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Parents spy on kids to know their sexual preferences
PTI ^ | 7 September 2009, 05:21pm IST | PTI

Posted on 09/07/2009 12:33:38 PM PDT by OldSpice

After the judgement of the Delhi High Court legalising gay sex, a number of parents have approached private detective agencies to spy on the sexual preferences of their children.

The trend, which was going on covertly for past many years, has seen a significant increase especially after the court verdict, detective agencies say.

"We have been approached by parents to help them in finding their children's sexual orientation. Our detectives spy on them to find out whether their wards are homosexuals or lesbians," said Sanjay Singh, Chief Executive Officer of Indian Detective Agency.

Parents are even taking the help of sleuths to spy on school going children, he said.

Singh said it has become one of the most important features of premarital information as parents want to know the sexual choice of their would be son-in-law or daughter-in-law.

He said detective agencies are providing special training to sleuths to carry out such operations and charge any amount from Rs 20,000 to Rs 80,000 depending on the case.

"There are chances of a boy or girl developing attraction towards a person of the same sex. But as far as the spying on children is concerned, I would say that it should be done in strict confidence," said Punita Sharma, a working parent.

Vindhyachal Pandey, a senior manager with a private firm, said, "There is no problem if parents carry out such checks with the help of detectives to clear their doubts."

When asked, Hemant K Batra, an advocate, said "Finding out children's sexual inclination is alright so long it does not intrude into their privacy."


TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: gay; homosexualagenda; india; promiscuity; riskybehavior; spy; teens

1 posted on 09/07/2009 12:33:39 PM PDT by OldSpice
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To: OldSpice

Good Lord. How can these parents be this disconnected from their kids.

It’s a brave new world.


2 posted on 09/07/2009 12:36:25 PM PDT by EggsAckley (There's an Ethiopian in the fuel supply. W.C. Fields)
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To: OldSpice
> a number of parents have approached private detective agencies to spy on the sexual preferences of their children

If your son has a
Lady Gaga poster up,
he just might be gay...

3 posted on 09/07/2009 12:36:33 PM PDT by theFIRMbss
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To: OldSpice

If you want to know what your kids are up to, check out their myspace/facebook and their “friends”.


4 posted on 09/07/2009 12:37:47 PM PDT by Rebelbase
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To: OldSpice

What real ‘parent’ can’t notice this stuff during the formative years of thier child? When a boy is in Jr. High, and the hormones kick in; it does not require a great deal of sluething or subtle observation to tell which gender he is attracted to.

Here’s a hint: If there is a game going on, and at half-time there are hot cheerleaders doing their routine, but he doesn’t notice because he’s staring at the players backsides - that should provide you a clue.


5 posted on 09/07/2009 12:38:06 PM PDT by Hodar (Who needs laws .... when this "feels" so right?)
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To: OldSpice
Our detectives spy on them to find out whether their wards are homosexuals or lesbians

I'm confused, I thought lesbians were homosexuals. Did I miss another bulletin on the current norms of labeling deviant behavior?

And while it may sound creepy, how much different than wanting to know if you kid is a drug user? Risky behavior is still risky, regardless.

6 posted on 09/07/2009 12:40:50 PM PDT by doorgunner69
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To: OldSpice
Jim Foxworthy: You might know your kid is a Queer if.....
7 posted on 09/07/2009 12:45:36 PM PDT by TRY ONE (NUKE the unborn gay whales!)
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To: OldSpice

This being India, where severe hang-up about all forms of sexuality are common, and they even have more *kinds* of sexuality than we do here, such as enormous numbers of transvestites, and large numbers of eunuchs. They are also pestered by the dowry, and its related horror, bride burning, and in some places Sati (suttee)—widow burning.

Female infanticide is very common, especially with the introduction of ultrasound. And things are probably much worse in the Muslim and communist parts of India.

Their society freaks out with adults kissing in public, much less displays of nudity, is rife with illegal pornography, but permits no nudity in movies, etc.

I can hardly guess what would happen if parents believed their child was a homosexual. But I bet it wouldn’t be good.


8 posted on 09/07/2009 12:47:29 PM PDT by yefragetuwrabrumuy
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To: OldSpice

A bad sign in this country would be if they never had a date. In India, I think it would be harder to tell, but with arranged marriages it might not be until the wedding night that all is revealed.


9 posted on 09/07/2009 12:50:43 PM PDT by dog breath
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To: OldSpice
If it comes to that consider you self a washout as a parent.
10 posted on 09/07/2009 12:52:02 PM PDT by org.whodat (Vote: Chuck De Vore in 2012.)
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To: OldSpice
Ex said "I think she's gay" I said "I think she's grounded until she's 30." It worked out ok.

/johnny

11 posted on 09/07/2009 12:57:37 PM PDT by JRandomFreeper (God Bless us all, each, and every one.)
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To: theFIRMbss
Yeah it's all innocent fun until reality intrudes:


12 posted on 09/07/2009 1:15:02 PM PDT by OpeEdMunkey (Eat right,...exercise...die anyway.)
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To: doorgunner69
I think it has to do with the fact that when most people say that gays disgust them they’re talking about men. Two women is quite okay with most. Two dudes - sick.
13 posted on 09/07/2009 1:45:54 PM PDT by youngidiot (Shut up)
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To: OldSpice
to find out whether their wards are homosexuals or lesbians,

That's THE choice? either/or? India's population level in precipitous decline?

14 posted on 09/07/2009 1:46:56 PM PDT by arthurus ("If you don't believe in shooting abortionists, don't shoot an abortionist." -Ann C.)
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To: youngidiot
Well, you have a point, assuming both chicks are smokin' hot.

Unfortunately, most look like Rosie O'Donnell or Helen Thomas, hence deviant..............

15 posted on 09/07/2009 2:07:21 PM PDT by doorgunner69
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To: doorgunner69
Unless it's on tee-vee, most lesbos look like Ernest Borgnine. I guess it's God's cruel joke.
16 posted on 09/07/2009 2:17:10 PM PDT by youngidiot (Shut up)
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To: Rebelbase
'If you want to know what your kids are up to, check out their myspace/facebook and their “friends”.'

We 'befriend' them on the aforementioned sites. (and isn't *that* fun..).
It's amusing to note that despite the clever/cool/hip monikers they attempt to create and become online, they are stll the same little twits I know and love. (ha) Nothing new there.

And I have always made it known to the kids that at_any_given_time, sans notice, I will rummage through their dresser/desk drawers, under/around beds, in closets, backpacks etc. on a regular basis.


17 posted on 09/07/2009 2:56:45 PM PDT by Sweet_Sunflower29 (Pug- Multum in parvo (Latin for 'much in little') And it's true.)
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