“...two dads...” The fact is that Moms are hard wired to give nurture and tender loving care that Dads are simply not able to match. Many children don’t have both Mom and Dad, but clearly they yearn for and develop better with both, not withstanding some exceptions to the rule, of which I’m sure to hear about now!.
My sis, the social worker, is a lifelong bleeding heart liberal. Yet, much to my surprise (and satisfaction), she is dead set against gay adoption.
Even she recognizes that children need a mother and a father. Not two daddies or two mommies.