Part of the problem is nobody in power wants to discuss the facts.
Very true. I still await the day where in some courtroom a case prompted by those who litigate in support of an argument premised in the assumed status of a "homosexual being" is dismissed with prejudice due to the litigants having no standing in that the assumption of "homosexual being" is not proven nor a historically recognized status.
In essence, homosexual sex participation is open to all and is not some immutable characteristic that identifies a class of individuals...
Sometimes, attraction of one male to another male’s distal GI tract, to young boys, to animals, and siblings, must be suppressed; we can also include the desire to take another’s property, life or whatever else seems attractive. People harbor a myriad of thoughts and attractions that must be suppressed for the stability of society. The “I was born that way” excuse just doesn’t cut it when it comes to perversion, crime, and unhealthy behavior.