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Five Ways to Talk to the Left about Same-Sex Marriage (and to the Right, esp. Rush Limbaugh)
InsideCatholic ^ | July 29, 2010 | Eric Pavlat

Posted on 07/31/2010 8:07:55 AM PDT by Mrs. Don-o

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To: Southack

So you agree with polygamy?


21 posted on 07/31/2010 10:28:05 AM PDT by BenKenobi (We cannot do everything at once, but we can do something at once. -Silent Cal)
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To: longtermmemmory
Marriage is based on propagating society.

To the best of my recollection of 6th grade biology, marriage isn't required to propagate the species. All it takes is, well, you know. Marriage serves only to extract money out of the donating male after the biological act has been completed and his presence is no longer desired by the female.

22 posted on 07/31/2010 10:29:44 AM PDT by meyer (Big government is the enemy of freedom.)
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To: ROCKLOBSTER

check an old dictionary for the meaning
of both words and you find that the words
gay marriage = carefree-happy male-female relationship
so in actuality what is that they really really want?


23 posted on 07/31/2010 10:32:46 AM PDT by This I Wonder32460
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To: ROCKLOBSTER

check an old dictionary for the meaning
of both words and you find that the words
gay marriage = carefree-happy male-female relationship
so in actuality what is that they really really want?


24 posted on 07/31/2010 10:32:46 AM PDT by This I Wonder32460
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To: Mrs. Don-o
I am surprised when people of great faith do not seem to really believe in the existence and influence of evil. The evil ones can never be persuaded, they can never be trusted, they can not be bargained with, they are not satisfied with anything less than the complete destruction of all that is good. Other than that good luck .
25 posted on 07/31/2010 10:40:17 AM PDT by kbennkc (For those who have fought for it freedom has a flavor the protected will never know .F Trp 8th Cav)
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To: metalcor
what if the government just butts out

Right on. People who want government to impose their will, can not be conservatives.

Dutch tried to tell them .

http://www.marginalrevolution.com/marginalrevolution/2004/06/ronald_reagan_t.html

26 posted on 07/31/2010 10:51:36 AM PDT by kbennkc (For those who have fought for it freedom has a flavor the protected will never know .F Trp 8th Cav)
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To: longtermmemmory
without marriage there is no intestate inheritance. without marriage there is no widow’s/widower’s share inheritance. (the percentage of inheritance that can not be forbidden a spouce via a will. The guaranteed inheritance to the spouse absent an upheld pre/post nup) without marriage and intestate inheritance there is no property rights

They are going to lose their souls, they might as well lose their money to the state.

You silly fornicating sinners, the state is just trying to save you./sarc

27 posted on 07/31/2010 10:56:22 AM PDT by kbennkc (For those who have fought for it freedom has a flavor the protected will never know .F Trp 8th Cav)
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To: meyer

you are confusing divorce law with marriage.

two different things entirely.


28 posted on 07/31/2010 11:25:40 AM PDT by longtermmemmory (VOTE! http://www.senate.gov and http://www.house.gov)
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To: longtermmemmory

I think the free market has shown very little regard for the legalities or ethics of marriage. It’s become a tax dodge for the most part. Government should allow people to freely enter into contracts and provide no incentive or penalty for their choices.


29 posted on 07/31/2010 11:49:03 AM PDT by metalcor
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To: Southack
At one time fairly recently I was willing to agree that it would be better to have no civil marriage at all. Now I am reconsidering (cautiously) because --- think this through with me --- even if there were no civil marriage, and even (imagine this) if there were no questionof religious marriage either, there would still be the objective relation known as "natural marriage" the union of a woman and a man intending to form a family. (Hmm. Maybe that's what wthey call Common Law marriage?)

Anyway, the state should not presume to redefine marriage, and is not perhaps required to privilege it in any way (favorable tax policy or whatever) but it ought to recognize and reasonably accommodate marriage, not a Sacrament but as the natural first cell of every human society.

Exactly what form this recognition and accommodation should take, I do not know. As I said, it need not amount to a list of legal cut-outs and perks. But to not recognize and accommodate natural marriage in some way, would seem to undermine the natural parent-child relationship, esecially the father-child relationship.

WHich is already screwed-up legally, but I wouldn't want it to be moreso.

Your thoughts?

30 posted on 07/31/2010 1:02:27 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o ("You can observe a lot just by watchin' " . --- Yogi Berra)
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To: kbennkc
It is not true that "evil ones" (I presume you mean human, and not demonic) cannot be persuaded. All of us are evil to some extent, inasmuch as we are all sinners, and yet we persuade and are persuaded, for good or ill.

It is part of or fallen human nature that we have imperfect wills, and rarely will anothing absolutely whole-heartedly and irrevocably, either good or evil. We weigh, we dither, we chug and sputter against the tide or drift along with it, we go back and forth on things. Some of us try to know, love, and serve God absolutely whole-heartedly, but you know as well as I do that that we fall short every day.

So yes, we try to persuade to the good. It's that, or abandon the whole field to the enemy.

31 posted on 07/31/2010 1:11:39 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o ("My subject is the action of grace in territory largely held by the devil." - Flannery O'Connor)
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To: BenKenobi
"So you agree with polygamy?"

I disagree with lots of religions, but I don't want government picking which religious ceremonies (like marriage or baptism) to do for me or anyone else.

Marriage is religious. Government is banned by the Constitution from interfering in it.

32 posted on 07/31/2010 1:44:41 PM PDT by Southack (Media Bias means that Castro won't be punished for Cuban war crimes against Black Angolans in Africa)
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To: Mrs. Don-o
", the state should not presume to redefine marriage, and is not perhaps required to privilege it in any way (favorable tax policy or whatever) but it ought to recognize and reasonably accommodate marriage"

No. The government shouldn't be defining baptisms, bar mitzvahs, or marriages. The government shouldn't recognize them.

Religion is off limits to government interference. Get the government out of marriage.

33 posted on 07/31/2010 1:46:59 PM PDT by Southack (Media Bias means that Castro won't be punished for Cuban war crimes against Black Angolans in Africa)
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To: dixiechick2000; ejdrapes; fishtank; rockabyebaby; MrCFdovnh; 09Patriot; dynachrome; SpaceBar; ...
Ping-aling!

If I pinged you twice, I truly apologize. I'm at a different computer and I don't know what I'm doing. =:o/

34 posted on 07/31/2010 2:19:08 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (Point of clarification.)
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To: Southack
Natural marriage exists as a social unit independent of religion. (I'm bolding that because I evidently didn't give it enough prominence the first time.)

Furthermore it is a significant unit at least inasmuch as it defines a link between a father and his recognized child, who has a right to derive his identity and support from his presumptive father.

35 posted on 07/31/2010 2:28:48 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (Point of clarification.)
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To: Mrs. Don-o

No, marriage doesn’t exist outside of religion naturally...only where government has intruded.

Get government out of religion (i.e. marriage).


36 posted on 07/31/2010 2:29:52 PM PDT by Southack (Media Bias means that Castro won't be punished for Cuban war crimes against Black Angolans in Africa)
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To: Mrs. Don-o
"Furthermore it is a significant unit at least inasmuch as it defines a link between a father and his recognized child, who has a right to derive his identity and support from his presumptive father."

Welcome to marxist thought. Everyone has their price. Your price is that you want the government to enforce child support. To get that, you're willing to tolerate government interfering (by recognizing religious ceremonies like marriage) in religion.

Lennin was looking for people who would sell out.

Sigh...

37 posted on 07/31/2010 2:32:30 PM PDT by Southack (Media Bias means that Castro won't be punished for Cuban war crimes against Black Angolans in Africa)
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To: Southack
Marriage certainly exists outside of religion. All human societies have some form of marriage, i.e. recognition of reproductive relationships which specify the children of a particular woman to be the presumed offspring of her recognized man. Tribal societies have it. Officially atheist societies have it. No society has ever persisted, that didn't have it.

From a cultural anthropological point of view, the majority of societies historically have recognaized polygamous marriage; a substantial number have recognized monogamous marriage (either lifelong or serial monogamy); a very few recognize polyandrous marriage.

Noted Harvard sociologist Pitirim Sorokin declared in "The American Sex Revolution" that he found virtually no culture which failed to restrict marriage to a man and a woman has survived. Cambridge anthropologist Joseph D. Unwin stated nearly the same thing in "Hopousia, The Sexual and Economic Foundations of a New Society": "In human records, there is no instance of a society retaining its energy after a complete new generation has inherited a tradition which does not insist on pre-nuptial and post-nuptial continence."

No society whatever, primitive or modern, however irreligious or even anti-religious, has taught its children that they may have sexual relations with whomever they want, however they want, starting whenever they want--- nd has survived.

This is not religion. It is a universal law for the workable transmission of life, property, and culture beyond one generation.

38 posted on 07/31/2010 2:50:00 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o ("You can observe a lot just by watchin'." -- Yogi Berra)
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To: Southack
No, I did not speak at all of governrment enforcement. I spoke of social recognition. Most of the societies I referred to in the previous post about anthropology, had no government enforcement of support. But they all had or have some form of social recognition.

You are leaving without comment the evidence that natural marriage exists independent of religion, i.e. independent of the sacraments or ceremonials or binding strictures of a cult, sect, or church.

39 posted on 07/31/2010 3:03:25 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o ("You can observe a lot just by watchin'." -- Yogi Berra)
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To: Mrs. Don-o

As soon as Americans realize they can be paying a “surviving spouse” benefit to a gay man of 20 because his gay “spouse” of 20 died of AIDS, this conversation will end; fiscally conservative but socially liberal people will desert them en masse.


40 posted on 07/31/2010 3:27:59 PM PDT by kearnyirish2
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