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N.J. Teen Seeks Dress Refund to Pay for Boyfriend's Funeral
myfoxny.com ^ | 5-22-11 | DIANA ROCCO

Posted on 05/22/2011 10:27:50 AM PDT by rawhide

MYFOXNY.COM - Sophomore Jackie Genovese, 16, of New Jersey, had the perfect prom dress and date. But tragedy struck last week when her boyfriend of two years was killed in a car accident.

Jackie's boyfriend, James, died on the way home from a baseball team dinner. He was a popular Jackson High School senior only weeks from graduation.

She bought her $1,200 dress at Freehold's Diane and Co., also known for their popular Oxygen show "Dress Coutoure."

She wanted a refund for her dress so she could help pay for her boyfriend's funeral. Jackie's mom asked the owners of the store for a refund, which is against store policy. Instead they offered credit. But Jackie's mom said when she showed up to bring the dress back, they were nasty and unsympathetic.

Now her friends have started a Facebook page to call on boycotting the dress store.

Diane and Co. denies the accusations. Over the phone, owners said "this terrible tragic situation has been spun out of control. It's not a matter of being vicious or uncompassionate, but we are faced with tragedy all the time. And we weren't given a chance to rectify the situation."

A woman with a dress store in Indiana saw the Facebook page and offered to give Jackie a dress.

She still has the $1,200 store credit, which she is not sure she will.

Diane and Co. is standing firm on the no refund policy, but has offered to make a donation to a memorial set up in James name.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Miscellaneous
KEYWORDS: businessethics; dianeandco; dress; dresscoutoure; entitlement; funeral; genovese; jackiegenovese; morality; parenting; prom
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To: kalee
She or her mother can buy $1200 of clothes at the store AND a contribution has been offered for funeral expenses.

Who would want to shop there? They don't want to give any profit away. Their contribution to the memorial is in their name for advertising purposes - it's a plus for them!

I don't see generosity when the decision is a plus for them. What exactly did they give? The dress can be fitted to the next person who buys it as it was for her. And styles don't change that drastic from year to year and what prom dresses look like anymore they can fit any dress up occasion - so this dress is not committed for a certain season.


41 posted on 05/22/2011 11:30:55 AM PDT by presently no screen name
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To: rawhide

This is one of a number of stories on this. The msm love these type of stories. If all the msm types piling on the store feel this strongly about it, why didn’t they chip in a couple hundred each? As far as I can see no one from the store was driving the car her boyfriend died in. Yet, the store still went further than they needed to. Is she happy? Of course not! The store did not do exactly what SHE wanted them to. I am not unfeeling, but I also think reassigning fate to something human is ridiculous.


42 posted on 05/22/2011 11:32:03 AM PDT by Seabeejas
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To: presently no screen name; Palladin
Generally speaking, clothing is marked-up %100. A $100 garment generally cost the store around $50. The manufacturer generally marks it up %100 as well. That's why the clothing industry is almost nonexistent in this country.
43 posted on 05/22/2011 11:32:16 AM PDT by Perdogg (0bama got 0sama?? Really, was 0sama on the golf course?)
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To: rawhide

If this was a custom order I can see the no refud but if the dress is off the rack and never worn what is the problem?


44 posted on 05/22/2011 11:32:34 AM PDT by chris_bdba
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To: rawhide

If this was a custom order I can see the no refund but if the dress is off the rack and never worn what is the problem?


45 posted on 05/22/2011 11:32:38 AM PDT by chris_bdba
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To: GeronL
"Her sad story does not override the law/store policy."

Maybe when you grow up, you'll learn to read and see where I already acknowledged that.

"It’s actually irrelevent that her BF died."

No, in fact it's very relevant. She bought the dress to go to the prom with him. Now, as I already said, the store legally owes her nothing. The credit is pretty much meaningless, basically a slap in the face, "here you go little girl, run along and come back for another dress when you find yourself a new boyfriend."

As others here have indicated, and I can confirm having a girlfriend who was formerly an office manager in a bridal/tuxedo shop, the mark-ups on such dresses are nothing short of astronomical. At the height of prom and wedding season, yeah, the store might eat a small profit; but the good will and word of mouth advertising alone would have quickly recouped that and then some. It's a bad decision from both a business and moral standpoint.

46 posted on 05/22/2011 11:32:50 AM PDT by Joe 6-pack (Que me amat, amet et canem meum)
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To: rawhide

I suspect that dress shops hear many stories/reasons/excuses for dress returns. Of course it’s a tragedy but I’d guess that some girls have come in with clipped out obits to “ prove” their boyfriends are “dead”.


47 posted on 05/22/2011 11:33:47 AM PDT by InvisibleChurch (r e p e n t o r b e s a d)
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To: Mark was here
"Look her date for the evening did not pan out, and she wanted her money back. In a calculated ploy to not appear greedy, she had to quickly think of a charity to hide behind, thus the need to help pay for the funeral. Cold and calculating."

Yeah right. I'll bet if you look into it even further, you'll find she arranged the *accident* and had her boyfriend killed.

48 posted on 05/22/2011 11:36:56 AM PDT by Joe 6-pack (Que me amat, amet et canem meum)
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To: rawhide

Everybody has the “right” to do what they’re doing with this.

I guess its a standoff.

I think that the store was foolish not to grant the refund; its just one of those public relations decisions that some get right and some get wrong.


49 posted on 05/22/2011 11:38:07 AM PDT by editor-surveyor (Going 'EGYPT' - 2012!)
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To: Cowgirl of Justice

Did the mother ask or is it her contribution - the dress she bought to be with him at a milestone event she wants to contribute to his family for his burial. I happen to think it’s a very touching story - too bad the greedy retailers didn’t see it that way. I’ve long learned - what you give comes back many times over when you least expect it. Some don’t have it in their hearts for compassion when money is involved.


50 posted on 05/22/2011 11:38:36 AM PDT by presently no screen name
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To: Perdogg
but the labor is gone.

And so is a young man ready to graduate. I mourn their labor loss.
51 posted on 05/22/2011 11:43:15 AM PDT by presently no screen name
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To: presently no screen name

quite true, it is sad.


52 posted on 05/22/2011 11:46:54 AM PDT by Perdogg (0bama got 0sama?? Really, was 0sama on the golf course?)
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To: ClearCase_guy
Or is the evil business expected to be the fall guy 100%?

Considering a possible 100% percent markup, it's not too much a fall - is it?
53 posted on 05/22/2011 11:47:11 AM PDT by presently no screen name
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To: Joe 6-pack

You don’t get death certificates until weeks after the funeral, so that’s hardly possible.


54 posted on 05/22/2011 11:48:07 AM PDT by Melas
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To: Captain Peter Blood

I’m with you, Captain!!


55 posted on 05/22/2011 11:49:07 AM PDT by presently no screen name
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To: Mark was here

You’ve taken cynical to new heights.


56 posted on 05/22/2011 11:49:23 AM PDT by Melas
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To: Melas

Um...I was being sarcastic.


57 posted on 05/22/2011 11:50:27 AM PDT by Joe 6-pack (Que me amat, amet et canem meum)
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To: rawhide
Sorry about her boyfriend but sheesh--what kind of 16 year-old spends $1200 on a prom dress? She doesn't need a refund she needs a dose of reality.
58 posted on 05/22/2011 11:55:42 AM PDT by hinckley buzzard
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To: ladyvet
Just talking about the dress here....I would never let my 16 year old spend 1,200 bucks on one.

here, here, I wouldnt buy my wife a dress that expensive either. man do people not have priorities...i am thinking well maybe they are well to do,...then why would they need a refund?

59 posted on 05/22/2011 12:04:27 PM PDT by 09Patriot (your freedom to be you, includes my freedom to be from you.--Wilkow)
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To: Perdogg; Palladin

I agree. And you know what else is missing in our country - common sense.


60 posted on 05/22/2011 12:05:47 PM PDT by presently no screen name
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