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Moms write survival guide for coddled young adults
Canwest News Service ^ | 09/04/2008 | Sharon Hill

Posted on 09/03/2008 1:20:56 PM PDT by grjr21

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To: Tax-chick

I put an egg in my ramen noodles along with peanut butter and banana sandwiches. I graduated college debt free.


21 posted on 09/03/2008 2:04:49 PM PDT by ThomasThomas (Real changes actually change something.)
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To: grjr21; SeaDragon
Heh, it's already been done.

Where's Mom Now That I Need Her

I still reference it on occasion. ;-)

22 posted on 09/03/2008 2:06:03 PM PDT by RikaStrom (The number one rule of the Kama Sutra is that you both be on the same page.../Exeter 051705)
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To: KYGrandma

My hubby was a decent baker in college. His college buddies would brag to me how good his bread was. Once he married me, he didn’t bake bread again for nearly 10 years. They suddenly forget how to cook in the presence of estrogen, I suppose.


23 posted on 09/03/2008 2:06:23 PM PDT by Tamar1973 (Catch the Korean Wave, one Bae Yong Joon film at a time!)
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To: BenLurkin

You can definitely survive, you just can’t survive indefinitely.

Same goes for rabbit...Lacks an essential amino acid.


24 posted on 09/03/2008 2:06:27 PM PDT by TASMANIANRED (TAZ:Untamed, Unpredictable, Uninhibited.)
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To: TChris; All

My son, who is now in Special Forces, was complaining that I didn’t do things like music lessons, soccer, etc. for him and his brother. On the other hand I remember one Mother’s Day when he was 7 or 8 they decided to give me breakfast in bed. He made pancakes from scratch. I had let them help make some previously. He couldn’t remember how I got the butter in, so cut the butter in little bits and sprinkled it into the batter. Nice little surprise pockets of melted butter in the pancakes.

I used to have them help me cook and season food. I would give them a taste of stew, then have them sniff different herbs and spices and choose one. I would add some and then we would taste again. When he was 8 or 9 the younger brother decided he wanted to fix us chile for dinner. He decided to use some dill for flavoring. It was different, but good. I used to leave a tray of healthy snacks in the refrigerator. They both enjoy cooking and entertaining with their wives.

I also taught them to sort their laundry and wash it when they were about 8 or 9. I was working full time. When my older boy was in ROTC, sometimes he would ask me to iron his shirt since he had to get up at 5 am to be at drill at 6 am. I was glad to do it.

One of my son’s complaints was they had to raise themselves. On the other hand he went into the 82nd Airborne first before transferring to Special Forces. Oh, well, I guess we parents can never get it right.


25 posted on 09/03/2008 2:08:04 PM PDT by gleeaikin
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To: TChris
"Teaspoon, honey."

But Mom the recipe doesn't call for honey.

26 posted on 09/03/2008 2:08:14 PM PDT by Straight Vermonter (Posting from deep behind the Maple Curtain)
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To: Ingtar

1 tsp of honey in my recipe.


27 posted on 09/03/2008 2:08:42 PM PDT by Tamar1973 (Catch the Korean Wave, one Bae Yong Joon film at a time!)
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To: grjr21; GMMAC; Clive; exg; kanawa; conniew; backhoe; -YYZ-; Former Proud Canadian; Squawk 8888; ...
LOL.


28 posted on 09/03/2008 2:10:21 PM PDT by fanfan (SCC:Canadians have constitutional protection to all opinions, as long as they are based on the facts)
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To: KYGrandma
I'm with you!

I have a 17 year old son who thinks he can cook. The hideous concoctions he comes up with boggle the mind, not to mention he leaves the kitchen looking like it's been bombed with 500-pounders loaded with the contents of Arab dustbins . . . . and when you ask him, "Well, did you check the Joy of Cooking like I said?" he gives you this completely blank look.

It's not for want of teaching, but he wasn't interested in helping in the kitchen when he was younger and had to be forced/bribed to help. And none of it seems to have stuck.

To be absolutely fair, my 20 year old daughter isn't much of a cook either, but she's coming around now. At least she can read a recipe!

29 posted on 09/03/2008 2:10:35 PM PDT by AnAmericanMother (Ministrix of ye Chasse - TTGC Ladies' Auxiliary (recess appointment))
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To: ThomasThomas

Sort of an egg-foo-young thing. I never tried that; I was cooking in a hot-pot. I graduated debt-free, too.


30 posted on 09/03/2008 2:10:56 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Guinness! Because it's already after noon in Dublin!)
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To: KYGrandma
I take it none of you have tried to teach a teenage boy how to cook?

If you wait till the teen years, you've waited too long. Our son has been in the kitchen with us since he was 6.

It's no suprise that he's in charge of cooking for his Boy Scout patrol on every campout. He thinks it's cool. No KP for the cook.

L

31 posted on 09/03/2008 2:11:18 PM PDT by Lurker (She's not a lesbian, she doesn't whine, she doesn't hate her country, and she's not afraid of guns.)
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To: KYGrandma; All

“I take it none of you have tried to teach a teenage boy how to cook?”

Exactly, you started much too late. See my Comment 25. I started having my two little brothers, and two sons, “helping” my stir, measure, break eggs, etc. when they were 2 or 3 years old. Of course, my mother almost had a cow when she called from her weekly marketing and laundry expedition to find out how the baby sitting was going. I was 12 or 13, and my brothers were 2 and 4 or 3 and 5. When I said we were making chocolate nut drop cookies from my children’s cook book, I heard her gasp. The cookies were delicious, I don’t remember how messy the kitchen was or wasn’t.


32 posted on 09/03/2008 2:14:46 PM PDT by gleeaikin
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To: grjr21

But back in my youth such coddled young men were happy to find a lovely young lady and marry her. They even graciously put up with lousy meals while their brides learned to cook, just so they wouldn’t have to!


33 posted on 09/03/2008 2:15:02 PM PDT by keepitreal ("I'm Barack Obama and I approve this message. . . until I don't.")
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To: Tax-chick

I graduated debt free eating three meals a day of Cream of Wheat! (It was fortified with iron!)


34 posted on 09/03/2008 2:16:53 PM PDT by keepitreal ("I'm Barack Obama and I approve this message. . . until I don't.")
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To: grjr21

Why not. Britney Spears mom wrote a parenting book.


35 posted on 09/03/2008 2:30:36 PM PDT by sportutegrl
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bttt


36 posted on 09/03/2008 2:42:19 PM PDT by Drew68
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To: rfp1234

Good one!


37 posted on 09/03/2008 2:43:57 PM PDT by MayflowerMadam (Election '08: God is in control.)
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To: KYGrandma
I take it none of you have tried to teach a teenage boy how to cook? They won’t listen and think they already know how if they can turn on the stove.

By the time they hit their teens it's too late. My mom always said, "If you can read, you can follow a recipe." Started with the fun stuff when I was six- cookies & cakes, by the time I was eight I could make my own meals.

38 posted on 09/03/2008 7:02:44 PM PDT by Squawk 8888 (TSA and DHS are jobs programs for people who are not smart enough to flip burgers)
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To: RikaStrom
So glad to hear that............

;-)

39 posted on 09/04/2008 9:02:29 AM PDT by SeaDragon
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