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Why won't they let my son win the egg and spoon race?
Daily Mail (UK) ^ | 16th July 2009 | Ursula Hirschkorn

Posted on 07/15/2009 7:18:31 PM PDT by naturalman1975

Early summer is sports day season and it seems as if we are living at my sons' schools, watching with pride as their little legs pump across the field, their eyes screwed up in concentration as they attempt to keep that pesky egg on the spoon.

But I find myself wondering why they try so hard when their teachers are so determined that there should be no winners, no matter how far a child streaks ahead of his classmates.

Last Friday was my five-year-old son Jacob's first sports day at his primary school, and when he powered over the finish line ahead of all his little classmates, he held his arms aloft and shouted 'I'm the winner', only to be taken aside and gently told by his teacher that there were no winners and it was all just a bit of fun.

His face fell as he felt as if he was being reprimanded for celebrating his success.

This misguided philosophy is meant to make it easier on those children who for ever trail in last, but that's an insult to their intelligence.

My son knew he had won the race, and so did all his friends. Telling him not to enjoy his moment of glory didn't make the slowcoach at the back of the pack feel any better - he was still last and everyone knew it - it just took the joy away from my son and made him wonder why he had pushed so hard to cross the finishing line first.

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His face fell as he felt as if he was being reprimanded for celebrating his success.

He was. That's the point. All too common in all too many schools.

1 posted on 07/15/2009 7:18:31 PM PDT by naturalman1975
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His face fell as he felt as if he was being reprimanded for celebrating his success.

Reprimanded, oui.

Although "punished" for success based upon individual hard work might be closer to correct.

It's the Marxist way.

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2 posted on 07/15/2009 7:24:52 PM PDT by Seaplaner (Never give in. Never give in. Never...except to convictions of honour and good sense. W. Churchill)
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takes the joy out of winning, it doesn't help the loser at all

government is like that

3 posted on 07/15/2009 7:25:01 PM PDT by GeronL (UnitedCitizen.Blogspot.Com --------- United Citizens Nation! ------------- Join Today!)
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No winners no losers no players. I'd refuse to compete.
4 posted on 07/15/2009 7:25:01 PM PDT by guitarplayer1953
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To: naturalman1975

Sounds eerily similar to a socialist economy....the capitalist business owner works his butt off to get the huge order...makes the huge profit...collect the huge payment...and gets taxed out of his shorts so he can pay for the lazy azz not looking to get employed by the thousands of jobs available because it’s beneath them....


5 posted on 07/15/2009 7:26:10 PM PDT by oust the louse (This Country now has a smelly BO problem.....)
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To: naturalman1975

Everyone is equal and everything is free.....But some are more equal than others and everybodies taken all the free stuff.


6 posted on 07/15/2009 7:29:19 PM PDT by Dallas59 ("You know the one with the big ears? He might be yours, but he ain't my president.")
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This senseless attack on the best and brightest must stop!

The best and the brightest keep the world turning. The gifted carry a heavy burden, they make things work! They seek no special status, only that they be left alone to exercise their special gifts to the benefit of all.

It is a sick sort of madness that seeks to put them down. :-(


7 posted on 07/15/2009 7:29:32 PM PDT by Bobalu (I AM JIM THOMPSON)
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To: naturalman1975
I saw a TV show once that was set in the near future. In this society every child was given a general intelligence test at the age of Thirteen. It centered around a young boy who loved science and to read.
Come test day his parents took him to the government center for the test and he was given a drug that would not allow him to lie. Some time later his parents received a call saying he had passed the test...And where to claim his body.
8 posted on 07/15/2009 7:30:53 PM PDT by BigCinBigD ('When a man believes that any stick will do, he at once picks up a boomerang,')
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Yes, he was punished for his success.
The argument is that we don’t want the others to feel bad.

Well, growing up, I played 2nd string right field in our city’s park board sponsored little league. I was not very good-I knew it then and I certainly know it now. I played as much as I did because my mom had a Ramble Station wagon and could haul all of us around. When our team did well and when one player did a fantastic job I was excited as everyone else. My self esteem was not diminished when the team did well or one player was cheered to good pitching and so forth.
I think by recognizing someone who does well does not demean others who do less well. I don’t think kids believe it either. This is coming from the educational establishment.


9 posted on 07/15/2009 7:31:41 PM PDT by Maine Mariner
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To: naturalman1975

This is what happens when you let psychologists take over the teaching profession.


10 posted on 07/15/2009 7:32:24 PM PDT by Seruzawa (Obamalama lied, the republic died.)
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To: naturalman1975
I feel that way on April 15.
11 posted on 07/15/2009 7:32:34 PM PDT by KarlInOhio (As a child Obama was rejected from Little League because of lack of a birth certificate.)
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the author shouldn’t bother complaining..the time to save her country is long past, the UK is already lost, and we are close on their heels.. we’ve got to deal with the same stuff over here, which is why every parent should pull their child out of public school and either homeschool or send them to private school. I am not a poor single mother, but I sacrifice rather than send my daughter to public school. If we all did that, someone might get the message.


12 posted on 07/15/2009 7:32:36 PM PDT by Awestruck (Now if we can only get the rest of the "republican" leaders to stand up to the liberals.)
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This is a perfect example of the liberal teachers’ union pussifying our kids. If this was done back in the 30’s and during the Depression, what results would have come from that? Our citizens on the morning of December 7th, saying ‘well, we must have made the Japanese mad and we should just apologize for whatever we did or didn't do. World War II would have ended before it actually started, there would be NO Jewish people left on the face of the Earth and we would all be united in being good little Nazis.
13 posted on 07/15/2009 7:32:57 PM PDT by antiunion person (PALIN/JINDAL 2012)
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"His face fell as he felt as if he was being reprimanded for celebrating his success.

He was. That's the point. All too common in all too many schools.

All too common in our world.

We're supposed to be ashamed of being from the best country.

The underdog is to be considered the true champion.

Losers are in, because they're losers at the expense of the winners--which everyone knows means the United States generally and true Americans specifically.

Just look at the people and nations our president is buddying up to. He's bought in completely to "the evil imperialist America is responsible for every problem in the world" baloney.

That's what the worldwide Socialist brainwashing has brought us.

Loathing of success and individual achievement.

We're expected to accept being cogs in the wheel of mediocrity under the leadership of clueless megalomaniacs like Obortion .

14 posted on 07/15/2009 7:33:07 PM PDT by TheClintons-STILLAnti-American (E)
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Using classical libtard techniques, the mom should express her sadness that every employee of the school is too stupid to be able to understand or define the word race.

She should find opportunity to drone on and on about it at, say a local town council meeting and then post the same on YouTube. Mentioning teachers by name would help.

She should then have her child go tell all the school kids where to find it, and get all of them joking about it and making fun of the principal and teachers in class often.


15 posted on 07/15/2009 7:34:32 PM PDT by MrEdd (Heck? Geewhiz Cripes, thats the place where people who don't believe in Gosh think they aint going.)
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Wait until he earns a very high income. They’ll cut him down to size.

Submit to the collective.


16 posted on 07/15/2009 7:36:10 PM PDT by listenhillary (90% of our problems could be resolved with a government 10% of the size it is now.)
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To: guitarplayer1953

What was that line in Patton “No winners, no loser, only the dead and the worse then dead”.....


17 posted on 07/15/2009 7:37:32 PM PDT by tophat9000 (Obama plans to fix America like he fixed his dog)
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To: naturalman1975

Open up the post from the source and look at the first picture. The poor kid looks like he’s in special ed, actually reminds me of Prince Charles or whoever that Brit clown is.

It’s like the time when my little brother was playing little league ball back in the ‘70s in CT. The umpire was so f’in stupid he put his shin guards on upside down. Couldn’t call a strike if it was right down the middle, always balls. Libtard.


18 posted on 07/15/2009 7:40:48 PM PDT by Eagles2003
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To: naturalman1975

When my son was on the football team in high school, even if they scored and turned the game over in the last minute of play, they would get a penalty if they showed enthusiasm. It was called excessive celebrating. Nauseating.


19 posted on 07/15/2009 7:40:53 PM PDT by originalbuckeye
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I would have told my kid that he won and to ignore those other losers, including the teacher.


20 posted on 07/15/2009 7:42:21 PM PDT by Enterprise (When they come for your guns and ammo, give them the ammo first.)
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