Talked to a friend who was posted on a base in Iraq. He said eryone knew who was gay or lesbian, but it was not normally an issue. BUT, some of the lesbian women would really give straight women the eyeball in the showers, making the straight women quite uncomfortable. Heard some even talked about what they saw to some men. Very weird and just wrong. Maybe straight women are less likely to beat the snot out of a creepy woman, than straight guys, so maybe intimidation is more of a problem with women?
What straight men have to realize, is that a lesbian woman who does this sort of thing is not doing them any favors and is definitely not on their side.
They are just trying to stir things up among the straight guys and gals and cause trouble between them by telling the guys what the straight women look like naked.
The straight guys have to tell the lesbians to STFU when they start talking about that sort of stuff, and walk away and not give them an audience.
The straight guys have to realize this: The straight women are their sisters. The lesbians are the enemies of and trying to make trouble for their straight sisters.