Look, Dennis has real points here. But what I resent is that he is thinking that all women are like that. SOME are. But there are women out there who would not turn down their man unless the baby was ill or the house was on fire, but the MAN might not be there for her. And Dennis, I assume, is not talking only about 23-yr-old trophy wives (he must be close to 60?).
But it’s always about the neglected HUSBAND. Always.
My wife is 43 and I'm 51 and we have a slew of kids but all in all it's still wonderful even though my water runs a hair warmer than her’s she still has more than her share of go get em.
I have never believed this notion that women get hornier in their late 30s and 40s but I do think they get maybe more comfortable with what they want sexually.
Neither are all men horndogs like some think, with testosterone declining naturally as much as it has in younger fellers it would not surprise me to see more and more more sexually less inclined men.
I don't think a woman is obligated to have sex with her mate either just for duty sake but she has to try to keep him somewhat satisfied just to keep it all going.
Women need a lot more input in sex than men....way more and from a lot of perspectives emotional and physical but it doesn't always have to be rose petals and candles....spontaneity is nice too.....and passion.
If a couple really have passion for each other then hopefully through sex they will reach a point of personal intimacy where folks get as close as two humans can get to one another through coitus primarily. It's sounds goofy but the cliche that really intimate sex between folks who love one another and have a vested life entangled with each other can almost feel as one together....well, it's true.
just my musings as a n old guy...
it's easier for men, especially with ED meds....women have to try to stay thin and pretty and it's hard....folks have to maintain a perspecteive on it.
we all wish our wive’s were like the girl in the James song “laid” but that sorta thing ain't gonna keep on happening forever especially after 2 or more younguns pop out.
i dunno....man, women are just so great sexually but they are not always easy
i really have always lived for that more than anything earthly but now with many children it's sorta taken a back seat to number two with children now first.
in my youth after aged 19 or so....chase girls or make money to chase girls
I think God everyday that he put them here....they can be so incredibly lovely and I got a good one
hope all youngbloods here get lucky..but remember to be good to them
>>But what I resent is that he is thinking that all women are like that.<<
He’s not.
If you are, learn from his words. If not, skip it. It certainly is not a problem my wife has. My first wife could have really learned from it, but she was not really teachable and still isn’t (from what I hear from time to time).