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S.D. gay activists join call for nationwide boycott (Day without A Gay)
San Diego Union ^ | December 9, 2008 | John Wilkens

Posted on 12/09/2008 11:22:35 AM PST by radar101

Gay rights activists in San Diego and elsewhere, hoping to sustain a grass-roots protest movement launched after the Nov. 4 passage of Proposition 8, have planned a nationwide boycott tomorrow. The event, called Day Without a Gay, encourages gays, lesbians and their supporters to take off work, refrain from shopping and spend the day volunteering somewhere.

“We're hoping to provide a visual representation of who we are,” said Sara Beth Brooks, an El Cajon bookkeeper who recently formed a group called the San Diego Equality Campaign. “We're your neighbors, your family, your friends. We're everybody. We hope this kind of economic stand will prove a point.”

Organizers said they don't know how many people will participate, but several local employers said they aren't expecting many absences. More than 143,000 people across the country had RSVP'd through Facebook yesterday afternoon. An additional 84,000 listed themselves as “maybe.”

The boycott follows recent street marches in cities across the country, the online “outing” of contributors to the Yes on 8 campaign, and boycotts of individual businesses run by Yes on 8 donors.

“This used to be a pretty complacent civil rights movement,” said Fred Karger, founder of Californians Against Hate. “Not any more.”

San Diego has been a hotbed, with 20,000 people marching in a protest here Nov. 15, and two local firms, the Manchester hotels and A-1 Self-Storage, being targeted by Karger's group for boycotts.

Frank Schubert, campaign manager for Protect Marriage-Yes on 8, said, “I don't think anybody has any difficulty with legitimate protest or freedom of expression. Our objection is when protests cross the line into persecution. People on our side of the issue have been blacklisted, boycotted, harassed. That's wrong.”

He said Day Without A Gay is “really irrelevant to Proposition 8. Our campaign was never about attacking gays or disparaging their contributions to society. It was simply about marriage and how it should be defined.”

Among gay rights activists, some of the emphasis seems to be shifting from confrontation to conversation. Organizers of a Dec. 20 candlelight vigil at six local shopping centers are asking participants not to bring protest signs or chant.

The San Diego Equality Campaign, formed after the election, is creating a speakers bureau and has begun sending volunteers to address public meetings in communities where Proposition 8 passed handily.

Day Without a Gay was originally planned as just an economic boycott, “to remind people that even though we get up every morning and do our jobs, pay our taxes, defend the country in the military, we are still being treated like second-class citizens,” said David Craig, a Los Angeles film producer and co-organizer.

But then Sean Hetherington and Aaron Hartzler, a couple in Los Angeles, suggested adding community service to the mix. “We just thought a boycott was a little divisive, especially with the economy the way it is,” Hetherington said.

In San Diego, Ophira Bergman said she'll be staying home from her job with a video-technology company, and she's canceling the karate class she teaches at UC San Diego. She'll be volunteering instead at the Epilepsy Foundation of San Diego County's annual Gingerbread City fundraiser.

“It's important to me to shed light on gay people and the inequality we face from not having marriages that are legally recognized,” Bergman said. “I don't think people get it.”

Day Without a Gay is patterned after the Day Without An Immigrant protest in May 2006, which featured large marches in several major American cities, including San Diego. Numerous businesses, especially restaurants, were affected, with some forced to shut down for the day.

No major marches are planned for tomorrow. “We've already had marches,” Craig said. “We wanted to do something different.”

Craig admitted it will be difficult to gauge the day's impact. Some boycott supporters are planning to work because they can't get the time off, aren't comfortable “calling in gay,” or have employers who already back equal rights for gays.

Representatives of several large San Diego-area workplaces said that they don't expect a lot of absences, but that anyone taking the day off would need to use personal time and clear it with a supervisor first.

The 800-member Greater San Diego Business Association, also known as the gay and lesbian chamber of commerce, has taken no official position on the boycott.

Joyce Marieb, chief executive officer, said she supports people doing what they believe is right, but also suggested the gay and lesbian community could “leverage our economic power” by supporting companies that “support equal rights for their employees and all marginalized groups.”


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Government; News/Current Events; Politics/Elections
KEYWORDS: 2percent; blacklist; boycott; culturewar; daywithoutagay; hollywoodpinklist; homosexualagenda; lavendermafia; samesexmarriage
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1 posted on 12/09/2008 11:22:35 AM PST by radar101
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To: radar101

What’s a day without a gay, sad?


2 posted on 12/09/2008 11:24:29 AM PST by Revolting cat! (Everytime they open their mouth they shoot themselves in the foot.)
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To: radar101
We're your neighbors, your family, your friends.

Don't know, nope and No Way.

3 posted on 12/09/2008 11:24:41 AM PST by TLI ( ITINERIS IMPENDEO VALHALLA)
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To: radar101

Day Without a Gay, encourages gays, lesbians and their supporters to take off work, refrain from shopping and spend the day volunteering somewhere.....

How about a lifetime without a gay?....


4 posted on 12/09/2008 11:25:07 AM PST by AngelesCrestHighway
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To: radar101

The absurdity of calling pderasty gaiety comes to fore!


5 posted on 12/09/2008 11:25:11 AM PST by Revolting cat! (Everytime they open their mouth they shoot themselves in the foot.)
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To: radar101

Mexicans did this too.

We got through it fine.

NEXT!


6 posted on 12/09/2008 11:26:00 AM PST by JenB987
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To: radar101

A day without fudge pushers!


7 posted on 12/09/2008 11:26:36 AM PST by Revolting cat! (Everytime they open their mouth they shoot themselves in the foot.)
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To: Revolting cat!

In a time of history when a GUY with a job is fortunate and lucky...they are stupid for calling on this campaign. Maybe during a season when there were an excess of jobs. If I had to fire someone, I think I know which one I would pick. Wonder if Sen. Craig will be calling to his office he won´t be coming to work.


8 posted on 12/09/2008 11:26:43 AM PST by rovenstinez (,)
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To: radar101

There is no San Diego Union. It’s the Union Tribune.


9 posted on 12/09/2008 11:27:07 AM PST by Misterioso ( "Socialism is an ideology. Capitalism is a natural phenomenon.")
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To: Revolting cat!
What’s a day without a gay, sad?

A day without a gay will be like a trip down memory lane for me. I am old enough to remember when sexual behavior was a private matter.

10 posted on 12/09/2008 11:27:24 AM PST by Zevonismymuse
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To: AngelesCrestHighway

“How about a lifetime without a gay?....”

That’ll work for me!


11 posted on 12/09/2008 11:27:59 AM PST by Howie66 (To the RAT Party: How can I question your patriotism? You have none, so what's your point?)
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To: radar101

.....and nothing of value was lost.


12 posted on 12/09/2008 11:28:14 AM PST by RushIsMyTeddyBear
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To: radar101

Don’t stop at a day. Why squander an opportunity?


13 posted on 12/09/2008 11:28:29 AM PST by P8riot (I carry a gun because I can't carry a cop.)
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To: radar101

Maybe it’s time to short interior decorating stocks and specialty mutual funds!


14 posted on 12/09/2008 11:28:36 AM PST by Revolting cat! (Everytime they open their mouth they shoot themselves in the foot.)
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To: radar101

Every day should be a day without a gay.


15 posted on 12/09/2008 11:29:15 AM PST by kidd (Obama: The triumph of hope over evidence)
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To: radar101

Hmmmmmmmmm, so whoever doesn’t show up for work tomorrow is either gay or a lesbian, interesting, pay attention people!


16 posted on 12/09/2008 11:29:42 AM PST by rockabyebaby (Say what you feel, those who matter don't mind, those who mind don't matter.)
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To: radar101
refrain from shopping

Time to do the Christmas Shopping

17 posted on 12/09/2008 11:30:20 AM PST by SFR
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To: radar101

How about a WEEK without a Gay?
How about a MONTH without a Gay?
How about a YEAR without a Gay?
How about a DECADE without a Gay?
How about a CENTURY without a Gay?...............


18 posted on 12/09/2008 11:31:16 AM PST by Red Badger (Never has a man risen so far, so fast and is expected to do so much, for so many, with so little...)
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To: radar101

You will be terminated for cause!


19 posted on 12/09/2008 11:31:22 AM PST by devistate one four (H I V Homophobia Is Vindicated)
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To: radar101

Don’t make them angry. They’ll redecorate.


20 posted on 12/09/2008 11:31:39 AM PST by RushIsMyTeddyBear
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To: radar101

Day without a gay?.....sounds like a day of vacation without a gay.


21 posted on 12/09/2008 11:32:17 AM PST by AngelesCrestHighway
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To: Zevonismymuse; Revolting cat!
What’s a day without a gay, sad?

SAD: A gay man with hemorrhoids...........

22 posted on 12/09/2008 11:32:37 AM PST by Red Badger (Never has a man risen so far, so fast and is expected to do so much, for so many, with so little...)
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To: radar101

Sounds like an opportunity to make a list.


23 posted on 12/09/2008 11:34:40 AM PST by MeanWestTexan (Beware Obama's Reichstag fire.)
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To: radar101

Does that mean that President Elect will not show up at the Office of President Elect?


24 posted on 12/09/2008 11:36:13 AM PST by Revolting cat! (Everytime they open their mouth they shoot themselves in the foot.)
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To: radar101; wagglebee; little jeremiah

Why just a day?

How about 4 years and 22 days or double that amount of time!

Really punish us with a decade without obnoxious gay thugs.


25 posted on 12/09/2008 11:36:13 AM PST by Grampa Dave (Felipe de Jesus CALDERON Hinojosa & Schwarzenegger for US el presidente 2112!)
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To: radar101

Atlas pouts?


26 posted on 12/09/2008 11:36:25 AM PST by papertyger
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To: radar101

Only one day? Heck, lets make it one week for starters and then we can go from there.


27 posted on 12/09/2008 11:36:41 AM PST by bella1 (Remember; it took four years of Carter to give us eight years of Reagan.)
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To: Revolting cat!

And carpet munchers.


28 posted on 12/09/2008 11:37:19 AM PST by fredhead (A good day is one where you wake up without dirt in your face.)
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To: radar101

We’ll be fully staffed here, but our local Starbucks will be hurtin’


29 posted on 12/09/2008 11:37:25 AM PST by Hoodlum91 (There's a strange odor coming from the White House. Smells like BO.)
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To: radar101

Yikes. If they actually carry this out my office would be significantly less fabulous.


30 posted on 12/09/2008 11:38:14 AM PST by opus86
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To: radar101
“This used to be a pretty complacent civil rights movement,” said Fred Karger, founder of Californians Against Hate. “Not any more.”

"If there is one thing up with which we will not put, it is intolerance!"

31 posted on 12/09/2008 11:38:55 AM PST by Ignatz (Too late; it's Obacalypse NOW!)
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To: radar101

“I don’t think people get it.”
Oh, I get it all right. The sodomite movement is about attacking Christianity, sodomizing and brainwashing children,and destroying freedom and civilized order.


32 posted on 12/09/2008 11:39:45 AM PST by liberalism is suicide (Communism,fascism-no matter how you slice socialism, its still baloney)
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To: SFR
Is it *this* Wednesday that they will protest?

If so, then I will make my most costly Christmas purchases on that day.

33 posted on 12/09/2008 11:40:11 AM PST by lormand
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To: radar101

Whatever.

Do whatever you want to do, just don’t stick your grotesque sickness in my face by groping each other in public or parading down my street.

Close your @#*$ doors and practice your perversions in private, and we’ll all get along.


34 posted on 12/09/2008 11:41:14 AM PST by reagan_fanatic (I'll give Obama the same amount of respect the left gave Bush)
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To: radar101
“It's important to me to shed light on gay people and the inequality we face from not having marriages that are legally recognized,” Bergman said. “I don't think people get it.”

These activists have passed the point of insanity. There's no logical thinking there at all.

35 posted on 12/09/2008 11:41:44 AM PST by Tired of Taxes (Dad, I will always think of you.)
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To: radar101

D D D

Day devoid of Deviancy!


36 posted on 12/09/2008 11:42:05 AM PST by editor-surveyor (Obama - not just an empty suit - - A Suit Bomb invading the White House)
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To: radar101

364 more to go!


37 posted on 12/09/2008 11:43:02 AM PST by enduserindy (I hope he proves us wrong. Really, I do.)
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To: radar101

I shall buy presents tomorrow.


38 posted on 12/09/2008 11:43:26 AM PST by SumProVita (Cogito, ergo...Sum Pro Vita. (Modified DeCartes))
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To: radar101

why stop there? a year without a queer!


39 posted on 12/09/2008 11:43:47 AM PST by CzarNicky (The problem with bad ideas is that they seemed like good ideas at the time.)
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To: Revolting cat!
“We're hoping to provide a visual representation of who we are,”

Ugh! Please don't.

40 posted on 12/09/2008 11:43:47 AM PST by editor-surveyor (Obama - not just an empty suit - - A Suit Bomb invading the White House)
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To: radar101

Well... how ‘fierce’. You won’t be able to contact your interior decorator or top chef. Bravo!


41 posted on 12/09/2008 11:46:05 AM PST by BigFinn (isa 32:8 But the liberal deviseth liberal things; and by liberal things shall he stand.)
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To: radar101

“Sara Beth Brooks, an El Cajon bookkeeper”

I lived in El Cajon near the old Buck knife factory. A `Richard Simmons’-type would have had his a$$ kicked several times a day in El Cajon.


42 posted on 12/09/2008 11:49:50 AM PST by tumblindice ("Leave Barack alone!" Scores of FR noobs & boobs)
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To: radar101
Gee why not send a REAL strong message ... how about a gay free decade.

OHHH PLEASE don't take a quee ... ummm "gay" day off ... Brer Rabbit

43 posted on 12/09/2008 11:50:16 AM PST by clamper1797 (BHO ... the 'H" stands for hubris)
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To: Red Badger
SAD: A gay man with hemorrhoids...........

TYPICAL: A gay man with hemorrhoids......

44 posted on 12/09/2008 11:51:22 AM PST by Zevonismymuse
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To: radar101
"“We're your neighbors, your family, your friends. We're everybody."

Uh ... no, you're not. I have no homosexual neighbors. None of my family is queer. My friends are heterosexual, fairly normal folks. You are not 'everybody'. The vast majority of folks don't identify themselves and conduct life according to what they do in the bedroom.

"... we are still being treated like second-class citizens ... It's important to me to shed light on gay people and the inequality we face from not having marriages that are legally recognized..."

Let's review reality for a moment. Queers have exactly the same rights to marriage that I have. Everyone is allowed to marry one human of the opposite sex. How is that discriminatory?

Homosexuals want special rights due solely to the fact that they do things with their genitals that are against basic human nature. If it were normal, the species would be extinct in a hurry and that's not the way that nature works.

Society and the courts in the US have provided avenues for homos to pass on their property, make decisions for their 'mate' in hospitals, and many other things. But, as always, you have been given an inch and want a foot. Given a foot, you now want a mile.

45 posted on 12/09/2008 11:51:22 AM PST by JustaDumbBlonde (America: Home of the Free Because of the Brave)
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To: radar101

Does this mean Bahney Fwank isn’t going to show up for work either?


46 posted on 12/09/2008 11:52:54 AM PST by 2CAVTrooper
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To: Zevonismymuse
I am old enough to remember when sexual behavior was a private matter.

Yep, me too. Once again "the love that dare not speak it's name" won't shut the he11 up!

47 posted on 12/09/2008 11:53:16 AM PST by Ignatz (Too late; it's Obacalypse NOW!)
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To: Zevonismymuse

I wouldn’t know...................


48 posted on 12/09/2008 11:53:43 AM PST by Red Badger (Never has a man risen so far, so fast and is expected to do so much, for so many, with so little...)
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To: radar101

Well, that is one day I am definitely NOT going to be sick.

;)


49 posted on 12/09/2008 11:53:52 AM PST by RobRoy (Islam is a greater threat to the world today than Nazism was in the 1930's.)
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To: Ignatz
Once again "the love that dare not speak it's name" won't shut the he11 up!

The only reason anyone knows anything about another person's sex life is because someone chooses to disclose such information. This is but one of the many problems with gay folk's assertion that they are a class of people experiencing discrimination.

50 posted on 12/09/2008 11:58:16 AM PST by Zevonismymuse
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