AM PDT by absolootezer0 ( Detroit: we're so bad, even our mayor is a criminal)
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To: WilliamReading

If you see a Middle Eastern Jew with a tattoo they are either very tribal (from clans & tribes in remote mountains & deserts) or very secular. Same with Muslims.

If you see a white Jew with a tattoo, it appears to only mean that they are secular. But placing a Jewish tattoo on themselves at least means that they are still proud to identify themselves as Jews in public. Good thing, their Jewish soul is reaching out.


160 posted on 07/28/2008 11:39:04 AM PDT by forkinsocket
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