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The day my fiance told me he was gay (BARF ALERT)
New York Post ^ | January 9, 2011 | Kiri Blakeley

Posted on 01/08/2011 10:07:36 PM PST by DesertRenegade

One night, in March 2006, I was getting ready for bed when my fiancé and boyfriend of 10 years, Aaron, called me into the living room and said, “Kiri, we need to talk.”

I thought he wanted to apologize for a little tiff we’d had earlier. Aaron was a musician who had booked a gig in upstate New York. I wanted to go, but he’d asked me not to.

Instead, he said he was “confused” about his sexuality. As an episode of “Sex and the City” droned in the background, he burst into tears. My life had changed forever.

We got drunk and talked all night. I would veer from consoling him to being livid. Eventually, I curled into the fetal position on the bed. You can bet he slept on the couch.

In the morning, after he left for work, I searched his computer. He’d been scouring the ads on Craigslist’s “Men for Men” section. I found gay porn.

I called him at work, and he told me he’d long been cheating on me with men.

His betrayal left me more than devastated: It left me another person. I was now someone fearful and angry. I’d burst into spontaneous tears at work. I had panic attacks. I became convinced everyone was lying to me, even about the most benign things. If someone told me they had salmon for lunch, I wouldn’t think they were lying about where they’d been. Instead, I’d suspect they were lying about what they ate — the smaller details.

Two weeks later, Aaron told me he was gay. I think the reality of actually getting married snapped him out of his denial. But I was resentful that he’d allowed it to go so far.

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What always infuriates me is how these homosexuals seem to have no problem totally using some innocent woman and devastating her life - literally wasting a decade of it. I think their lifestyle goes beyond just a mental disorder but into some kind of immoral, sociopathic condition without a conscience. Time and time again you read how some homosexual will brutally murder or chop up another, or they will contract AIDS from thousands of promiscuous contacts. My heart really goes out to this beautiful woman who was clearly taken advantage of by this sick individual. God help us all as these same perverts seek to legally mandate their lifestyle in the military and throughout our society.
1 posted on 01/08/2011 10:07:39 PM PST by DesertRenegade
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To: DesertRenegade

While he was having sex with other men, he was exposing her to all those lovely diseases.

How kind.


2 posted on 01/08/2011 10:09:31 PM PST by Persevero (Homeschooling for Excellence since 1992)
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To: DesertRenegade
I was getting ready for bed when my fiancé and boyfriend of 10 years,

That should have been a hint.

3 posted on 01/08/2011 10:10:51 PM PST by fortheDeclaration (When the wicked beareth rule, the people mourn (Pr.29:2))
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To: DesertRenegade
In the morning, after he left for work, I searched his computer.

If the roles were reversed, she'd be thrown in jail.

4 posted on 01/08/2011 10:11:26 PM PST by krb (Obama is a miserable failure.)
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To: DesertRenegade

“However, I’d met Aaron at 26 after having had only two non-serious lovers. A counselor told me that my lack of prior sexual experience left me with no baseline with which to make a comparison. A more experienced woman may have found Aaron’s lack of desire suspicious.”

Oh, I see, the solution here would have been more fornication.


5 posted on 01/08/2011 10:11:38 PM PST by Persevero (Homeschooling for Excellence since 1992)
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To: DesertRenegade
You can bet he slept on the couch.

LOL!

6 posted on 01/08/2011 10:11:38 PM PST by fortheDeclaration (When the wicked beareth rule, the people mourn (Pr.29:2))
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To: DesertRenegade

Well, homosexuality is a sexual preference.

Someone gets curious.

Someone starts to believe that curiosity is really “them”.

Someone fulfills the curiosity.

Someone believes that this is now their genetically designated “lifestyle”.

WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN?

The guy was looking at gay porn and probably saying, “Why is this turning me on?” Instead of surmising, “Well, maybe because I’m looking at f***ed up porn,” his answer was “I’M GAY!”


7 posted on 01/08/2011 10:12:56 PM PST by struggle ((The struggle continues))
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To: Persevero

Good point. In some jurisdictions I believe there are severe criminal penalties for intentionally engaging in unprotected sex with an unknowing partner if you have AIDS. I don’t know if the adulterous homosexual partner had any STDs, but he didn’t seem to have the least bit of concern for the lady he said he loved.


8 posted on 01/08/2011 10:17:30 PM PST by DesertRenegade
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To: DesertRenegade

Not me. I have no sympathy for boon belt wearers peddling a book.


9 posted on 01/08/2011 10:18:25 PM PST by publana (Time to go Galt.)
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To: fortheDeclaration

>>I was getting ready for bed when my fiancé and boyfriend of 10 years,<<

My favorite quote from any TV series (in this case “Lois and Clark”) was when someone from the future asked Lois “historians want to know something... JUST HOW STUPID ARE YOU??? (glasses on) “I am Clark Kent!” (glasses off) “I am Superman! (glasses on) “I am Clark Kent!” (glasses off) “I am Superman!

If you are with a guy for 10 years and don’t know he is gay, you are dumber than Lois Lane! And if you sleep with someone that long, you are just a slut who probably deserves the result.


10 posted on 01/08/2011 10:18:34 PM PST by freedumb2003 (Nothing sharpens the mind like not being able to get a job. /Nonstatist)
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To: DesertRenegade

She was shacking up with some guy for a decade. There was no betrayal involved because there was no commitment in the first place.


11 posted on 01/08/2011 10:19:20 PM PST by eclecticEel (Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness: 7/4/1776 - 3/21/2010)
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To: DesertRenegade

I kinda sympathize with the author.

My good (or so I thought) Mormon Returned Missionary fiancee decided that he was gay 6 weeks before the temple wedding after meeting my father (also gay) and his boyfriend.

It was devastating, being lied to, being used that way, (disease wasn’t an issue because we were not having sex) but I still felt violated.

I joke that I joined the most conservative ‘church’ I could find, moved 1000 miles and found some one just like dear old dad.

sad thing was, he didn’t tell his parents for years afterward because his mother kept calling me and my mother and asking me to come back to Utah and marry him. Apparently all he said was that *I* broke up with him, he didn’t say why.

And growing up in Palm Springs (high gay pop) your assessment of them is dead on.


12 posted on 01/08/2011 10:30:30 PM PST by reaganaut (Ex Mormon, now Christian - "I once was lost but now am found, was blind but now I see")
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To: DesertRenegade

This idiot is probably the only person to have a life-changing moment from that show.

The woman who married him loved his “metrosexual” manners. “Metros” are just a half-step from being gay, anyway.

She is an unfortunate lady who didn’t appear to marry a godly enough man. What is that household doing watching the tear-inducing, soul-nourishing show, “Sex in the City,” anyway?


13 posted on 01/08/2011 10:34:27 PM PST by ConservativeMind ("Humane" = "Don't pen up pets or eat meat, but allow infanticide, abortion, and euthanasia.")
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To: DesertRenegade; All

Ironically, the very next post on News/Activism after this one is about a 65 year old gay man who has just been murdered by a young model in his 20s, I think in NY.


14 posted on 01/08/2011 10:37:23 PM PST by gleeaikin
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To: DesertRenegade

Placemark for pingout.


15 posted on 01/08/2011 10:46:07 PM PST by little jeremiah (Courage is not simply one of the virtues, but the form of every virtue at the testing point. CSLewis)
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To: publana

What are boon belt wearers?

A belt that gives boons? Or the belt was a gift?


16 posted on 01/08/2011 10:48:23 PM PST by little jeremiah (Courage is not simply one of the virtues, but the form of every virtue at the testing point. CSLewis)
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To: little jeremiah
What are boon belt wearers?

Whatever they are, it doesn't sound good.

LOL.

17 posted on 01/08/2011 11:01:59 PM PST by SIDENET ("If that's your best, your best won't do." -Dee Snider)
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To: DesertRenegade; All

Here is a link to another FR story about a horrible gay murder in New York City.

http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/2653659/posts


18 posted on 01/08/2011 11:10:48 PM PST by gleeaikin
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To: publana

Boob belt. Sorry. I am posting from a phone that thought I really meant boon as boon wasn’t in its dictionary.

She dresses like Sasquatch. I assume her to be a fan.


19 posted on 01/08/2011 11:27:19 PM PST by publana (Time to go Galt.)
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To: publana

Boob! LOL. I’ll get it eventually.


20 posted on 01/08/2011 11:29:14 PM PST by publana (Time to go Galt.)
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To: reaganaut

Ma’am, this quite surprises me that you would consider marrying someone and not really have a clue that they were gay. There are always signs.

Honestly, talk to the guys. And listen to them when they say that so and so is gay.

What I have noticed is that many girls like gay guys because of their traits. This is part of the reason that they wind up in this situation in the first place.


21 posted on 01/08/2011 11:35:02 PM PST by BenKenobi (Rush speaks! I hear, I obey)
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To: freedumb2003
Something tells me there was very little 'sleeping together', that is why her comment that 'he slept on the coach that night' was so funny.

Don't these women wonder when these 'men' don't act like men around them?

22 posted on 01/08/2011 11:50:09 PM PST by fortheDeclaration (When the wicked beareth rule, the people mourn (Pr.29:2))
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To: struggle
Well, homosexuality is a sexual preference.

Someone gets curious.

Someone starts to believe that curiosity is really “them”.

Someone fulfills the curiosity.

Someone believes that this is now their genetically designated “lifestyle”.

WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN?

The guy was looking at gay porn and probably saying, “Why is this turning me on?” Instead of surmising, “Well, maybe because I’m looking at f***ed up porn,” his answer was “I’M GAY!

Wait, what ? I've sadly seen gay porn, it makes me want to vomit. Its pretty damn disgusting to me, I'm not so sure that there is any reason why a person who isn't gay would be turned on by gay porn. I can't imagine anyone who isn't gay not being revolted by gay porn.

That said, the reason why someone is gay, is debatable, but liking gay porn, is probably more of a sign then a cause.

23 posted on 01/08/2011 11:52:57 PM PST by Sonny M ("oderint dum metuant")
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To: struggle
Well, homosexuality is a sexual preference. Someone gets curious. Someone starts to believe that curiosity is really “them”. Someone fulfills the curiosity. Someone believes that this is now their genetically designated “lifestyle”. WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN?

One thing to keep in mind is that your average heterosexual male doesn't get tempted to be "curious" about other men in a sexual way; and your average heterosexual woman is even less likely to be "curious" about other women in a sexual way.

The "curiosity" develops when someone has a shaky gender identity, and there is an imbalance of masculinity/femininity. The little boy who has been treated like a girl by his mother, for example, and who has had minimal contact with a secure father or a father-substitute, is much more likely to develop a sexual interest in men. Just the other day, there was an article about a U.S. figure skater who has officially "come out" (even though nobody was the least bit surprised at his announcement). He said that as a six-year-old, he was watching Pretty Woman and developed a crush on Richard Gere. He said that he wanted to be Julia Roberts so badly, and that he wanted to kiss Richard Gere. It's pretty obvious that he was suffering from an overdeveloped feminine side and an underdeveloped masculine side.

Unfortunately, nowadays it seems that people jump to the erroneous conclusion, "I'm gay!" instead of the reasoned conclusion, "I am struggling with same-sex attractions. What is the reason for this, and what can I do about it?" Having same-sex attractions doesn't define who a person is--rather, it is something a person *has*. Similarly, if I have a broken leg or cancer, that's not who I *am*--it just means that a part of me isn't in full health.

I imagine that the guy in this article has probably had same-sex attractions for some time, but unfortunately he has now embraced them as his identity. That's a shame.

24 posted on 01/09/2011 12:01:37 AM PST by rissole
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To: fortheDeclaration

>>Don’t these women wonder when these ‘men’ don’t act like men around them?<<

I guess they buy that “It’s a European Shoulder Bag” thing.

Women should not buy that crap anymore than men should be cowed into saying/doing that crap.


25 posted on 01/09/2011 12:05:40 AM PST by freedumb2003 (Nothing sharpens the mind like not being able to get a job. /Nonstatist)
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To: struggle

TMI


26 posted on 01/09/2011 12:06:29 AM PST by Gene Eric (Your Hope has been redistributed. Here's your Change.)
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To: DesertRenegade
She's very lucky he told her, and her reaction is understandable. How she can talk with the ex is beyond me. She doesn't need another girlfriend, though the homosexual may want a BFF relationship with her.

She did waste 10 years on him. She has to find out why she wanted to drag it out so long. His less than total availability served her in some way. But then, the whole shack up scene was wrong.

My guess is that she has poor boundaries, and she'd find a healthy male threatening. I wonder what the new guy is like, and if he's really into her, or is he passive in some way.

I saw a show once, maybe Oprah, where the homosexual ex husband came on with his ex wife. They had been married and had kids, and one day he told her he couldn't live a lie, etc. They were “friends,” though it looked like the wife's heart was still ripped out, and as he told his part of the story, the audience was all “Oh, the poor gay; of course he can't live a lie!” IOW, like the expression on The Bachelor, he had to “follow his heart.”

Every person in the studio was emotionally enabling that f’n b@st@rd, as the ex wife did her best to be loving, and unconditionally accepting, which seemed more reminiscent of a mother's ways. She was doing her best in a bad situation, but I hope she learned a lot since then.

Homosexuals do what they feel like and leave a lot of human wreckage, but they want it to be okay with everyone.

27 posted on 01/09/2011 12:09:39 AM PST by Lauren BaRecall (Happy 112th!)
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To: Sonny M

>>That said, the reason why someone is gay, is debatable, but liking gay porn, is probably more of a sign then a cause. <<

Interesting. Mrs. FD doesn’t approve of hetero porn research. I can try to convince her it means I am not gay but somehow I don’t think that will work...


28 posted on 01/09/2011 12:10:17 AM PST by freedumb2003 (Nothing sharpens the mind like not being able to get a job. /Nonstatist)
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To: freedumb2003
Interesting. Mrs. FD doesn’t approve of hetero porn research. I can try to convince her it means I am not gay but somehow I don’t think that will work...

lol, in the interests of full disclosure, I'll admit, I don't really like hetero porn either, but thats just for different reasons.....

I'm not a fan of porn, but I do get disgusted seeing anything that even remotely resembles gay porn.

29 posted on 01/09/2011 12:25:36 AM PST by Sonny M ("oderint dum metuant")
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To: freedumb2003

Agreed! Women are too willing to settle.


30 posted on 01/09/2011 2:05:35 AM PST by fortheDeclaration (When the wicked beareth rule, the people mourn (Pr.29:2))
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To: ConservativeMind
When every I hear women kvetch about men being slobs, sports, boob, food, beer, gun obsessed that don't 'show their true ....feelings....I say there are neat, non sports, hyper hygienic, appearance clued sensitive men who will 'talk all night' about their ....feelings. They're called gays, queers, homos.
31 posted on 01/09/2011 2:34:31 AM PST by Leisler (They always lie, and have for so much and for so long, that they no longer know what about.)
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To: freedumb2003

“If you are with a guy for 10 years and don’t know he is gay, you are dumber than Lois Lane! And if you sleep with someone that long, you are just a slut who probably deserves the result.”

Harsh (but funny).


32 posted on 01/09/2011 3:41:04 AM PST by kearnyirish2
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To: DesertRenegade

She never says if she’s straight. The fact that she wouldn’t marry the guy for 10 years makes me think that there’s also a bit of a Lezbo side to her.


33 posted on 01/09/2011 3:41:29 AM PST by BobL
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To: DesertRenegade

From the post: “As an episode of “Sex and the City” droned in the background” - this tells me all I need to know about her and him!

Mel


34 posted on 01/09/2011 3:42:13 AM PST by melsec
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To: Leisler
"feelings"

I had an ex-girl friend who wanted me to share my feelings with her one time. I said sure, I'm feeling very hungry right now, let's eat. She did not find that amusing. However my real feeling about her was that she was deranged. Which is why she's an ex-girl friend. Any guy who is asked by some female to share his feelings should run as far as possible away from that person. Disaster lies ahead.

35 posted on 01/09/2011 4:05:51 AM PST by driftless2 (For long-term happiness, learn how to play the accordion.)
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To: rissole
he wanted to kiss Richard Gere


Now that's just so wrong on so many levels. I'm sure Richard would have reciprocated.
36 posted on 01/09/2011 4:44:40 AM PST by dagoofyfoot
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To: ConservativeMind

“Metros” are just a half-step from being gay, anyway.

Well, they’re at least wannabe cross dressers.


37 posted on 01/09/2011 4:50:03 AM PST by freedomfiter2 (Brutal acts of commission and yawning acts of omission both strengthen the hand of the devil.)
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To: driftless2

Meh. I don’t mind it. Women are strange. I just know I don’t feel much. I actually have to work at it. For example, I’m at Home Depot. I think to myself, “Isn’t that a nice little chainsaw. Wouldn’t she like it?” So, you see, I do think about their feelings.

Another example. Diamonds. What’s up with that? They look like glass. Some black guy, two miles down sweating his ass off, hoping he doesn’t get buried, it’s buffed up by some weird Jewish guy who won’t eat double thick bacon, sold by a gay guy with a sore ass from the night before. They go crazy over it. Useless, save industrial purposes.


38 posted on 01/09/2011 4:59:51 AM PST by Leisler (They always lie, and have for so much and for so long, that they no longer know what about.)
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To: DesertRenegade

Couldn’t she ‘smell’ the other guy. Yuckkkk!!!!


39 posted on 01/09/2011 5:43:50 AM PST by central_va (I won't be reconstructed, and I do not give a damn.)
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To: DesertRenegade

There is no problem. She will get AIDS and then die. Her problems are over, she just doesn’t realize it yet


40 posted on 01/09/2011 5:51:45 AM PST by bert (K.E. N.P. N.C. D.E. +12 .....( History is a process, not an event ))
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To: publana

Boon belt!

What a great accessory concept for that brand of “confused” metrosexual.

I thought you meant a kind of fur hat but hung from the belt, like a merkin—whip off the old leather pants and you got a raccoon pelt down there! Keep you warm at the public restrooms too!

Like a Celtic fur sporran!


41 posted on 01/09/2011 5:57:08 AM PST by dblup
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To: BenKenobi

Ma’am, this quite surprises me that you would consider marrying someone and not really have a clue that they were gay. There are always signs.

=- - - - —0 -

Then you must not have grown up on a high gay pop area. I grew up surrounded by gays and lesbians (Palm Springs) AND I have pretty good ‘gaydar’ (better than most) but he was a faithful, temple going, Returned Missionary mormon. That isn’t a profile of a ‘gay man’. He wasn’t a bear, but he wasn’t a twinkie either. We never had sex (active Mormon) and wasn’t planning on it. We never discussed homosexuality because that is a taboo subject in Mormonism (moreso than in other cultures).

And to be honest, I don’t think he knew he was gay until he told me.

BTW, my mother was married to my father for 7 years before she found out he was gay and cheating on her.

Gays are masterful liars and both in the 1970’s and before AND in mormonism, it is something to hide and fight and be ashamed of for the most part. Sadly, that has changed.

So don’t judge me too harshly till you have been where I have been.


42 posted on 01/09/2011 6:24:02 AM PST by reaganaut (Ex Mormon, now Christian - "I once was lost but now am found, was blind but now I see")
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To: Leisler; driftless2

Give me a chainsaw over diamonds any day (and yes I’m straight).

Chainsaws are at least useful.


43 posted on 01/09/2011 6:29:08 AM PST by reaganaut (Ex Mormon, now Christian - "I once was lost but now am found, was blind but now I see")
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To: freedumb2003

I’ve wondered since I was first introduced to Super Man as a kid, just how taking his glasses off kept people from recognizing him. My wife would know who I was with or without glasses and Lois and Clark were probably together longer than we have been.


44 posted on 01/09/2011 6:37:41 AM PST by Graybeard58 (Don't tell Obama what comes after a trillion)
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To: rissole

I wonder how many women have homosexual children after they kick “Dear old Crazy Dad” to the curb and marry their boyfriend.


45 posted on 01/09/2011 6:53:49 AM PST by seemoAR
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To: BenKenobi; colorcountry; P-Marlowe; SENTINEL; SZonian; greyfoxx39

There is also something you don’t understand...Mormon culture. At the time, I was Mormon (I have since left, but not because of the gay fiancee).

In Mormonism, young Returned missionaries (age 21) are encouraged to marry as soon as possible and women are condisered ‘old maids’ if they are still single at 21 (then they are encouraged to go on a mission themselves to make them more marriageable).

Also, Mormon dating patterns are different than other cultures. You date someone for a month or two, you pray to know if this is ‘the one’, and if you get a confirmation (burning in the bosom) you get engaged and engagements usually only last about 2 months. I know a lot of LDS who went from meeting their spouse to married in less than 6 months and often less than 4.

We were being cautious. We dated for 6 months and would have been engaged almost 4. In Mormonism, that is a very long time.

I have pinged others who used to be LDS as well who know about this aspect of Mormon culture.


46 posted on 01/09/2011 7:35:19 AM PST by reaganaut (Ex Mormon, now Christian - "I once was lost but now am found, was blind but now I see")
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To: reaganaut

“... fiancee decided that he was gay 6 weeks before the temple wedding...”

Take comfort in the fact you found out before marriage and children. When I was a teen, a neighbor lady thought her husband of 15 years was cheating. Well, he was. It just wasn’t with a woman. He left his wife and two daughters for his new boyfriend. The daughters took it especially hard. One girl was just entering the puberty years and became depressed to the point that she needed to go to a psychiatrist. The youngest daughter completely lost her bubbly personality. Both girls grades dropped dramatically. My granny had a saying... “knowing something before you walk down the aisle and before you walk down the aisle are two different things”. Just a thought.


47 posted on 01/09/2011 7:59:14 AM PST by momtothree
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To: momtothree

Oops, need more coffee. Granny said, “knowing something before you walk down the aisle and AFTER you walk down the aisle are two different things”. Sorry.


48 posted on 01/09/2011 8:04:04 AM PST by momtothree
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To: reaganaut
Wow Reagan, I didn't know that about you. Sorry to hear it.

As far as LDS dating there is a famous Brigham Young quote something like: "Any man not married by the age of 22 is a menace to society."

49 posted on 01/09/2011 8:12:08 AM PST by SENTINEL (Mormonism...from Ezra Taft Benson to Reid and Romney in only one generation.)
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To: DesertRenegade

I guess I don’t understand how one could not tell? IMHO these women must have to over look a lot of obivous signs to be fooled this badly. Perhpas the desire to be married cancels out their abiity to think straight?


50 posted on 01/09/2011 9:45:56 AM PST by chris_bdba
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