Agreed. Women civilize men; without a binding obligation, men lean toward destructive asocial tendencies.
Had I not met my wife when I did, I’d likely be a hermit contributing little to society.
There are some men and women who are civilized by their own natures, from their own sense of personal responsibility and understanding of right and wrong.
A lot of men and women only become civilized when outside pressures force them to (a family, the military).