This is hard to do. Not impossible, but the Fathers usually resist and say something like ... don't start with that followed by a bit of criticism, such as, you always blame others, or you are a cry baby. etc.
Seldom are they willing to hear what the child now grown up has to say. Same with some Mothers. mothers are usually willing o hear but rarely agree with the feelings the child now grown had. Usually it is a rejection all over again.
Miracles happen. Perhaps his Father will hear him, and apologize for his hard ignorant ways. MOO.
posted on 02/04/2011 9:29:15 AM PST
(The only answer give us to the troubles of this life is Jesus. A decision we all must make.)
Well, if I may speak for jesse....he knows that about parents. But actually if you do YOUR part by acknowledging you were wrong for hating them, judging them, and apologizing, that is all you have to do. You will be free. If they don’t forgive you, or call you a liar, that is their problem. Also, it is surprising that many will apologize back and you can discuss it with them and put it behind you. NOT ALL, NOT ALL, NOT ALL! But many times they will admit it.
posted on 02/05/2011 9:27:17 AM PST
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