"...How they want to live and then [helping] them get there" is code for the same old '60's canard, "if it feels good, do it." Reading any other meaning into this is willful blindness.
I knew a friend who suffered from same-sex attraction (though he said he’d always been celebate) in college go to a “Christian” psychologist seeking help for his dilemma. The psychologist offered to fix him up with a “gay” colleague of his. That was the end of the sessions.
Please read his website before you make this conclusion.
Here it is :