A gent told me a while back that he would pull his son out of a CAP cadet program if something like this happened, but I don't know how serious he was. I could see a number of parents find this DADT repeal to be the last straw as far as Young Marines, CAP or Army Guard Explorer programs.
I will not pull her out right away as the Young Marine staff is composed of some of the finest individuals I have ever had a chance to meet personally (not an exaggeration). They clearly are a wonderful influence on her and she has a couple good friends there as well (better quality people than she generally meets at school). But when she gets a little older and it gets closer to “choose a career” time we will have to reevaluate. I hope the CAP and other cadet programs can also continue to impart favorable experiences and good values for now.